@stevil

that's it, FPBN...

raw truth. period. someone that'll knock me to my senses when i need it, call me down...allow me to stand on my own two feet and use this little mind.

cloudy... stop talking down about yourself. gets you nowhere and no woman likes a man with no confidence.

and I was just stating what I see around me.. I wasn't judging you finger. all what I say is what I see around me.

sweet, greyhound...seems to be rare these days.

*high fives Lulu*

That's right sistah...

*Winks* You want too much...

LOL. Well good luck finding that insensitive ba*tard....

oh, and that doesn't mean i don't LIKE lust...but no, it's NOT the "replacement" for romance.

wow definitely sounds like my type

when I think of romance I think of frank sinatra....and serial killers

Well I love romance...Call me sappy!!!!!!!!

I've gone 25 years without self confidence...and even if I get a little bit of it, some jerk always takes it. So if I have nothing to take, than nobody will try to.

Different strokes different folks. If you don't want romance, OK.

Tomo...don't you have some blogging to do??? *mutters something about Santa*

No romance does not mean NO RESPECT.

Call it what you will, we all like to be treated in some special manner, at some time. Only human.

Allen...self-confidence can never be taken away...Because when you have it..You really don't care what others think...Because you are confident in who you are and that is enough!!!!!!!!

old sage you're like the buddha on these forums. you're awesome!

Romance is where you look for it...take for instance tonight...me and my new guy were sitting at the river in his car watching a heat lightning storm in a cloud with the moon coming up thru the adjacent cloud. Was perfect....

He calls me all the time just to tell me he was thinking about me and doesnt mind getting up at 530 to take me to breakfast before work. (I normally am not up til 730, but it makes a difference now)!

Its out there ladies and gents...you just have to find the right one!!!

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt

sounds like I have found my problem instead of a nice dinner, candy and flowers, treating her like a lady opening doors and all that other good stuff. am I just supposed to grab her arm while saying come on to my place we are going to have sex before I kick you out.

well all i know is . am not changeing for no one what ya see is what ya get...