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Topic: They say everyone struggles
winterblue56's photo
Fri 02/25/11 09:36 PM

it may sound harsh, but you are not responsible for how others feel or don't feel. you can't save the world, and would be foolish to try. you have been blessed with six little ones, and they are your concern.
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Hmm but it sems to bother others. and how I deal with things doesnt always make everyone happy.
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welcome to life, live yours and damn the torpedoes. i get upset when i see two people meet on here and i am still getting shot down in flames day after day. does my frustration show in my posts. i quickly pick up my big dog snoopy boxers and keep posting in the hopes some lady hits me up. you got yours, be happy already sheesh btw i'm secretly happy for you both :thumbsup:


I'd hit you up in a heartbeat Bulldog if you weren't so far away :smile:

gummykiss's photo
Fri 02/25/11 09:42 PM
Love.

At least for one day.

Without it, you can't risk getting hurt.

But sometimes the risk is worth it...

That's why, only for a day.

indifferent

winterblue56's photo
Fri 02/25/11 09:46 PM
I got accused of living in "Sherry's World" when I was married because I tried to stay positive about so much that was negative in my life at that time. The same as above, I was told that I was thinking "unrealistically" about whatever the situation was. I suppose I was many times; but it was prettier in my world than his :wink: .

josie68's photo
Fri 02/25/11 10:04 PM

I got accused of living in "Sherry's World" when I was married because I tried to stay positive about so much that was negative in my life at that time. The same as above, I was told that I was thinking "unrealistically" about whatever the situation was. I suppose I was many times; but it was prettier in my world than his :wink: .


Yep my world is very pretty too,flowerforyou until people try and push the yuckiness in..:angry:

Loy822's photo
Fri 02/25/11 10:07 PM
Mine's a toss up - guilt / insecurity

I've never had a lot of confidence and I feel guilty about almost everything -

winterblue56's photo
Sun 02/27/11 08:14 AM

Mine's a toss up - guilt / insecurity

I've never had a lot of confidence and I feel guilty about almost everything -


My feeling is insecurities follow most of us all our lives with too many to mention. But they fade away as time goes on. Each time you overcome one, you get to look back and gain courage to hurdle the next one. It's a beautiful sight/feeling. Then someday you ask yourself "who is this person me?"...and you know.

Feeling bad about the things we have done means that we have a reverance for the good/right things to do. We are all human and will not be perfect until God decides to take us to sit next to him in heaven. "I'm sorry" and "I love you" are the sweetest words in the vocabulary flowerforyou .

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Sun 02/27/11 08:22 AM



I'd hit you up in a heartbeat Bulldog if you weren't so far away :smile:


story of my life, a day late and a dollar short. i guess i'm going to have to move where the girls are

winterblue56's photo
Sun 02/27/11 08:25 AM


I got accused of living in "Sherry's World" when I was married because I tried to stay positive about so much that was negative in my life at that time. The same as above, I was told that I was thinking "unrealistically" about whatever the situation was. I suppose I was many times; but it was prettier in my world than his :wink: .


Yep my world is very pretty too,flowerforyou until people try and push the yuckiness in..:angry:


Very sadly family and friends will live their lives through your life. They don't know when to cut the strings and let the kite fly on it's own. They somehow feel "superior" because their child is a Dentist or a Surgeon...even if their child's
"happy" state stinks. For me, I just want my children to be happy. I want to be a shoulder for them to cry or lean on when they need me. I want to be the shelter for them when they fall and be there holding the cane when they get back up. I won't be on this earth for too much longer; so my job now is to get/keep them close to God.

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