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Topic: They say everyone struggles
Italy0219's photo
Tue 02/22/11 07:21 PM
with something, what do you struggle with and do you believe that some of these things are what keeps you from really succeeding. What one feeling would you like to get rid of if you could?

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Tue 02/22/11 08:00 PM
the economy has been a ***** lately. the feeling of never being debt free can be overwhelming to a lot of folks. it can lead to severe depression. depression is so depressing that i would have to say i wouldn't mind if that never comes my way

josie68's photo
Tue 02/22/11 09:07 PM
Hmmm
I guess, I struggle with myself..

I know who I am, but sometimes, I struggle with the fact that people want me to be more normal.

Hmm not sure what normal is, but obviously not what I am.

I struggle to stay me, to not let insecurities make me be what others want.

That I am getting older but dont want to grow up. Hm I dont mean in age, but I guess mentally, I am not interested in being serious or seeing anything bad around me..
Yep its immature and believe me i am told it often enough, but normally my life is very very happy and easy being like that.

Its not that I am not responsible, as i run a business, and have 6 children, Its just taht i dont want to see the bad around me or the bad in people.. I love my little happy world..

Hmm but it sems to bother others. and how I deal with things doesnt always make everyone happy.

The one feeling i would get rid of if i could... hmmmmmm , I guess it would have to be, feeling so yucky when peole I care about get hurt..

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Tue 02/22/11 09:13 PM
normal??

normal is a setting on a washing machine


Who defines normal?

Who are these people that want you to be more normal???

You are the one that has to 'deal with things' - if how you deal with things does not make others happy you really shouldn't go changing yourself to please them.

Don't change the Josie we've all come to know and love flowerforyou

And you wouldn't be you if you didn't feel yucky when others get hurt - that makes you you -- the one we love flowerforyou

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Tue 02/22/11 09:20 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Tue 02/22/11 09:22 PM
it may sound harsh, but you are not responsible for how others feel or don't feel. you can't save the world, and would be foolish to try. you have been blessed with six little ones, and they are your concern.
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Hmm but it sems to bother others. and how I deal with things doesnt always make everyone happy.
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welcome to life, live yours and damn the torpedoes. i get upset when i see two people meet on here and i am still getting shot down in flames day after day. does my frustration show in my posts. i quickly pick up my big dog snoopy boxers and keep posting in the hopes some lady hits me up. you got yours, be happy already sheesh btw i'm secretly happy for you both :thumbsup:

Cheer_up's photo
Tue 02/22/11 09:22 PM
Life has ups and downs and people struggle through it but what i struggle most with is health issues and 1 day i hope i feel better if doctors can ever help another thing i hate when friends hurt that i care for i try and look out for them as i guess thats in me as i use to be a bouncer years ago and help out people that way but sometimes i struggle with people that don't look and take in knowledge about life that is written by doctors i also struggle with my pillows at night lolllllllll to get the right way to sleep comfortable :thumbsup:

josie68's photo
Tue 02/22/11 09:32 PM
Edited by josie68 on Tue 02/22/11 09:37 PM

normal??

normal is a setting on a washing machine


Who defines normal?

Who are these people that want you to be more normal???

You are the one that has to 'deal with things' - if how you deal with things does not make others happy you really shouldn't go changing yourself to please them.

Don't change the Josie we've all come to know and love flowerforyou

And you wouldn't be you if you didn't feel yucky when others get hurt - that makes you you -- the one we love flowerforyou


rofl rofl rofl rofl Maybe i am the normal one and everyone else is abnormalrofl rofl rofl

josie68's photo
Tue 02/22/11 09:35 PM

it may sound harsh, but you are not responsible for how others feel or don't feel. you can't save the world, and would be foolish to try. you have been blessed with six little ones, and they are your concern.
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Hmm but it sems to bother others. and how I deal with things doesnt always make everyone happy.
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welcome to life, live yours and damn the torpedoes. i get upset when i see two people meet on here and i am still getting shot down in flames day after day. does my frustration show in my posts. i quickly pick up my big dog snoopy boxers and keep posting in the hopes some lady hits me up. you got yours, be happy already sheesh btw i'm secretly happy for you both :thumbsup:


rofl rofl rofl bummer have to learn to dodge those torpedoes. rofl rofl rofl

Ok no more sooking, You know you lot are all fantastic, I have no idea why any of you are single..

mssilverfox's photo
Tue 02/22/11 09:36 PM

the economy has been a ***** lately. the feeling of never being debt free can be overwhelming to a lot of folks. it can lead to severe depression. depression is so depressing that i would have to say i wouldn't mind if that never comes my way



Depression can be devastating.. I had a breakdown when I was 23.. I struggle with that mostly in the winter.. I definately know I need to be where the sun shines then! lol I've learned to ask for help with that if and when I feel I need it.. I've had 7 surgerys and 3 health issues I deal with but you pick yourself up and move on. I'm not ready to watch the world pass me by yet...

