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Topic: why is it
RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 08/14/10 06:06 PM
easier to get laid from a total stranger than trusting a friend?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 08/14/10 06:10 PM
meh whatever 2 1/2 years on this site and when i finally need advice...nothing,whatever

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 08/14/10 06:11 PM
b/c a friend probably doesn't want to ruin the friendship and the stranger may think you want something more and that you'll figure it out "after" having sex with her...

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21823	Sat 08/14/10 06:12 PM
Because when a friend screws ya it hurts a lot more than screwing a stranger.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 08/14/10 06:13 PM
Trust is a hard thing to build. And it is so easy to lose. You trust someone to always do the right thing by you, but in most cases, there is always a let down. Sex from a stranger? No strings means you don't have to deal with their crap after sex. Just make sure you sack it.

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sat 08/14/10 06:14 PM
Stranger sex is generally NSA. When you have sex with a friend it's complicated. Be thankful your friends foresee the potential train wreck and just keep the friendship! More friends are better than a pile of discarded one-night stands.

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Sat 08/14/10 06:15 PM
because of what happens afterwards..who cares if you never see the stranger again..but there is always the chance that the friendship will never be the same after sex and that is a big risk...especially when the friendship is important to you.. but common...seriously, you need to be told that?? or do you just want me to tell you...DONT DO IT..you regreeeeeet it...!!!!!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 08/14/10 06:16 PM
25 years as a friend and now he just pisses on me...life goes on i guess

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sat 08/14/10 06:17 PM
25 years as a friend and now he just pisses on me...life goes on i guess Who is HE? I thought we were talking about a SHE as in someone you might take to the next level?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 08/14/10 06:21 PM
25 years as a friend and now he just pisses on me...life goes on i guess Who is HE? I thought we were talking about a SHE as in someone you might take to the next level? well its like this a friend of mine lost his job and i forked over some money to help him out now he has security so now he has totally kicked me out of his club of well thx but since i'm or was your friend you owed me that...eh i'm loggin

pmarco41 Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 2163	Sat 08/14/10 06:24 PM
so, I thought this was about having sex..sounds more like you were just screwed...

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sat 08/14/10 06:25 PM
25 years as a friend and now he just pisses on me...life goes on i guess Who is HE? I thought we were talking about a SHE as in someone you might take to the next level? well its like this a friend of mine lost his job and i forked over some money to help him out now he has security so now he has totally kicked me out of his club of well thx but since i'm or was your friend you owed me that...eh i'm loggin I'm still confused as to what that has to do with your topic: sex with strangers vs. friends. Does this have NOTHING to do with sex (getting laid) but rather getting f'ed over by a friend vs. getting f'ed over by a stranger? Getting screwed and not in the good way?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 08/14/10 07:02 PM
easier to get laid from a total stranger than trusting a friend? F@&$ing does not require trust. "Who gives a f@&$ about friends mix it with the baking soda and you could cop a Benz." I never put much trust in friends or really anyone else for that matter. When he asks for help again just do him like he did you. "Tear da club up. Throw some chairs. Break something."

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sat 08/14/10 07:14 PM
easier to get laid from a total stranger than trusting a friend? Because the stranger doesn't know you well enough to know not to get in bed with you.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Sat 08/14/10 07:17 PM
Because the stranger was only out to get laid as well. And the friend wants to keep it friends only..........

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Sat 08/14/10 07:43 PM
easier to get laid from a total stranger than trusting a friend? Sex changes friendship.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 08/14/10 08:07 PM Edited by RKISIT on Sat 08/14/10 08:08 PM
25 years as a friend and now he just pisses on me...life goes on i guess Who is HE? I thought we were talking about a SHE as in someone you might take to the next level? well its like this a friend of mine lost his job and i forked over some money to help him out now he has security so now he has totally kicked me out of his club of well thx but since i'm or was your friend you owed me that...eh i'm loggin I'm still confused as to what that has to do with your topic: sex with strangers vs. friends. Does this have NOTHING to do with sex (getting laid) but rather getting f'ed over by a friend vs. getting f'ed over by a stranger? Getting screwed and not in the good way? its sort of a metaphor its like we can easily have sex with strangers but yet not trust our friends as in oh rob i'm gonna give you all your money back but your,nothing...basically i got an unenjoyable fu(k

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sat 08/14/10 08:09 PM
wow i read that wrong!!!!!!!! but ill answer.. ive had that happen to me too.... and its because they werent really your friend!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 08/14/10 08:10 PM
anyway rollin down the street smokin indo...sippin on gin and juice

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sat 08/14/10 08:11 PM
basically its the same.. really.. the friend <so called?> responded to you when they were in need.... as so did the stranger.... welcome to my world! unreal to me!