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bottom line, I guess.... |
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my friend the best things in life are the hardest to get, it takes blood sweat and tears to do it right but once you do, you get a huge feeling of accomplishment knowing that you did it yourself putting in a honest days work, for example my father and I built a huge deck together in the summer of 2007 at the time I was living with him and he had just got out of back surgery, we decided we wanted a deck so we laid down the foundation built the frame and finished all of it within a month just me and him. during that time the heat index was a record high but we didn't take any shortcuts and it eventually added another 10 grand to the value of the house, and when we had a family party there was no loose boards or splits we ended building a 10 thousand dollar deck for 4 grand. it was sized at 24-20 and almost indistructable. if we would have taken shortcuts the deck that we put all the work into could have turned into a eyesore rather then a wonderful addiction to the house that it turned out to be. I guess it all depends on what u plan to accomplish..not everyone is as honest as ur,you must realize that,many of such people will take advantage of ur honesty if u let em.. some people live by the mentality such as,you either screw or u get screwed, not me though, I am as honest as they come..but at the same time,if I see someone trying to take advantage of that ..I let em know straight away.Me and my pop never really built anything together,..we do go on hunting and fishing trips together though.. once in a while.. whenever he has time, he rarely has time though...it's good that u have such close relationship with ur pop.. |
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bottom line, I guess....  
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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK? my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :) PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things You do realize that you just blocked yourself from 95% of the ladies from this site. It's Darwin's Law of natural selection in action |
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PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things I think you are missing something here. Playing the field or whatever is fine. Nothing wrong with that (if you are honest about it) Cheating involves deception. If someone can't commit to one person, then they shouldn't commit and then cheat. I agree, Kim! Cheaters are the lowest of the low. I can't believe anyone would defend the actions of a cheater. A weak person is the only person who would put up with such disrespect. If a person can commit or doesn't have enough integrity and character to remain faithful - fine - but don't get into a dedicated relationship. Being a backstabber doesn't make the situation OK just because they are “discreet”. |
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PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things I think you are missing something here. Playing the field or whatever is fine. Nothing wrong with that (if you are honest about it) Cheating involves deception. If someone can't commit to one person, then they shouldn't commit and then cheat. I agree, Kim! if Cheaters are the lowest of the low. I can't believe anyone would defend the actions of a cheater. A weak person is the only person who would put up with such disrespect. If a person can commit or doesn't have enough integrity and character to remain faithful - fine - but don't get into a dedicated relationship. Being a backstabber doesn't make the situation OK just because they are “discreet”. |
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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK? my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :) PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things There are two people in a relationship. What they will or won't accept from their partner varies. However, if you have a strong relationship then your partner knows and is hurt. |
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my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :) PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things Wow, that explains a lot. I guess both your parents are the main reason you have the outlook on relationships / dating that you do. |
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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK? Both sexes do it. It's called a 'double standard'. Life goes on ... |
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bottom line, I guess.... the truth hurts
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True enough ... these days .... there is no reason to cheat with so many swingers out there in the open . Anyone with that propensity can just dive right in.
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My feeling is that if you feel you are missing something from your relationship, talk to your partner about it DON'T go out and get it somewhere else. If you can talk to a total stranger about your problem and not your partner, make it a counselor and FIX THE PROBLEM.
If you can't or don't want to fix the situation, GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP and move on and sleep with whomever you want. Show some of the maturity you are "supposed" to have and move on. |
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I dont cheat....so I'm not a whore. I would like to be considered a slut thank you very much!!!
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WHY IS IT THAT WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS THE GUY THINKS SHE'S THE BIGGEST WHORE.BUT WHEN HE DOES IT IT'S OK.WHAT DO YOU THINK? my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :) PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things You do realize that you just blocked yourself from 95% of the ladies from this site. Good point. But even with only five per cent of them wouldn't that still be cheating? |
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I honestly think its equally bad, no one deserves to be cheated on
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A cheat is a cheat, no matter on gender or sexual preferences Thank you for saying that. 
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Edited by
afriend4you111
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Mon 09/06/10 01:14 AM
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lets subtract 'i' from the equation and make it chat
say hi not bye.... |
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Edited by
boingjr
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Mon 09/06/10 02:04 AM
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I think its wrong whether its a man or a woman that cheats. People just try to make up new excuses everyday to justify themselves. when we know its low self esteem that makes a man go to an ugly woman and cheat on his good looking wife. and women well they justify the cheating by saying since us men do it why cant they.
At the end of the day i think its something about doing the forbidden or inmoral that turns us on i guess. what does everyone think? |
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morals or lack of them are not due to your sex,race cred or color,thay are what you are as a person,I am not sure how to know who or when you know,but I feel that its a very important thing to know you can are trust worthy,I dont feel that ladys are anymore whores than men,we all make our own .thank you all
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Had a cheater one time. We were engaged back in 1993.. and um.. I should have seen it coming. Why would she always had to be home at 10 pm and she was 23 or 24 at the time!? Then later.. I had a call on the TTY (Device for Deaf) call and had to use her bedroom. I was total furious that she had pictures of her OTHER boyfriend!! I connected the dots eventually that she had to come home eariler in evenings so she can call him!! He was in college out of town.
So, by Christmas afternoon, I dumped her! Hahaha. Why? She beat the crap out of me on my Birthday. That was another whole story! So, I had to do something to hurt her feelings on a wonderful holiday. There are more about her but thats enough. You get the idea. Now she is married to him! B****H! Hahaha. Her loss! So, I know how this feels. I hate cheating! I don't like cheating! I rather her to say upfront to me if she cheated on me. And ask why. Then dump her. My ex who cheated on me refused to tell me why--the real reason. She made excuses as well as not saying anything at all. This is why I am seeking for HONEST woman! |
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