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Dating never was fun for me. It's just something that you have to do in order to get through to a real relationship. for once I have to agree w/ artlo I really am not much of a dater in the traditional sense - I just like doing evryday things together and doing things as friends |
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So you don't get a rush learning all about them and their life? And seeing if there is a spark? No. I don't think you do learn all about them when you are dating. The biographical data is the least interesting stuff about a person. How they function in a relationship is what I'm after. You don't learn that until you're actually in the relationship. If there is a spark, the biographical data is just the details. Without the spark all you are doing is digging away at eachothers' masks.
The biographical data is part of the person and learning all about them and how they have dealt with things is how you get to know a person. Its all the time you spend getting to know that person that is fun...I enjoy it. 
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I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life. Not that at all. I'm one of those people who have "a problem with authority". This seems like a special kind of problem. Surely there are many men who are comfortable in that kind of environment. I don't know what to tell you.
Hmm, so you think I would be authorative in a relationship. There is a thing called leave your work at work which I do. I don't wear a uniform 24/7 and don't bark orders at a boyfriend. I am actually very laid back and don't have hissy fits if a guy doesn't call or doesn't come home when he says he will. |
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I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life. Not that at all. I'm one of those people who have "a problem with authority". This seems like a special kind of problem. Surely there are many men who are comfortable in that kind of environment. I don't know what to tell you.
Hmm, so you think I would be authorative in a relationship. There is a thing called leave your work at work which I do. I don't wear a uniform 24/7 and don't bark orders at a boyfriend. I am actually very laid back and don't have hissy fits if a guy doesn't call or doesn't come home when he says he will. canada is looking a lot closer 
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I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life. Not that at all. I'm one of those people who have "a problem with authority". This seems like a special kind of problem. Surely there are many men who are comfortable in that kind of environment. I don't know what to tell you.
Hmm, so you think I would be authorative in a relationship. There is a thing called leave your work at work which I do. I don't wear a uniform 24/7 and don't bark orders at a boyfriend. I am actually very laid back and don't have hissy fits if a guy doesn't call or doesn't come home when he says he will. u mean ur not one of those girls who tells the man that there will be sex here tonight at 9pm whether ur here or not? 
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So you don't get a rush learning all about them and their life? And seeing if there is a spark? No. I don't think you do learn all about them when you are dating. The biographical data is the least interesting stuff about a person. How they function in a relationship is what I'm after. You don't learn that until you're actually in the relationship. If there is a spark, the biographical data is just the details. Without the spark all you are doing is digging away at eachothers' masks.
The biographical data is part of the person and learning all about them and how they have dealt with things is how you get to know a person. Its all the time you spend getting to know that person that is fun...I enjoy it.
i think deep purple had it right with: it's not the kill, it's the thrill of the chase |
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So you don't get a rush learning all about them and their life? And seeing if there is a spark? No. I don't think you do learn all about them when you are dating. The biographical data is the least interesting stuff about a person. How they function in a relationship is what I'm after. You don't learn that until you're actually in the relationship. If there is a spark, the biographical data is just the details. Without the spark all you are doing is digging away at eachothers' masks.
The biographical data is part of the person and learning all about them and how they have dealt with things is how you get to know a person. Its all the time you spend getting to know that person that is fun...I enjoy it.
i think deep purple had it right with: it's not the kill, it's the thrill of the chase it's the dance 
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I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life. Not that at all. I'm one of those people who have "a problem with authority". This seems like a special kind of problem. Surely there are many men who are comfortable in that kind of environment. I don't know what to tell you.
Hmm, so you think I would be authorative in a relationship. There is a thing called leave your work at work which I do. I don't wear a uniform 24/7 and don't bark orders at a boyfriend. I am actually very laid back and don't have hissy fits if a guy doesn't call or doesn't come home when he says he will. u mean ur not one of those girls who tells the man that there will be sex here tonight at 9pm whether ur here or not?
Ha Ha. Too funny. Actually I wouldn't get upset because I would probably be out with my friends and have the cell phone turned off. Don't want my good time ruined. 
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I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life. Not that at all. I'm one of those people who have "a problem with authority". This seems like a special kind of problem. Surely there are many men who are comfortable in that kind of environment. I don't know what to tell you.
Hmm, so you think I would be authorative in a relationship. There is a thing called leave your work at work which I do. I don't wear a uniform 24/7 and don't bark orders at a boyfriend. I am actually very laid back and don't have hissy fits if a guy doesn't call or doesn't come home when he says he will. canada is looking a lot closer
Us Canadians don't bite... much. |
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Hmm, so you think I would be authorative in a relationship. There is a thing called leave your work at work which I do. I don't wear a uniform 24/7 and don't bark orders at a boyfriend. I am actually very laid back and don't have hissy fits if a guy doesn't call or doesn't come home when he says he will. I didn't think that at all. I said I would question That. It would be more a matter of whether you could put up wioth somebody as undisciplined as me.
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I get that all the time. Its like my militay career is as bad as being a criminal and I feel like I will be punished for it the rest of my life. Not that at all. I'm one of those people who have "a problem with authority". This seems like a special kind of problem. Surely there are many men who are comfortable in that kind of environment. I don't know what to tell you.
Hmm, so you think I would be authorative in a relationship. There is a thing called leave your work at work which I do. I don't wear a uniform 24/7 and don't bark orders at a boyfriend. I am actually very laid back and don't have hissy fits if a guy doesn't call or doesn't come home when he says he will. u mean ur not one of those girls who tells the man that there will be sex here tonight at 9pm whether ur here or not?
Ha Ha. Too funny. Actually I wouldn't get upset because I would probably be out with my friends and have the cell phone turned off. Don't want my good time ruined.
girls night out can be fun sometimes! Are u planning to behave on yours? |
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You mean dating is supposed to be fun?
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Hell yeah! I love to see the looks on their faces when they realize i have spotted them and they can't run away without being rude. MUUWAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA!
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I never really dated, just ended up with people who I was friends with.
I would hate to have to meet people i didnt know well, I am to shy to just be able to relax easily, if i had to date it would be with a group. that way I wouldnt have to try and think of things to say. |
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You mean dating is supposed to be fun?
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