Topic: How much would you pay a babysitter?
Seakolony's photo
Tue 09/21/10 07:06 AM
I don't know, I am so broke the babysitter pays me to go out.......LOL

hmlover's photo
Tue 09/21/10 07:07 AM
Edited by hmlover on Tue 09/21/10 07:08 AM

Daycares here charge $2.85 per hour for the first child and then $1.85 an hour for each additional child in the family. Just in daycare expenses that lady would be charged more then $30 a day. If housework was included I would definitely be charging a lot more.


That's super cheap! Here it's $7.25 an hour through a discounted program offered by the city. Anything private is minimum $10 per hour. The girl in question here is getting seriously ripped off.

Oh, and that's for one child.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 09/21/10 07:09 AM
Thats slave wages!!!!....

at least $10.00/hr if housekeepings involved than more!!!!:heart:

krupa's photo
Tue 09/21/10 08:31 AM
Picture this, I used to be the babysitter of choice among my friends. Never charged a dime. I would teach them to cook, give art lessons, teach the boy spawn submission fighting and let the girl chillens braid crap into my hair and practice putting their make up on me. When the parental units would return I looked like a drag queen after a tough night at Mardi Gras.

To this day those kids talk about how much fun it was.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 09/21/10 08:34 AM
considering thats my fetish Krup......



I would then send the kiddies out to play.....



and play with the babysitter!!!!!!!bigsmile :heart:

carold's photo
Tue 09/21/10 08:37 AM
I think we all sat for friends like that. I named my daughter after one of the kids I sat she was a sweet heart. My Mom thinks I named my daughter after her because the names are similar. shhhh don't tell her:wink:

eileena9's photo
Tue 09/21/10 08:42 AM
Krupa, I think these kids would rather scalp someone than braid stuff into your hair. She says the boys are very disrespectful to her and the oldest girl just walks away when Kate talks to her. The 3 yr old is about the only one who listens.

Thank you everyone who agreed that she is underpaid. I told her to ask for more money and if the mom disagrees, let her try to find someone who will do all that for $15 a day

you_dont_know_me's photo
Tue 09/21/10 09:15 AM

I always paid my sitters $10 an hour and that was years ago...


thats what i payed when i had a babysitter its odd how people want to cut corners and pay someone so little when they are taking care of your most precious gifts
i dont see people takeing their bmw's to a guy that only charges 3 bucks an hour

no photo
Tue 09/21/10 06:58 PM
just because a person agrees to work for less than the going rate does not mean it's fair. i think she should find out what the services a day care would provide and at what cost. then she should deduct some amount due to the fact that she does not have the same qualifications as a professional day care. if that does not sound reasonable to the employer, than she can either decline the job, or renegociate. good luck

Libra106001's photo
Tue 09/21/10 07:08 PM
She should be making at least minimum wage ...

lulu24's photo
Tue 09/21/10 07:17 PM
i paid twenty a day for two kids...

my sitter was in her own home, licensed, and she took care of about four-six other kids at the same time. she also had dual degrees in psychology and child development.

she is an amazing person, and someone i was very blessed to have come into our lives.

LilOlMeFromSD's photo
Tue 09/21/10 07:20 PM
I have a 17 yr. old daughter who works part time at as a fill in daycare assistant. She typically makes $60.00 per day (approx. 5 hours) to care for the kids. However, she is never there alone. The Owner of the daycare is always there with her.

Sometimes my daughter is needed for Field Trips to the zoo or such. Her duties do not include laundry but she does help with feeding the children and cleaning up toys, dishes, etc.

I'm not sure where you are located but we live in rural South Dakota and the general consensus is that a parent will pay better for better care....to know their pride and joy is safe in a babysitters hands.

I understand a lot of people are hurting financially. Perhaps that family is having a hard time too. However, since the agreement they had at the beginning has changed (ie babysitter doing the kids chores) then the verbal contract needs to be re-worked. If the parents are not willing to do that, then your daughter should walk away from this job and find another if that is at all feasible.

Good luck with it all.

isaac_dede's photo
Fri 10/08/10 09:43 AM
it depends on where your from, where I grew up it was 10-20/day depending on how often they wanted a babbysitter...if it was every day 10/day worked.

But if she is happy with the arrangement than why interfere? yes those aren't 'minimum' wage..but if she is fine with it. 150/week is a decent chunk of change for a 17yr old, if they are living at home and with no real bills. but that is up to her and what she is willing to accept. I'm sure if she isn't willing to accept the 30/day they will find a 15/16 yr old that is.

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 10/08/10 10:10 AM
That is BULL! If it was my daughter I would make her quit! That is SUB minimum wage and not enough for the responsibilities and labor. Daycare here in Los Angeles is VICIOUSLY expensive like if it only costs $600 a month you are doing very well! If you can get it done for less you are doing great! And that is JUST AFTER SCHOOL HOURS!

Duffy's photo
Fri 10/08/10 10:54 AM
well i think that sitters get more than $3.00 a day now...

msharmony's photo
Fri 10/08/10 02:46 PM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 10/08/10 02:48 PM

I know this is going to end up down in parenting section but....

What would you pay a 17 year old who is watching your three year old from 7:30 am until 4 pm or later and your three other children after they get home from school? They were paying her $30 a day.

Now, lady she babysitting for wants to pay her less than $3 an hour for watching, dressing, feeding and cleaning up and washing her little one who still has "accidents" in her pants. So that means Katie has to do laundry too and when the older kids get home, she has to put up with their attitudes. Not to mention cleans the kitchen after they all get fed. They have even asked her to stay overnight to help with the feed/cook for the kids and don't think they should have to pay her extra.

My daughter does internet schooling so she is helping with buying groceries because of hard times right now, with the money she makes babysitting. That is her choice to help with household bills, we didn't tell her too. She does her schooling at night when she gets home so she can graduate.



in this market, its totally relative to the type of income a parent is MAKING,,,,I paid our babysitter 25 per day(which worked out to nearly fifty percent of my own earnings, after taxes), she was grown and she watched her from 7 until 6 monday through friday

Queene123's photo
Fri 10/08/10 05:02 PM
i had a friend from high school yrs ago
she had me and another friend babysit her kids on differnt days and times of course
she would give me mostly cash and what was remaining foodstamps
yea i know that wasent right but she would take me to the store
instead of me handing the foodstamps
which was about $15 from what she owed me

i didnt complain for i knew her
she had food so there was no worry
now if she didnt i would had and i would had taken her kids to my house if they needed food


i had another lady its been about 12yrs
she had 5 kids. and i dont know what she was doing on paying her bills
she was getting money for her kids its just that she didnt seem to give a crap
there was several times i actually took them to my house so they could eat.
and she stated oh there food........(there was non)

eileena9's photo
Sat 10/09/10 12:48 AM
She quit the babysitting job....the lady and her husband make good money but they told her they were only going to pay $15 a day. BS!!

GotKidz's photo
Sat 10/09/10 01:06 AM
i pay $7/hr...$10/hr is a bit much for someone that isn't certified and isn't really expected to do much other than making sure the kiddos don't kill themselves or burn your house down.

msharmony's photo
Sat 10/09/10 02:10 AM

i pay $7/hr...$10/hr is a bit much for someone that isn't certified and isn't really expected to do much other than making sure the kiddos don't kill themselves or burn your house down.


thats a generous wage, the children's ages makes a difference too

for alot of people 7 per hour is only about one or two dollars an hour less than what their job pays THEM,,,