are you quick to let them know, or you take your time.

there is this one person on here that i have had a crush on from the time i have signed up...i have told him, didn't beat around the bush. he was single at some point and i think i missed out again, because he is taken again. argh

now i have to do this when i see his pic

I tend to tell them upfront. No secrets that way and I don't go through long, drawn out periods of time before I find out if the person feels the same.

I grab the pliers!





BTW love is a screwed up game. No one tells you when to jump. other times when you do you regret it! This is one game it is tough to win!

pliers? are you going after my nose hair again?

from the little i know about him (because we never met in person) i can see myself falling for him...

......And we are back

tough call ...

i would make it known that i like them...

i believe that you have to make your own best judgement...everyone has their opinions....but we all different and this is about you heheh.

on the other hand...life is short and meant to be lived and sometimes we have to take that chance not knowing how things will turn out. and if it blows up on us...then we can at least rest knowing that ...we tried :)

best of luck

Always be honest up front.


Then again, they are called "crushes" for a reason.

i know, it sux pft pft pft

Depends on the situation (and guy).

If it were in real life, I'd say something if he seemed interested, unless it has the potential to be embarrassing or awkward in the future. Like now, for example: I have a crush on a guy who works at the grocery store I go to twice a week. I'm afraid to say something, because if it didn't work out, I'd have to find a new grocery store (and a new guy to look at...):)

But online, I definitely speak up and let someone know I'm interested! Whether he seemed responsive or not.

Are you sure he is taken?
Some are in and out a lot.

Well, his profile says so...so i'm going by that...oh well...

Pfffffft! Men.

i know, right! sigh

The last time I had a crush was I think 1983 - 84.......yep I was in middle school.........after I turned 18 they became lusts......but yeah I am pretty straight forward about it..........have no problem asking for sex either........I guess I was taught I could walk many paths being a woman free to charter my own destiny without being hindered by control facets........

Well, do you know for certain that he is taken? I mean, maybe you should just say "Hey dude. I am crushing on ya. Wake up. I am hot. And you know you want this". I mean....this is just a rough draft and all. Just sayin.....feel the dude out.

maybe because my definition of crush is a bit different than yours?

to me, crush can lead to lust, lust can lead to love. again, this is my own personal take on what the words mean.

other that, everything else you said after that, i can relate, and sums up what i'm like as well.

what he said....

Sometimes you just got to say WTF and jump in with both feet.