Topic: Let's be real here...
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Thu 10/07/10 10:49 PM
it's like a local bar, same people every night, no one really wanting to be with anyone, and if someone new walks in they may seem friendly, but they really don't want them around.

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Thu 10/07/10 10:53 PM
i've noticed, are you telling me to scram, haha, jk

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Thu 10/07/10 11:18 PM
you're silly. naw i think you're one of the lucky ones that has come in and been able to blend in with the old crowd.

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 10/08/10 01:52 AM
now I wasn't just talking about online laugh

Kleisto's photo
Fri 10/08/10 02:06 AM
I always thought I knew what I was looking for really, but now......things have changed a bit. The core values I think I still seek, but....I find myself being more adaptable too at the moment.

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Fri 10/08/10 04:04 AM
I'm kind of simple, I suppose....

I have no expectations out of any one. I'm looking for friends - one of which to be my "best" friend. How hard can that be, huh? lol

Apparently hard!! Ha ha ha

bigojockey's photo
Fri 10/08/10 05:14 AM

How realistic are you in what you expect in someone?
i was hoping to find someone open and honest and not too much overweight.after a little thought about yourquestion i,d have to admit ,not very realistic at all.its a pipedream.

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Fri 10/08/10 05:35 AM

How realistic are you in what you expect in someone?


Not very, apparently.


Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 10/08/10 05:39 AM
I am verrrrrry realistic.......


How can you have a real relationship if your not?????:heart:

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 10/08/10 05:55 AM
I even have realistic speakers.

1Bartolo's photo
Fri 10/08/10 06:02 AM
Edited by 1Bartolo on Fri 10/08/10 06:27 AM
I'm realistic because I'm offering what I'm expecting


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Fri 10/08/10 06:25 AM
All I want is a rich 21 year old that loves sex and buys me ANYTHING I want WHENEVER I want it!!!noway :wink: :banana:

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Fri 10/08/10 07:15 AM


well i originally came here hoping to meet some guys, but just the company of the forums have distracted me in a way I am no longer really seeking that attention I guess. I have gone out a few times with some guys from here and elsewhere but I suppose I do have a slight guard up after a 12 year relationship. I wish there was a nice guy who wants friendship and relationship, seems like its either or around here.


exactly!! doesnt anyone have interest in developing REAL friendships first?...lol


I so feel ya,,,
Ladies I've tied that three times aleady and each time it was the lady that broke the deal.I do'n tthink it's possible

franshade's photo
Fri 10/08/10 07:18 AM
I am totally realistic, but my reality may not be the same as others.

Seakolony's photo
Fri 10/08/10 08:09 AM

but don't you notice there is alot of the same people posting on here? there are new people that post, but i see alot of profiles that say the person hasn't been on in quite some time.

We love newbies.........

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Fri 10/08/10 04:47 PM

How realistic are you in what you expect in someone?


I never expect anything..that way Im never dissapointed...I think thats about as realistic as Im going to get..

burgundybry's photo
Fri 10/08/10 06:06 PM
Live, and let live....love, and let love do its thing

Teditis's photo
Fri 10/08/10 06:09 PM
Edited by Teditis on Fri 10/08/10 06:26 PM

Live, and let live....love, and let love do its thing

Amen...

it's a common thing to wonder and hope.
to expect those things that we believe as the paradigm,
to be universal... but it just ain't the way of things.

in this society, diversity rules. and we must adjust.

still... the decision to love beyond what we know
is acheivable. the question is will he/she understand this too?

and choose to love as well...

so far, nope laugh

burgundybry's photo
Fri 10/08/10 06:47 PM


Live, and let live....love, and let love do its thing

Amen...

it's a common thing to wonder and hope.
to expect those things that we believe as the paradigm,
to be universal... but it just ain't the way of things.

in this society, diversity rules. and we must adjust.

still... the decision to love beyond what we know
is acheivable. the question is will he/she understand this too?

and choose to love as well...

so far, nope laugh


well put!!!:thumbsup:

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Sat 10/09/10 09:01 AM
honestly someone who aint boring an i can converse with easily and they r afraid to jus b theirself