but i wanna feel younger lol

How old are you? I am an older woman, but still feel young so I really can't get into old-looking men. I guess I am screwed up. I still look fairly young.

I can't say that i would ever date someone 10yrs younger but to each his own and whatever works for you...age really is just a number and if it is not an issue with the two involved then there is no issue.

Yes I would and I agree with you Candor, age is just a number

10 yrs may not seem like a lot in some cases but with each year that 10 yrs would seem like more to me... I prefer to stick to 6 yrs or less on the younger side....

of course.

I will go 5-6 years younger, but 10 years older

i agree T i go about 6 years younger maybe 10 yrs older then again my ex was 17 yrs older lol

The older is a problem for me unless they're aging well.. I'm trying to work on it b/c I know I should but if they look the age of my Uncle or Dad there's just no attraction there....

Oh, I totally agree with that. Only if they are aging well. I just like the maturity. I can be crazy and fun and they fit in and don't try to go one up on me. They like to be on the same level. The young ones try to be crazier and funnier and they look ridiculous.

I could go 10 yrs older or younger if the connection was there.

oh i lied im 20 yrs younger lol

joy sorry was just picking on him lol but i was trying lol

I figured just wanted clarification...

ya i always gotta pick on my friends its fun lol

As msharmony mentioned most women do emotionally mature faster than men. In my case my ex husband was 11 years older than me & it was all good in the beginning for about 4-5 years. I was 19 & him 30 when we married. Then we stopped the boat/canoe/camping/fishing/hiking, etc. He always wanted to sit at home after work which I know he was tired after working all day. I really tried to understand that as well. But, he never took a few days off work or even a weekend to spend with the family. Myself I worked too (after 14 years of marriage/before SAHM) & my job required heavy lifting, etc so I was tired as well towards the end of our relationship but still wanted to go out & do things. At home he sat on the couch in front of the TV & me at the computer. Life became stale I guess. Our marriage lasted 21 years most of them just there. I'm now 4 years older than my BF & we do things together & enjoy cuddling watching TV, etc. Even if we aren't always out doing something we're comfortable being together at home. He started working when he was 14 & is now 39 & I'm 43. I think it has a lot to do with life experience & maturity. Whatever happens I wish you luck!!

Hmmmm well I tend to act pretty immature at times, have no ide3a why, and really dont care, I dont want to grow up never have and dont intend to.
So If I loved a man 10 years older than me I wouldnt care as long as he could put up with me and could love me for who I was.
I love a man 6 years older than me, more mature, sensible, organised, but can still act like a child, so really I dont think years matter so much as personality and mental maturity.
What would happen if he had of been 10 years older, Hmmm nothing I would still love him

dating a chick 10 years younger thatn me is alwas great but I'm old enough that I'm geting tired of teaching them how to please me in bed. I would be nice to meet a lady that would be able to find all my horny spots on her own and blow my doors off in bed!

OP I certainly hope you have asked her by now - she may be waiting for you to DO something yanno

start small, start slow


don't be afraid of getting close to her - you can't get close to anyone of you don't get close to someone...and good luck