A real player is not some chump that goes around lying, manipulating, and cheating. That is an ABUSER.

What IS a player? Someone who knows how to play this game called life. Someone who knows what they want, and how to get it, and actually goes out and GETS IT.

A true player is successful in all aspects of life and knows themself well, is honest and examines themself honestly and improves constantly. They are successful because they have the confidence, responsibilty, and integrety to succeed. They EARN what they accomplish and obtain through honesty and hard work.

What do you have to do to be a player? Start by examing yourself honestly and improve and fix that which you do not like about yourself. Then, go out there and get what you want out of life with confidence and integrity.

No, I don't consider myself to be a player. I'm a go getter.

So, we're not talkin' 'X-Box' or 'Wii' here, right ... ?

Damn. I coulda used some tips, too ...

Either way I wouldnt date anyone who called themself one.

In all seriousness i can't stand a player.
&& If you are referring to life, do you think it is a game? No body wins in the end. We all end up the same way, Dead.

That player gig is a child thing.

I think a player spends thier lives playing, yet they never truly win.

I know how to play the game called Life.

Possibly. I was just throwing an idea out there is all, nothing more, nothing less. Just an idea.

like what the ... am I doin' right in my life? (my life)