Topic: Do Women Lose there Femininity | |
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Some women just dont have feminity. My Uncle Becky is a great gal and one of my favorite family-in-law members. She has zero feminity but, it just seems natural cause she is who she is. I love her.
On the other hand, I have seen some awesomely feminine WOMAN women. But, it matters not....people will like what they will like and think what they think. |
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Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this. I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think. I think someone has a very narrow view of what constitutes femininity. |
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Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this. I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think. I guess if one equates innocence with femininity as many probably do, than it would be true. If one considers maturity just as feminine, however, than it would not be true. I think also our culture does not do much to encourage, support, or promote the domestic side of men, and even to the point of belittling men for having domestic skills in many cases. So the comparison to being domestic is similar to being not masculine. Likewise, with women, our culture does not encourage, support, or promote financial independence or careers, even to the point of belittling women for having careers(particularly if they have children or if they have spouses who feel they dont get the complete attention that they wish to get) in many cases. So the comparison to being career minded or money driven is similar to being not feminine. I think adults should have domestic and career skills. I think it is significant once someone is in a relationship to divide those skills according to ability(the MORE domestic concentrating on those responsibilities and the MORE career minded concentrating on those responsibilities). I think it is often a clash when both people continue to try to do it all as if they are still alone. There is a certain vulnerability and trust required on both parts that often doesnt happen or when it does happen it is often taken for granted that one partner has to handle ALL responsibilities which are domestic or ALL responsibilities which are financial. I tend to think of nurturing women as more FEMININE, and protective providers as more MASCULINE, but I think there are many levles of Feminine and Masculine that fall in between. Older women probably have had to do more of the things that men were traditionally trusted to do and instead of stepping up their own game men have come to flip it on the woman and hold it against her. |
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Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this. I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think. I guess if one equates innocence with femininity as many probably do, than it would be true. If one considers maturity just as feminine, however, than it would not be true. I think also our culture does not do much to encourage, support, or promote the domestic side of men, and even to the point of belittling men for having domestic skills in many cases. So the comparison to being domestic is similar to being not masculine. Likewise, with women, our culture does not encourage, support, or promote financial independence or careers, even to the point of belittling women for having careers(particularly if they have children or if they have spouses who feel they dont get the complete attention that they wish to get) in many cases. So the comparison to being career minded or money driven is similar to being not feminine. I think adults should have domestic and career skills. I think it is significant once someone is in a relationship to divide those skills according to ability(the MORE domestic concentrating on those responsibilities and the MORE career minded concentrating on those responsibilities). I think it is often a clash when both people continue to try to do it all as if they are still alone. There is a certain vulnerability and trust required on both parts that often doesnt happen or when it does happen it is often taken for granted that one partner has to handle ALL responsibilities which are domestic or ALL responsibilities which are financial. I tend to think of nurturing women as more FEMININE, and protective providers as more MASCULINE, but I think there are many levles of Feminine and Masculine that fall in between. Older women probably have had to do more of the things that men were traditionally trusted to do and instead of stepping up their own game men have come to flip it on the woman and hold it against her. Very nicely said! Thanks! |
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knew their was gonna be a thread about this ,but if he likes a 20 year old ....at least he is being straight forward but i think your problem is because he don't date older women .... that kinda hit a nerve .... there are women out there the same age as this fellow ,even on this site that dont date older men , its a win win situation well some people do lose their femininity the older they get .....just saying |
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I will date you, your niece and your grandma...in theory, that should make me seem more attractive to women ....cause I am not age biased. But, the reality is chicks WILL gripe about it.
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I am more woman now at 50, than ever before, i know myself and feel confidant about who I am, what I like and dont like and dont hesitate to make my needs known...if by "femininity" one refers to being male identified...IE: living up (or down) to male-sexist stero-typical standards of what and how a female should be..well then the answer to that is HELL NO...
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Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this. I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think. |
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Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this. I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think. uuhhh..maybe for you...I dont even try to go that rout..Im 50...the warranty on the body expired some time ago..what I have is confidence, experience and a hell of an independent spirit that many find waaaay more attractive than what a 20-something has to offer. |
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krupa your such a man...w
lmao |
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and you TOO Sonic |
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Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this. I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think. uuhhh..maybe for you...I dont even try to go that rout..Im 50...the warranty on the body expired some time ago..what I have is confidence, experience and a hell of an independent spirit that many find waaaay more attractive than what a 20-something has to offer. |
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Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this. I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think. |
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and you TOO Sonic [/quote so are you J .. king of manw..........ness lol |
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yeth i am
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Just like so many other things, it depends on the individual. Some women get nothing but sexier. Some never were and never will be.
It's a state of mind. |
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Most guys I know want a woman between 25 and 35. It's just a fact I've pretty much accepted.
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Alice your such a wonderful woman ,Let me just say this 'if everyday is an awakening, you will never grow old.
you will just keep growing ...... |
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Most guys I know want a woman between 25 and 35. It's just a fact I've pretty much accepted. the guys i know only date between woman 30 and up and they are under 25 have accept that also J you should be ashame of yourself !!! lmao |
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