Wellll.... This is more of a blog topic.... I blog. This is what I do; so, I thought I'd share one of my blogs with you today.

Have you ever just wanted to say something to a lover, but "refrained" because you feared that they would leave or maybe not feel the same? Admitting what we want from another person is sometimes difficult because it sets us up for rejection. But, believe me, it's the best thing that YOU can do for yourself. Love has a way of breakin' us down but also makin' us stronger. I've realized that I will and can survive anything that is handed to me during the rest of my life.

So? Where does that us once we admit our true feelings? Vulnerable! No simpler way to put it. Sometimes we just need to have faith and let go. I've found a strength in me that I never knew I had or existed. It's faith that I will be ok. To be able to love someone in this capacity is so enlightening. YEAH FOR LOVE! :-)

One has to come to a realization that you REALLY DO deserve to have what you want and need in life and you won't get it by not asking for it. We harbor our feelings and emotions because the world has somehow caused us to be more reserved and cold. The internet has brought forth many "good" connections, but we disconnect on some levels. We function without the personal touch. The way of the world has tarnished love and relationships. Do relationships truly exist anymore? Does love? Sometimes we just accept life because it's familiar and we're comfortable with it.... We don't don't take a leap of faith because we fear the unknown. Now? That DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU GO PULL SOME DARE DEVIL STUNT!

Do you have a difficult time telling a lover how you feel? And, why? Are you afraid of being alone? Are you afraid of rejection?

So you are saying expressing your feelings makes you vulnerable, but you need to do it anyway?

What a great topic.

If you can't be true to yourself, how can you be true to others? The fear of our thoughts and ideas being rejected should not interfere with a relationship.

HOWEVER in this day of internet dating and instant gratification rejection is becoming too easy. Men and women who look for and only accept perfection is a major cause of this. The slightest transgression will cause alarm and a leap towards greener pastures is readily made.

It's a shame that people have such high expectations of others and disagreement is now a deal breaker. Too bad being human is a reason to throw away something that could be wonderful.

So you are saying people make snap decisions that they may regret later?

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Nice.

Let me know how that line works out for ya.

I may have to add it to my book of great lines.

I think we grow that way. It comes in time and not everyone is open to it; but, heck, if ya can't tell someone how you feel about them then why would you wanna be with them?

Very well put! Thanks for your input.

Thanks for expressing your thoughts unfortunately I'm not attracted to yer picture; therefore, the likelihood of that ever transpiring based on yer language is "0".... In case you were wondering how I felt; if ya didn't. I'm telling you!

No. lol.... This wasn't a good pick up line.

I can understand why a friend at work said I should try blogging after reading this.

Have you ever just wanted to say something to a lover, but "refrained" because you feared that they would leave or maybe not feel the same?

Oh, yeah. Good reason to say it though, maybe because if they left they could be doing a favor or if they didn't feel the same that is just them being who they are. That is my problem with the 'better half' theory. They are not a half but a whole person.

If you can't tell a friend how you feel about something it isn't much of a friendship.

You forgot to leave your number.

You could leave her yours instead Goof. LOL

As to the OP's thoughts, I've always shared what I felt with lovers. If I can't be transparent and open, why share my body and no soul?

easy sex, the leap of faith?


that's not the kid of leap I'd call it

wonder how that's workin' for him?