Topic: Giving Up The FWB
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Sun 11/28/10 08:22 PM


if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


but that is the reality. many women (and maybe men too) are secretly hoping that the FWB will become something more and gree to it wiht that hope, but I have sledom seen it become anything more, and I've seen lots of hurt and way too much drama come from it

GLG2009's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:22 PM




This is why I would never be a FWB.
:thumbsup:



fireflysgirl's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:23 PM


if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


I reserved FWB status for those I was attracted to but would not date seriously!

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Sun 11/28/10 08:23 PM
This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:

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Sun 11/28/10 08:23 PM





maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock


but that's the whole point - if you agree to FWB you basically have no "right's" or entitlement to know anything or have any influential opinion - what an FWB thinks doesn't count as there is no commitment

I mean I would hope people care about each other's feelings, but with FWB u take ur chances....


I dont agree...FWB should be no less important than any other intimate relationship...you have all the rights and entitlements of friendship and deserve to be treated with no less respect than any other person.
What about just Hitting it, and Quitting it? No names, addresses, or telephone numbers.


Hit it fast....hit it strong! :thumbsup:
make it last
all night long (u bad man)laugh

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Sun 11/28/10 08:23 PM

...

the benfit's newark, are pretty much confined to concensual sex w/ FWB arrangements altho I am sure there are various variations on the themelaugh

surprised

GLG2009's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:23 PM



if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


but that is the reality. many women (and maybe men too) are secretly hoping that the FWB will become something more and gree to it wiht that hope, but I have sledom seen it become anything more, and I've seen lots of hurt and way too much drama come from it


Yes, that's right!

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Sun 11/28/10 08:24 PM

This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
just wait Ruth he'll give you a lot more reasons...

GLG2009's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:24 PM

This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:

Sad but true!

ChangeofHeart's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:25 PM

This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:
But wait there is morenoway

GLG2009's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:25 PM






maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock


but that's the whole point - if you agree to FWB you basically have no "right's" or entitlement to know anything or have any influential opinion - what an FWB thinks doesn't count as there is no commitment

I mean I would hope people care about each other's feelings, but with FWB u take ur chances....


I dont agree...FWB should be no less important than any other intimate relationship...you have all the rights and entitlements of friendship and deserve to be treated with no less respect than any other person.
What about just Hitting it, and Quitting it? No names, addresses, or telephone numbers.


Hit it fast....hit it strong! :thumbsup:
make it last
all night long (u bad man)laugh


That is a lot of wishful thinking.

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Sun 11/28/10 08:26 PM

This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:
laugh

well u dont have to get all complicated - just read him your rulebook and if he's still there at the end of the night u prolly hooked a good onewinking

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Sun 11/28/10 08:27 PM
laugh







maybe you should be asking your FWB what she thinks....spock


but that's the whole point - if you agree to FWB you basically have no "right's" or entitlement to know anything or have any influential opinion - what an FWB thinks doesn't count as there is no commitment

I mean I would hope people care about each other's feelings, but with FWB u take ur chances....


I dont agree...FWB should be no less important than any other intimate relationship...you have all the rights and entitlements of friendship and deserve to be treated with no less respect than any other person.
What about just Hitting it, and Quitting it? No names, addresses, or telephone numbers.


Hit it fast....hit it strong! :thumbsup:
make it last
all night long (u bad man)laugh


That is a lot of wishful thinking.
no that's just goof

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:27 PM



if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


but that is the reality. many women (and maybe men too) are secretly hoping that the FWB will become something more and gree to it wiht that hope, but I have sledom seen it become anything more, and I've seen lots of hurt and way too much drama come from it



That's why it's not a good idea... Someone is almost always get hurt... Besides, waiting for the one seems a lot more exciting and sensual than just f*cking someone to ****.. But hey we all have our druthers... whoa

Goofball73's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:28 PM
An FWB, to me at least, would be only that. A friend that I want to only have sex with. The reality? Majority of the time one person is going to develop some amount of feelings for the other. And while I feel this is like a breach of contract, you still cannot control emotions and feelings.

Still. If you did have a "typical" and "working" FWB and you did meet someone with whom you want to have a relationship with, then you need to end the FWB. I mean....in all honesty...it has to end. Think of it this way. FWB is like a no contract phone plan. You are not committed to it, and when you decide to leave it, you are done with it. Simple as that.

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Sun 11/28/10 08:28 PM


...

the benfit's newark, are pretty much confined to concensual sex w/ FWB arrangements altho I am sure there are various variations on the themelaugh

surprised



I think I understand where u are coming from, but I really think it's naieve to think that it's anything more than that for the guy - even tho it might be for u

sorry jmho - TBH

GLG2009's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:28 PM


This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:
But wait there is morenoway


I'm sure there is,

you are entertaining, but realationship stupid! Again good luck!

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Sun 11/28/10 08:29 PM




if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


but that is the reality. many women (and maybe men too) are secretly hoping that the FWB will become something more and gree to it wiht that hope, but I have sledom seen it become anything more, and I've seen lots of hurt and way too much drama come from it



That's why it's not a good idea... Someone is almost always get hurt... Besides, waiting for the one seems a lot more exciting and sensual than just f*cking someone to ****.. But hey we all have our druthers... whoa
:thumbsup: agreed

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:29 PM



This thread just gave me reason #10 why I no longer want to date. Thanks for giving me an even number of reasons. :banana:
But wait there is morenoway


I'm sure there is,

you are entertaining, but realationship stupid! Again good luck!


somehow I think he's only meant to be "inciting" ...

ChangeofHeart's photo
Sun 11/28/10 08:29 PM




if you have a FWB, why are you looking for a serious relationship?
I bet your FWB is hoping that you two would be what you are looking for.

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!noway


but that is the reality. many women (and maybe men too) are secretly hoping that the FWB will become something more and gree to it wiht that hope, but I have sledom seen it become anything more, and I've seen lots of hurt and way too much drama come from it



That's why it's not a good idea... Someone is almost always get hurt... Besides, waiting for the one seems a lot more exciting and sensual than just f*cking someone to ****.. But hey we all have our druthers... whoa
Speak for yourself. I like the mixed candy bag