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I don't have to worry. My girl is 4 11 what does that mean? This is how I took it: His female partner is 4' 11" tall, and he is presumably closer to 'average height', so there is no issue of the societal expectations (internalized or otherwise) that the man be taller than the women causing any kind of discomfort in their relationship. a hah!! see, I didnt see the measurement indicators, I was thinking more of the number we call to get telephone information and it through me off,,,lol thanx for clarifying |
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what is justifiable for me is decided by me & me alone -for you to say that a choice of a man I make is justifiable or not is not only absurd but a little scary on the control freaky side
Perhaps "justifiable" was the wrong word to sum up my point, but I meant justifiable only by the individual. It wasn't my intention to give consent or approval. It doesn't matter to me if someone has preferences, or if those preferences are deal-breakers. I pointed out my own tendency to be shallow, too, and I tried to explain that physical attraction is important from a biological perspective. My message to the OP is that yes, it's a preference, yes, it's shallow, and no, she doesn't need to feel guilty for it (which seems to be an underlying issue, since being shallow is considered such a negative thing by most people). The only caveat I posed was that such preferences not lead one to unhealthy relationships, which is generally the opposite of what people are seeking or find rewarding in the long run. I apologize if any of that came across as absurd, scary, or control freaky. |
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I don't have to worry. My girl is 4 11 what does that mean? This is how I took it: His female partner is 4' 11" tall, and he is presumably closer to 'average height', so there is no issue of the societal expectations (internalized or otherwise) that the man be taller than the women causing any kind of discomfort in their relationship. a hah!! see, I didnt see the measurement indicators, I was thinking more of the number we call to get telephone information and it through me off,,,lol thanx for clarifying Exactly, I do most of this on my phone and to add 4'11" is just so many extra button presses. XD Yes she is short and I am average height. She would have to wear like 9 inch heals to be my height so I don't have to worry. |
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I like fat girls, with a BMI of 32 at minimum, hairy armpits, heavy mustache, unshaven legs, raspy voice. Must be uneducated in the wrong way, and puke in my face every time I kiss her. She must step on my toes in the kitchen as I cook, and she must occupy the toilet at least 10 hours of my waking time every day. The remaining seven she ought to be constantly eating, belching, smashing the pumpkins, and write letters to the Republican Party's "Youth Enlightenment Logo".
Am I shallow? I know that these days good looking girls have a tuff time finding dates and love, but still, just because I don't want them, there must be someone for them... like a good looking feller with a medical diploma. We can't all be winners, and if someone does not fit my sexual preferences, they can always eat more, exercise less, use tincture to dye their hair, and habitually use "Sechumm" or "Garsh" reodorant sticks. |
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not shallow you have to be attracted to the person for it to work otherwise you may as well go to a bar and pick up the first booze filled guy that winks at you
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