How do guys feel about women who are pregnant and single?
From my experience most men don't want to take care of another man's responsibilities.
Guess we should have been more careful.
and women how did you or do you feel if you were single while being pregnant?

Been there and its no fun. Had to deal with a lot of issues that had nothing to do with me. Then there was an expectation for me to suddenly become a daddy to a child that was not mine in the first place.

I am not saying all women in your situation are the same by any stretch of the imagination but "Instant Family" is a sure fire way to drive off most respectable men. I know it takes two to tango and all but a lot of women try to fall back on men becoming their provider and adding a child exponentially increases the responsibility and money needed to be part of said relationships. Personally I can't do that again to myself. I have yet to have kids of my own and I sure am not accepting the responsibility of another period. That is just me. There are men who don't care.

The question is what are you looking for? A man to play daddy, a BF who is not part of the responsibility you are obviously taking on? A sugar daddy?

Face it, truth and honesty are in short supply these days.

Doesn't bother me. I've dealt with it before, no different than a real relationship...she just screamed more.

LMFAO I don't want a sugar daddy and i have no expectations for them to play the daddy "role" just when i mention it to men then run off scared in the other direction. Makes me feel bad.. guess i should have picked a better man to sleep with even thou we were together for a long time he is still a jack ***. and he is currently pulling me along by a string that's how i feel i just want to move on. and i am sick of being alone.

I'm allergic to anything that involves kids or pregnancy or reproduction or offspring or broccoli.

If she's got kids, she will never have to worry about me trying to start anything with her....!!

Come December (December, right?) you won't be.

Honestly, you probably should be working on getting yourself to where you want to be and hardly working on getting a relationship. Once that child comes you will have loads of things on your hands, you want to make sure that first; it isn't going to creep up and bite you in the a** and second; that you can handle the child.

Best of luck though, really. Tough situation for anyone to be in.

It is my first priority it will always be. I can live without a man it's just hard being on my own. This post isn't about me though i only wanted the opinions of others. Just out of curiosity cause' honestly i will probably end up getting back together with my ex. Only want opinions just for whatever cause' i am bored.

I'm not a breeder. I had my tubes tied at 21 years old. No babies and I don't date guys with babies.

There are plenty of really nice guys who will date a pregnant girl as long as she has her head on straight.

He's a jack a-- and pulling you along on a string but you'll probably get back with him?????

Sounds like you need to get some things figured out before baby gets here.

" RED FLAG"

It is what it is. He has a way with words and i guess i am just blind stupid. Heartache always sucks at first who's to say where we will end up. I am not giving it too much hope anyways besides i did say baby comes first, and maybe the only good thing about him was the sex.

What is done is done.....take time to find yourself and focus on the baby for now... Relationships can wait, if it so happens that one finds someone that does not have a problem dealing with a woman that is pregnant then fine...

Myself did not have to deal with that issue was married when both of mine were conceived and born...

If I was a guy not sure that I would even go there too many issues to deal with....

Honestly if it had happened to me I would not have been even thinking of being in a relationship at that time... I would have waited till after the baby was born and I had my life in order...

It does happen and I only wish the best for those that are dealing with that type of situation...

at my age i'm not really concerned about it.......anymore...

All I can say for certain, when I am knocked up, I am so moody that no man wants to be with me.

I do got a friend wh has a fetish for pregnant chicks. Weirds me out but the dude goes out of his gourd for them. (It probably explains his 5 kids though)

Ick!

I myself eventually do want to have kids of my own but I refuse to be torn between work and family like that. That is the road to utter misery!

The thing is people for the most part seek out instant gratification and this is what you get. So many women like to play this having children out of the blue "Golden Sacrifice" BS and men don't buy it. Also sometimes hard choices have to be made at this point like what will the quality of life be for the child brought into the wold under these circumstances.

Unplanned pregnancies are the worst. They can destroy relationships out of the gate. Hope you sue "daddy" for paternity. Takes two to tango. Bet that is going to be real fun. If you think being a part of a relationship with a manipulator for the sake of the child is doing you or the child any favors, better rethink that! I can say first hand I wish I never knew my father!

Nuff said???

So why wasn't he wearing a condom???

If you mention anything....ANYTHING....other than that you want to bone a guy right then and there.....yeah....he is gonna run!

Actually I had no problems with date requests even when I was pregnant with my daughter......I decided to go it alone and got a job bartending at a bar called Scandals Night Club.....it gave me 1 the money to care for her and two the social contact of people my age...instead of drinking with them I was serving them.....it was back in the day when it was the hotteest night club in town and I made alot of friends I still have to this day....good luck to you....still have trouble giving up my independence for interdependence.....

here already did this topic alot responses

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/279837

couples dudes i know are down with it

Since you're asking how I would feel were I pregnant, well I wouldn't look to date.. I would concentrate on what I need to do for my child, my job, etc. Dating would be the last thing on my mind..