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Tue 02/22/11 09:37 PM


the economy has been a ***** lately. the feeling of never being debt free can be overwhelming to a lot of folks. it can lead to severe depression. depression is so depressing that i would have to say i wouldn't mind if that never comes my way



Depression can be devastating.. I had a breakdown when I was 23.. I struggle with that mostly in the winter.. I definately know I need to be where the sun shines then! lol I've learned to ask for help with that if and when I feel I need it.. I've had 7 surgerys and 3 health issues I deal with but you pick yourself up and move on. I'm not ready to watch the world pass me by yet...


plenty of sunshine in texas (having you here would beautify the state)

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Tue 02/22/11 10:44 PM

normal??

normal is a setting on a washing machine


Who defines normal?

Who are these people that want you to be more normal???

You are the one that has to 'deal with things' - if how you deal with things does not make others happy you really shouldn't go changing yourself to please them.



:thumbsup:

newarkjw's photo
Tue 02/22/11 11:12 PM

What one feeling would you like to get rid of if you could?


This is a really good question. Makes ya think. My answer is restless.....smokin

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Tue 02/22/11 11:15 PM
What one feeling would I like to get rid of?

I GUESS,,,that would be,,,my loneliness....smokin

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Tue 02/22/11 11:16 PM

What one feeling would you like to get rid of if you could?


Anxiety over an unpredictable unforeseen future.

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Thu 02/24/11 06:40 PM

normal??

normal is a setting on a washing machine


Who defines normal?

Who are these people that want you to be more normal???

You are the one that has to 'deal with things' - if how you deal with things does not make others happy you really shouldn't go changing yourself to please them.

Don't change the Josie we've all come to know and love flowerforyou

And you wouldn't be you if you didn't feel yucky when others get hurt - that makes you you -- the one we love flowerforyou


I agree with lookinaround Josie! Stay as u r! Ima goof too - always happy - love everyone - can't stand it any other way

but ya I also get accused of being unrealistic -WHATevahwhoa

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Thu 02/24/11 06:42 PM


What one feeling would you like to get rid of if you could?


This is a really good question. Makes ya think. My answer is restless.....smokin


but if u got rid of restless you might give up comin up north to go fishinnoway

josie68's photo
Thu 02/24/11 11:25 PM


normal??

normal is a setting on a washing machine


Who defines normal?

Who are these people that want you to be more normal???

You are the one that has to 'deal with things' - if how you deal with things does not make others happy you really shouldn't go changing yourself to please them.

Don't change the Josie we've all come to know and love flowerforyou

And you wouldn't be you if you didn't feel yucky when others get hurt - that makes you you -- the one we love flowerforyou


I agree with lookinaround Josie! Stay as u r! Ima goof too - always happy - love everyone - can't stand it any other way

but ya I also get accused of being unrealistic -WHATevahwhoa


what I know its so strange,what
whoa everyone loves us how we are.. whoa
frustrated But everyone thinks that we should see the world more realistically,frustrated
sad2 but then we wouldnt be who we are,sad2
slaphead but someone completely different, Serious, sad, grumpy.slaphead

josie68's photo
Thu 02/24/11 11:26 PM

What one feeling would I like to get rid of?

I GUESS,,,that would be,,,my loneliness....smokin


Hmmm, save up, come to Astralia and we can all have a mingle party.:banana:

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Fri 02/25/11 03:27 AM


What one feeling would I like to get rid of?

I GUESS,,,that would be,,,my loneliness....smokin


Hmmm, save up, come to Astralia and we can all have a mingle party.:banana:
That would be a very COOL vacation,,I could meet a few friends I have there,who I've always wanted to meet..YEAH...drinker :banana: :banana:
tears but,,that would mean. I'd have to fly....shocked

ajagirl's photo
Fri 02/25/11 06:22 AM
The Feeling of REGRET.

I hate myself recalling the moment and asking myself why did I?....,

So now in everything I do, I put my best on it so I will not feel this feeling anymore..,,,

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