hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible?

In principal, there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex of any kind with anybody at any time or at any frequency. It's all the contingencies and those nasty consequences. I don't think I really have to tell your that.

with anybody means what?

Your girlfriend, her boyfriend, your cousin, your sister, a vacuum cleaner, a goat. All you're doing is sticking your weenie into something and having an orgasm. It's those pesky consequences that shut down your options.

Brother would you buy a tv without seeing the quality of the picture?........

Sex before marriage is a personal choice. It is deemed good or bad, morally speaking, depending on who you are talking with. Some people choose not to have sex before marriage based on religious beliefs. While others feel that you must test the sexual chemistry before marriage just in case its bad sex. For some bad sex is a deal breaker.
As far as pregnancy goes, it takes 2 to make a baby so both parties are responsible. I personally believe that if a girl gets pregnant before marriage, that marriage is not required. I feel its better to have parents that are not married and happy and civil towards each other than to get married when you are not ready and hate each other because if it.

consensual = good

ruffies = bad....or so i hear

if i don't get past second base on the first date ..well you know the rest

well...iam very inspired from your views your partner is so lucky. can we become a good freinds....i already send a freind request.plz accept

any consequences of premarital sex are shared equally by the lady & gentleman involved.

whether or not it is good or bad is a value judgment left up to the individuals involved. A lot of people postpone marriage these days or don't marry at all, so it had become more acceptable for long term partners to be intimate even if they might not condone casual sex , one niters, etc, they have a commitment.

For me it is not good to have sex before marriage, because God specifically said so in the Bible.

Really you ever seen 2 virgins on a honeymoon? that's something i'd pay to see....."Honey where does it go?" "I don't know i've never done this before" "Call room service maybe they can help"

I am not saying sex needs to happen on the first date but long before any talk of marriage, at least give the guy some incentive to commit himself...lol

hi sweetheart...there is lots of things mention in the BIBLE but no one follow all the things..if you beleaved sex is not good before marrige..its may be true and i realy respect to your views. but according to me it is just a part of life and we have to do..but never cheat with our partner if you make a sexual relation with any1 then you should spent your whole life as a life patner too.

I know a lot of people don't follow the Bible and it is sad,,. well at least I do follow it, and I will live with that. Thank you for respecting my views though I appreciate it.

I pretty much agree with drgnflychaser. Having sex before marriage is a personal choice. It doesn't make it right or wrong, and someone who chooses to practice this freedom is not made less of a person because of it.

It is a personal choice, but I feel if you have any self-respect you will wait. Just my opinion, please don't throw rocks

Sex is a natural thing.
It is only societies 'mores' that dictate
when, where, why, who and how.
Self respect is only involved if you alone
go against your own standards.
Holding others to your own ideals is
simply the act of judging without facts.

I agree with what you are saying soufiehere.

What I am saying is that I will not give up my self-respect for someone elses sexual needs.

I do realize it is a personal decision and I do respect your views