It's been more than a month since I ended a relationship with someone who has been in and out of my life for more than 25 years - i was single then, he was married; then he was separated due to an affair [which ended last year], however at the same time he started living with his new partner, i got married; we rekindled our relationship more than 5 years ago but went on and off. we got together again early this year and thought he was not involved in any relationship.. until i found out he has two other girlfriends which he denied [of course, men do not admit]. i was and am still deeply hurt by the betrayal. i trusted him. i feel sort of like a zombie and guilty because i have a my own family.

any comments, please.... am still nursing a broken and bleeding heart. been fighting/resisting the urge to communicate with him

By his actions, he's not a very ethical person.. It's only been a month and going to hurt for a while... You just have to stay strong and know you deserve a person that will respect you...

Sorry you're going through this, it will get easier..

2 other girlfriends now??

Ya think there were none before this

unless your into crying...hurting...pain..and orgys with this man


stand up and get out girl!!!!

Sure it hurts..it will hurt for awhile...you know you'll get over it

just

do not repeat it!!!!

thank you for your comments..

i feel hurt but what is confusing is i cannot cry... been trying hard to cry but the tears won't come out...

thanks again....

If you don't have trust...
you got nothin'

A friend once told me:

"it is hard to get over love, I really do not try to...I say to myself, okay, 'you loved not wisely, and too well' okay someone said it before me :-) But I do not give it back, or away, what was, was, I am grateful to have known love, imagine a life without the peaks and valleys of that.

Then I put it where it belongs, in a part of my brain labelled 'love' even when they turn creepy, when it was good and new and fresh, it was everything, so I put them there and only remember the good things about them, the bad manifest themselves. And it frees me.
To go and make a fool of myself all over again.
I can hardly wait.
hahahahaha"

she's a wise lady I think...

good luck

You just have to. You know the mouse wheel? The little mouse keeps running like hell, and it still stays in the same place.

You are wasting valuable energy and time on someone who doesn't deserve it, period.

what she said

there it is ..you just said it..he was married when I first met him...that was the deal breaker....and how many times did he break your heart 25 yrs ago... and how many more times since....

he is your worst nightmere..are you goin to risk all that have no for that no good piece of sh***

he is just only an addiction...( worst than heroin ) really think about it...what is it about this man that you think you just can not live without ??? stay away from him..he will destroy you

probably because you`ve cried all the tears you have left for this ^%&*%%^ ( sorry )