Umm.. I know I'm kinda new to this site.. but I already met someone, on here. We met up at a denny's and hit it right off. any advice to someone whos kinda impatient? besides "be patient and slow yourself"? lol


Nyko,
"May Broken Wings and Fallen Angels Guide Your Path to the Eternal Slumber" ~ Nykolas J. 'Endless Nights'

You gave yourself advice I was gonna say...you can't rush anything worth while.

Best of luck to you

gee thanks but theres a reason my quote is "Bad Luck is Better than None"

I know what you mean. Story of my life. But seriously, if you want to really work with someone, you need to take the time to get to know them and see if you are truly compatible...gee I need to take my own advice.

tell this person something about yourself you've told nobody else. it's no guarantee. it makes them special to you, and you special to them.

everything else is uncontrollable.

sounds like you like this person.

best of luck. genuinely.

thanks perfect.. thatsthe best advice anyones ever given me i guess.. ill be sure to keep updates on here showing u guys how its rolling along.. oh and yeah i do really like her.. we clicked right away after we met.. all my friends say shes outa my league.. i say "what league?" because i believe in no such thing... because love knows no bounds, you never know who you will fall for. a rich girl could fall for a schlub.. or vice versa.. some prissy girl could fall for some skater.. but i have a tendency to f**k things up when i feel something is out of my control. thats my problem.. last relationship i pretty much threw out the window because i felt like she was controlling me.. well she was but thats not the point

oh yeah.. now i gotta think of something i've never told anyone.. lol i was with my ex for 1yr 9mos

what i really liek about this one though is the fact that we met by accident kinda... she didnt show up in my search, but i was just browsing the site and i found her as the thread starter on 1 about video games.. so i kinda htrew out my username on the ps3 to her and we just kicked it off.. it was pretty cool.. and how much we have in common OMG! lol im sorry.. see this is what i was talking about.. my mind is flying when my feet are still on the ground... makes me angry at myself...

just a teensy word of advice on the 'something nobody knows about you', make it something you wouldn't mind getting out.... just sayin'. and you're right, love knows no bounds. good luck.

no disrespect intended - have the balls to take the time and allow a relationship to build. you care so much. give it time. be persistent without being aggravating. that requires more patience than similar situations may have had.

but he happy.

you've got a girl that brings joy into your life. don't lose that joy out of constant contemplation.

it might work; it might not. be cool. give this girl what space she needs but don't deny your own (needs).

you may have stumbles onto something great. give it a chance, but don't rush it. best of luck, man.

it's a rough game caring deeply about someone.

like i said once before...
don't ask for sex before the entrée

I wonder if you'll like them in 20 years time....exactly as they are...


and if you don't want this one to end up like the last one...do something different this time!

Be patient and slow yourself.

What? Were you expecting a magic, end-all answer?

Quoted for Truth.

things can still work, even if you`re moving a bit fast. if she feels the same way, then have the courage to move with passion

Take the time to get to know her. Don't put all your eggs in one basket already.

I would tell her something no one knows about you. But steer away from past relationships. This way it will help to build trust and respect for each other.

Also, just keep living your day to day life. Don't smother her or allow you to be smothered. That isn't good for anybody. Everyone needs some time with the guys/gals still. Or time alone.

a relationship is like a quarterback with a football,do i pass or hold on to it and run with it

nice..

agreed this is truth..

Thank you everyone for all the advice.. good news we met up again and had a blast.. got a ew good inside jokes already. I've had more fun with this woman than anyone I've ever had with anyone.

Thank you to everyone on here and the creators of the site, and to the admins, who run the show.

ummmmmm- pick something besides talking about an ex - any ex....just a thought meant in kindness & good luck

no don't let the "outta my league" thing bite u in the ***, take 1 date at a time - if you feel like ur about to mess things up...kiss her