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Topic: Red Flags/Pet Peeves/Turn-Offs
msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/17/11 04:59 PM
oh my, there is no absolute mind you, because adults should be able to speak openly and honestly(with respect) and compromise on things that are important to them but Id say the following things make me a bit uncomfortable when meeting people in person and keep me moving on to the next when checking profiles or pictures 1. Anyone over the age of thirty who still speaks as if they are in high school 2. Anyone whose age range stops at the age they were TEN YEARS ago or longer 3. Anyone whose regularly got a drink in their hand or who is either consistently serious or consistently goofy,,, 4. Anyone with kids they dont support. 5. Anyone who belittles the bible or God. 6. Anyone who has a bad family relationship with parents, siblings,, whatever 7. Anyone who looks like a walking art exhibit(tattoos, piercings, etc,,) 8. Anyone who 'doesnt like' kids 9. Cat persons,,lol 10. Clothes that dont fit(either too tight or DROOPING and too big) 11. Any extremely political folks who seem to have a passionate dislike of one party or another or one politician or another 12. Anyone whose screen name is an obvious sexual reference or body reference. 13. Those who make the gym their second home or second job. I dont like to share my romance with anyones obsessions..lol 14. Anyone who is a constant victim or perpetual bully. 15. ,,, I think thats it,, probably why Im still single , huh? lol it is a pretty long list lol, yeah I know. seems the longer I manage to be ok on my own, the longer the list gets,,,,I think it comes with less urgency to be a part of a relationship ,,,,

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Mon 01/17/11 05:06 PM
The conversation later on turns into lies. Big Red Flag.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Mon 01/17/11 05:19 PM
Women with no faces!

brittanyshaw Joined Tue 09/28/10 Posts: 1931	Mon 01/17/11 06:54 PM
Ego is awesome lol I would have to say a turn off is someone who likes Jersey Shore haha I hope she sees this lol someone who doesn't like Jersey Shore

Okami04 Joined Tue 11/03/09 Posts: 1596	Mon 01/17/11 07:56 PM
Ego is awesome lol I would have to say a turn off is someone who likes Jersey Shore haha I hope she sees this lol someone who doesn't like Jersey Shore LOL loser in love with dumarse guys lol

brittanyshaw Joined Tue 09/28/10 Posts: 1931	Mon 01/17/11 07:58 PM
Lovee? who said anything about love?

lolitaalicious Joined Mon 01/17/11 Posts: 13	Mon 01/17/11 08:00 PM
My biggest turn off would be someone lying to impress me. Which has happened a few times on first dates.

Okami04 Joined Tue 11/03/09 Posts: 1596	Mon 01/17/11 08:02 PM
Good luck to the Lass with the crazy list lol

Corazone Joined Wed 12/15/10 Posts: 63	Mon 01/17/11 08:14 PM
might seem trivial but NOSE HAIR yuuuuk

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Mon 01/17/11 08:28 PM
might seem trivial but NOSE HAIR yuuuuk Hanage? Or Fists of the Nose Hair?

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Mon 01/17/11 08:28 PM
P.S. Hanage means Nose Hair in Japanese!

Okami04 Joined Tue 11/03/09 Posts: 1596	Mon 01/17/11 08:35 PM
lol Andy your the man that gave me some Tokyo flashbacks lol

sunshineqxw Joined Mon 01/17/11 Posts: 13	Mon 01/17/11 10:56 PM
being secretive, shaddy

Corazone Joined Wed 12/15/10 Posts: 63	Tue 01/18/11 12:27 AM
P.S. Hanage means Nose Hair in Japanese! In any language its gross and Very distracting....on a great looking guy...all i see are those dang danglers Please gentlemen trim those babies up...they may be ALL thats keeping u from a good hook up

GravelRidgeBoy Joined Thu 01/06/11 Posts: 507	Tue 01/18/11 06:48 PM
LOL...Some of these are common sense like rudeness and such and I guess I have more of a list than I thought because I agree with a bunch of these. But I had no idea that nose hair would be such a big deal...lol

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 01/18/11 07:34 PM
If, in a past life, she was a Nun. I mean, I couldn't shag a Nun...or even a past life Nun. No way I could confess that to a child molesting priest.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 01/18/11 08:45 PM
If, in a past life, she was a Nun. I mean, I couldn't shag a Nun...or even a past life Nun. No way I could confess that to a child molesting priest. makes me think of another anyone who had changed their gender or been sexually involved with members of the same sex prior,,,,but thats not usually something you just discover by looking at someone,,,,,lol

Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Tue 01/18/11 08:50 PM
Rude and smoking. Those are each about 2 point deductions.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 01/18/11 08:51 PM
arrogance ~ huge ego harsh and critical of others lack of compassion lack of integrity bad temper no spiritual edge anything else i can work with..those hell no, probably won't even want to be a friend to any one that fits that list...

Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Tue 01/18/11 08:52 PM
arrogance ~ huge ego harsh and critical of others lack of compassion lack of integrity bad temper no spiritual edge anything else i can work with..those hell no, probably won't even want to be a friend to any one that fits that list... Whats a spiritual edge?