Topic: Who wears the pants in the relationship?
navygirl's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:20 AM



Because I feel in the best relationships neither party wears pants at all.


As for pants if he lets me in his; I will let him in mine; so no problem of who wears them.:smile:


Insert remark about how I'd love to get into your pants. Though I'd probably have to toss you a belt or suspenders for mine. laugh laugh laugh


Hmm, I think I still have a set of suspenders from one of my old uniforms; so that will work. :smile:

cjam33's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:29 AM
Yes, some men tend to do the same thing but growing up with a lot of women has taught me more women play the guilt game more so than men. More women also tend to do more of the blame game and also tend to remember more about the bad than good. I'm not saying some bad things cannot be forgiven no matter how much good is accomplished but if the act was that bad then rather than beat him up over it time and time again, why not just leave!?? Resolution should be done at the time of the crime. Not dredged up over and over again.

navygirl's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:34 AM
Edited by navygirl on Fri 07/23/10 10:37 AM

Yes, some men tend to do the same thing but growing up with a lot of women has taught me more women play the guilt game more so than men. More women also tend to do more of the blame game and also tend to remember more about the bad than good. I'm not saying some bad things cannot be forgiven no matter how much good is accomplished but if the act was that bad then rather than beat him up over it time and time again, why not just leave!?? Resolution should be done at the time of the crime. Not dredged up over and over again.


I guess it depends on the maturity of the woman you are in the relationship with. If a woman has to beat a guy up over something he did in the past; then you are right; just end the relationship. If we truly can't forgive that person; then don't be with them. Sorry is a useless word if you truly haven't forgiven that person. I don't like to part on bad terms with men I have dated and have remained friends with them despite our differences. I didn't hold a grudge during the relationship so why do it after?

no photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:37 AM
I've concluded any thread I create as a joke will descend into intense seriousness and any serious thread I start will descend into madness, depravity, and dry humor.

MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:38 AM

I've concluded any thread I create as a joke will descend into intense seriousness and any serious thread I start will descend into madness, depravity, and dry humor.


Maybe pancakes, but I want it noted on my timesheet that I didn't take the bait. Please?bigsmile

msharmony's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:41 AM
I prefer dresses and skirts, I prefer the man to wear the pants...if he is actually a MAN and not just a human of the male persuasion.

msmyka's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:42 AM

Well, you might have not directly been told but it's a known fact women do this. Most women do it to attempt to control a man as some sort of punishment. I personally wish they could shut off all speech as well as they do shutting down all sexual advances lol. Women seem to think of men as pets or children. Guys, ever notice how sweet or amorous a woman gets when you get them something? Ever notice how quickly that changes a few days later? Ever notice how quickly the good acts of kindness last? Ever notice how quickly those acts or forgot but how quickly she remembers the few bad things that have happened? It's like a broken recorder in their head that only captures selective things. I'm sure most guys will agree with this. Most women use humor to distract from that which is true.


Please do NOT try to pass off your extremely misogynistic opinions as "known fact". They couldn't be further from the truth.

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Fri 07/23/10 10:42 AM


Starfish for MeChrissy2 (I ran out of gold stars).

navygirl's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:43 AM

I prefer dresses and skirts, I prefer the man to wear the pants...if he is actually a MAN and not just a human of the male persuasion.


Actually I like a man in a kilt. pitchfork

msmyka's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:44 AM

I've concluded any thread I create as a joke will descend into intense seriousness and any serious thread I start will descend into madness, depravity, and dry humor.


It's not your fault, some people could take a thread about shoe laces and turn it into how awful the opposite sex is.

MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 07/23/10 10:46 AM



Starfish for MeChrissy2 (I ran out of gold stars).


Find a happy place, find a happy place. Best movie of all time!

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:10 AM

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:13 AM
Actually the way I see it both needs to at times and if the one I'm with don't have the balls to put them on then someone has to pull up the slack.......bigsmile

navygirl's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:14 AM

Actually the way I see it both needs to at times and if the one I'm with don't have the balls to put them on then someone has to pull up the slack.......bigsmile


Or pull up the slacks!!!laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:40 AM


Actually the way I see it both needs to at times and if the one I'm with don't have the balls to put them on then someone has to pull up the slack.......bigsmile


Or pull up the slacks!!!laugh


Lmao off true for I can pull them off myself hehehehe...bigsmile

tmg4life333's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:50 AM
i want the man to wear the pants, i'd rather wear something more sexy... but for reals i want the guy to take charge, i hate when guys are "cat" whipped!!!

navygirl's photo
Fri 07/23/10 12:06 PM
Edited by navygirl on Fri 07/23/10 12:15 PM

i want the man to wear the pants, i'd rather wear something more sexy... but for reals i want the guy to take charge, i hate when guys are "cat" whipped!!!


Not me, I like making decisions together. The old saying is two heads are better than one. I also don't wear anything sexy; its easier just to stay naked. Saves a lot of time and money. laugh

soufiehere's photo
Fri 07/23/10 01:18 PM

If one of the parties involved is a wuss or sissy,
he or she might as well walk around without pants
and relinquish them to someone who is more suited
to wear them. I don't care if your relationship
is going perfectly, women tend to think they control
men and this mindset comes into play from years of
upbringing by their female peers. They are told to
close their legs when they want something. They do
their best to make their man subservient. The weak
men give in. This results in them removing their
perverbial pants and handing them to their female
counterpart. The stronger men find alternative means
of pleasure and continue to wear said pants.

Dude.
Your point of view is so warped there is no answer
to it.
Your experiences seem to have been with the dregs of
society. Do you wait outside jails or something?
I expect you will end up with exactly what you expect to.
I hope we don't live on the same block.
Your choices sound creepy.

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 07/23/10 02:17 PM

I'm only on here for online entertainment. Most of the women on here are vain. I would love for someone to prove me wrong but I somehow doubt that's going to happen. I am sure there are women that are sweet and innocent and sincere and non controling but that's very rare.


Better form of entertainment: http://www.collegehumor.com/

Anyway, why does anyone have to wear pants at all?

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 07/23/10 02:17 PM

I've concluded any thread I create as a joke will descend into intense seriousness and any serious thread I start will descend into madness, depravity, and dry humor.


I live for the depravity.