Im a married women but bored *** hell....should have never gotten married who agrees dat staying in a married life if borriiinggggg?

Marriage is what you make of it.

Maybe the boring one is you.

I cannot believe you are in Manhattan and bored? I was raised a hour out on the LI, and went into the city every chance.
Museums,Central park, shows, the Village. Get a small dog from a rescue and take him walking, it'll help him stay calm and you get endorphins to work again.
Take a class, you could learn how to do almost anything there, go to poetry readings, movies, the list is endless.
If you can't motivate yourself, you may want to check and see if you have a slight case of depression. Quite the few experiences it least once in their lifetime, do your homework and look into it.
Being angry at something and not addressing it, a person internalizes the emotions and they come back up as sadness/depression.
Best of luck, keep us posted.

^^^I don't think the OP is "bored" living in NYC, but bored with her husband/marriage. Hence, here looking to "play" with others.......



OP: Cheating never solved a marriage's problems. Time to address the issues on hand, instead of "sweeping them under the rug".

Yes but sometimes it not as easy as addressing them,"issue" everyone has different circumstances in life, so its hard to actually put yourself in anothers shoes until u have walked that mile in them.
For me i have 5 kids and i do know it would just devasate them, so for their sake i stay with my husband. are we happy, we are fine. does he know? nope. and thats ok too.
we are friends, share the most ultimate gift together. our children. so for some it might not be as easy to just deal with it, i believe what i am doing is sacrificing myself so they have a stable life.

i agree beein in a married life is wakk in a way cuz u dnt rele get to go out always stuck in da house cnt go no where alone ur husband is always on ur *** wyd diz wyd dat dnt give u space trust me i was there shxt sux but idk if u want we cud be friends n talk im chris by da way

I am not married, never have been but single life can be boring too, when you have no one to go places with

Shasta...that is excellent advice. I may take some and use that to help myself as well. thank you.