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Topic: Red Flags/Pet Peeves/Turn-Offs
Okami04 Joined Tue 11/03/09 Posts: 1596	Tue 01/18/11 09:57 PM
arrogance ~ huge ego harsh and critical of others lack of compassion lack of integrity bad temper no spiritual edge anything else i can work with..those hell no, probably won't even want to be a friend to any one that fits that list... Ego I got one that Kanya West can't even match lol I am very harsh and critical of people not living up to their potential lack of compassion military weeded that crap out Integrity is something I ahve pride in bad temper not so much I can control it except when I am around morons lol I am with Chazster What The Hell is a spiritual edge Does being a Taoist give me a spiritual edge is it is what i think it is it does lo I am not a match haha

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Wed 01/19/11 09:01 AM
Hmmmmm someone who doesnt make me laugh..

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 01/19/11 09:07 AM
If, in a past life, she was a Nun. I mean, I couldn't shag a Nun...or even a past life Nun.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 01/19/11 02:45 PM
Rude and smoking. Those are each about 2 point deductions. I agree rude smoking discourteous watch how your date treats: 1. his/her mom 2. children 3. waitresses that is how u will ultimately be treated

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 01/19/11 06:20 PM
If, in a past life, she was a Nun. I mean, I couldn't shag a Nun...or even a past life Nun. Thank you Torgo! Now, I have sinned!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 01/19/11 07:29 PM
Red flags include: Sexual reference in their screen name Sexual acts they prefer in their profile References to how much they like/need/want sex in their profile Questions about sex in the early stages of emailing Being divorced for less than one year or recently out of a long term relationship Talking too fondly of their party and drug days or still using Serious mental illness I'm sure there are more....

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Wed 01/19/11 07:34 PM
Red flags include: Sexual reference in their screen name Sexual acts they prefer in their profile References to how much they like/need/want sex in their profile Questions about sex in the early stages of emailing Being divorced for less than one year or recently out of a long term relationship Talking too fondly of their party and drug days or still using Serious mental illness I'm sure there are more.... actually that is a good list i just can't think of many then saying i love you first email or just hey or when u email someone an they don't email you back or if you email for awhile then all a sudden them stop for no reason

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Wed 01/19/11 07:36 PM
Being unemployed is a big red flag although not a deal breaker in this recession. It depends on why and for how long they've been unemployed.

steelersgurl Joined Sat 01/22/11 Posts: 14	Sat 01/22/11 02:01 PM
Profile picture with no shirt on (arrogant)and bad teeth.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 01/22/11 03:56 PM
Turnoffs are smoker, single dads, heavy drinkers, drug users, and guys that love their pets more than people.

Nyteflame Joined Sat 10/25/08 Posts: 338	Sat 01/22/11 04:19 PM
Any kind of tobacco use, and spitting in public are huge turn offs for me. There are others first, but these are "first impression" types of things, things you can see immediately.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/22/11 05:23 PM
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