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Topic: What are your top 3 things you look for in a mate?
Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 10/27/10 05:13 AM
truth truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth so help you God!

JimR1 Joined Tue 08/25/09 Posts: 25	Wed 10/27/10 05:16 AM
The three top things I look for in a relationship are One... honesty Two.... friendlyness and three.. I am attracted to the woman being the taller one.. I love a tall woman.. Jim

Loy822 Joined Mon 07/26/10 Posts: 7174	Wed 10/27/10 05:17 AM
Humor Communication Sensuality

fireflysgirl Joined Mon 10/18/10 Posts: 2957	Wed 10/27/10 08:01 AM
Sense of humor Love for animals Intelligence the first 3 that came to mind, but there's much more I'd have to have before choosing them as a mate! I also have name biases and particular zodiac signs that I don't care to date so it gets kinda complicated with me!

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Wed 10/27/10 10:32 AM
compassion honest/truth Loving heart

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 10/27/10 06:41 PM
compassion honest/truth Loving heart and here I thought it would be a suitable nest site, glossy feathers, and good fishing waters

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Wed 10/27/10 06:58 PM
compassion honest/truth Loving heart and here I thought it would be a suitable nest site, glossy feathers, and good fishing waters Indeed it would dear lady. I like that.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 10/27/10 07:56 PM
I was just talking to a friend of mine that is single as well and we were discussing what we were looking for, and it occured to me I have no idea what I want. I mean number one would be being able to understand my kids come first, and honesty, but what else do you look for? It has been a LONG time since I was on the dating scene... MUTUAL attraction to ME only, attentiveness, kindness

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Wed 10/27/10 07:57 PM
i look for honesty friendship an someone that can put up with my insane of a family lol

MynDLash Joined Sun 08/27/06 Posts: 245	Wed 10/27/10 08:50 PM
honesty, reliableness, and maturity.

nitz_rocker Joined Wed 10/27/10 Posts: 1	Wed 10/27/10 11:13 PM
well..in my opinion..the three things which i would certainly expect from my partner would be : 1) ample amount of love..she should fill my world with so much love that i never even feel any insecurity or being deprived off.. 2) should be extremely understanding..should understand my viewpoints.. 3) should stand by me at the worst possible situations..should lay a supporting hand on my shoulder n say "i am there with u,don't worry..whatever comes..we'll face it together n win over it" ..

david_allen900 Joined Thu 10/28/10 Posts: 1	Thu 10/28/10 02:03 AM
the things that are most important to me? Loyalty, Honesty, and romantic. gotta hate people who only think of sex, and i know its wierd for a straight guy to say that, but still...

MrIndependent Joined Mon 02/09/09 Posts: 306	Thu 10/28/10 06:02 AM
Only three things I look for? Mmm not in order but: Mutually stimulating conversation Respect for another (honesty, understanding is included with this one) The appearance of the booty

Abbeylooking4love Joined Wed 10/27/10 Posts: 4	Thu 10/28/10 09:45 AM
Well I think u should share the same intress as your partner so you will always have something to talk about. Both of you should have respect of each other. There should be honesty as well

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Thu 10/28/10 07:02 PM
1..is a funny drunk, not a nasty drunk 2..alcohol doesnt impeed an erection 3..has his own money (Ill buy the first round but thats about it)

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Thu 10/28/10 07:05 PM
1..is a funny drunk, not a nasty drunk 2..alcohol doesnt impeed an erection 3..has his own money (Ill buy the first round but thats about it) two outta three ain't bad

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Thu 10/28/10 07:12 PM


lookingforrealluv76 Joined Sun 10/24/10 Posts: 7	Thu 10/28/10 07:26 PM
honesty,be loyal,comunication

Troublebug Joined Sat 09/11/10 Posts: 10912	Thu 10/28/10 07:29 PM
truth, sense of humor, and a big package (Wait no- I mean security ) YEAh thats it

Tatilove Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 243	Thu 10/28/10 07:53 PM
ok... the 3 most important things. 1.Intellectual... A rational Thinker (if a person is rational, whenver we're having any problems in the relationship, he will know how to approach it, and we'll be able to take the best decision, like real adults should ) 2. Values... A Respectful person (simply that because if a person respects you and himself, he will never cheat, lie etc... so you don't have to say he has to be honest, faithful etc... they all fall under this category ) 3. Physical... A tall strong man (Why??? Because I never see myself with someone shorter than I am, and he has to be able to carry me... come onnnnn ) Well I gave THE ONE most important in each category. lol Some people are not realist... or they're just afraid that they'll be seen as jerks to they don't say anything about physical features. Well there you have it, I like a tall respectful rational man. ARE YOU OUT THERE??????? lol J/K