Topic: Long term members and couples.
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Sat 07/17/10 01:13 PM
If this were strictly a dating site, I could see some getting upset. But it's not. So, there's really no reason to get upset.

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Sat 07/17/10 01:19 PM
That's what I tell them....I say we met on here, have friends on here and don't plan on leaving here for quite a while.

We both have it posted on our profiles, as does Kayak and Juliet, that we are taken so there shouldn't be any problems.flowerforyou

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Sat 07/17/10 01:21 PM

Do people actually get offended by looking at a profile and finding out that person is already with someone else?


Apparently so. frustrated

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Sat 07/17/10 01:25 PM
I agree with the opinion that this is mostly a social site...obviously the best one laugh I have no problem meeting people who are already taken, they seem to be among the friendliest people I have found on here. I've made lots of great friends on this site and even if I don't find "the love of my life" it's all good.drinker

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Sat 07/17/10 01:28 PM

Ok some people have been on here for quite a while and developed wonderful friendships. How do you feel about "a couple" being on this site..as long as they state they are in a relationship in their profile or thru posts. Does it offend you to look at a profile only to see they are taken?


Nope.... I have stated I am in a relationship, and do not encourage others to seek me out...so have met my transparent obligations.

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Sat 07/17/10 01:30 PM


Ok some people have been on here for quite a while and developed wonderful friendships. How do you feel about "a couple" being on this site..as long as they state they are in a relationship in their profile or thru posts. Does it offend you to look at a profile only to see they are taken?


Nope.... I have stated I am in a relationship, and do not encourage others to seek me out...so have met my transparent obligations.


Tough noogies!!! I sought you out!! tongue2 tongue2 tongue2 tongue2

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Sat 07/17/10 01:34 PM

That's what I tell them....I say we met on here, have friends on here and don't plan on leaving here for quite a while.

We both have it posted on our profiles, as does Kayak and Juliet, that we are taken so there shouldn't be any problems.flowerforyou


I know it's hard, but just ignore the jerks who have problems with it. The rest of us are happy for you all who have found someone. flowerforyou

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Sat 07/17/10 01:43 PM


That's what I tell them....I say we met on here, have friends on here and don't plan on leaving here for quite a while.

We both have it posted on our profiles, as does Kayak and Juliet, that we are taken so there shouldn't be any problems.flowerforyou


I know it's hard, but just ignore the jerks who have problems with it. The rest of us are happy for you all who have found someone. flowerforyou


Well thank you for your opinions.:thumbsup: I really wanted to get a take on it from the community instead of jumping to conclusions like the jerk who emailed me.

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Sat 07/17/10 01:59 PM



Ok some people have been on here for quite a while and developed wonderful friendships. How do you feel about "a couple" being on this site..as long as they state they are in a relationship in their profile or thru posts. Does it offend you to look at a profile only to see they are taken?


Nope.... I have stated I am in a relationship, and do not encourage others to seek me out...so have met my transparent obligations.


Tough noogies!!! I sought you out!! tongue2 tongue2 tongue2 tongue2



hahaha!! Eileena....sssshh!!! People will talk!!!:wink: :tongue:

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Sat 07/17/10 02:03 PM

It doesn't bother me. I found someone on Mingle and i know other couples^^^^ who are also here. I have made so many great friends here!!flowerforyou


We are so very happy to have found each other on Mingle.:heart: smooched :heart: Now the love story begins..........I also have great and wonderful friends here and intend to stay on and play and have fun. This is a nice playground and a social club, second to none........But you never know when your life can change and your heart is absorbed by another as mine has......

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Sat 07/17/10 02:07 PM

Ok some people have been on here for quite a while and developed wonderful friendships. How do you feel about "a couple" being on this site..as long as they state they are in a relationship in their profile or thru posts. Does it offend you to look at a profile only to see they are taken?
I don't think it's appropriate for anyone to be offended by such. This site is for people to advertise themselves any legal way they feel so you don't have to cater to people . When I open a catalog and don't find what I want, I don't complain to the store about the OTHER products they are offering.

cheers:thumbsup:

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Sat 07/17/10 02:13 PM
there are a lot of us members who signed up when it was a place to meet new friends.. it then turned into a dating site... i dont think there is anything at all wrong with them still being here..its the couples choice. I do feel though that they should know about it.. since it is called a "dating" site... some couples dont flirt with anyone some do.. usually the case is that either both do in front of each other or both dont.. now when its in the open and if both are on here they would see it theirself..everyone is different.. and has different boundaries.

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Sat 07/17/10 02:16 PM


It doesn't bother me. I found someone on Mingle and i know other couples^^^^ who are also here. I have made so many great friends here!!flowerforyou


We are so very happy to have found each other on Mingle.:heart: smooched :heart: Now the love story begins..........I also have great and wonderful friends here and intend to stay on and play and have fun. This is a nice playground and a social club, second to none........But you never know when your life can change and your heart is absorbed by another as mine has......
perfect example.. i flirt with his woman!laugh laugh

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Sat 07/17/10 02:27 PM
Edited by Phuque2 on Sat 07/17/10 02:28 PM



It doesn't bother me. I found someone on Mingle and i know other couples^^^^ who are also here. I have made so many great friends here!!flowerforyou


We are so very happy to have found each other on Mingle.:heart: smooched :heart: Now the love story begins..........I also have great and wonderful friends here and intend to stay on and play and have fun. This is a nice playground and a social club, second to none........But you never know when your life can change and your heart is absorbed by another as mine has......
perfect example.. i flirt with his woman!laugh laugh



MMmmmmm Buttons, you are looking Hottttttlaugh :heart: :heart: flowerforyou bigsmile Signed...Flirty McFlirtyson

EquusDancer's photo
Sat 07/17/10 02:36 PM
People are dorks, what can you say. If they can't find something easy to be offended by, then they'll pick something else.

I get people offended because I don't want anyone who has kids.

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Sat 07/17/10 02:45 PM
Edited by buttons on Sat 07/17/10 02:47 PM
Phugue....<slap> <slap>laugh laugh laugh awww hugs to ya!! both ya are good people... I'm glad to have found your gf on here!laugh laugh one hella friend.. she knows im a joking her.. she has been good for me though!! thinking about it i think in the last 2 weeks maybe 3 weeks about 80% of my emails are from her!laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink:

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Sat 07/17/10 02:51 PM




It doesn't bother me. I found someone on Mingle and i know other couples^^^^ who are also here. I have made so many great friends here!!flowerforyou


We are so very happy to have found each other on Mingle.:heart: smooched :heart: Now the love story begins..........I also have great and wonderful friends here and intend to stay on and play and have fun. This is a nice playground and a social club, second to none........But you never know when your life can change and your heart is absorbed by another as mine has......
perfect example.. i flirt with his woman!laugh laugh



MMmmmmm Buttons, you are looking Hottttttlaugh :heart: :heart: flowerforyou bigsmile Signed...Flirty McFlirtyson


She looks even hotter in the shower!!bigsmile :wink: laugh :tongue:

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Sat 07/17/10 02:52 PM

Phugue....<slap> <slap>laugh laugh laugh awww hugs to ya!! both ya are good people... I'm glad to have found your gf on here!laugh laugh one hella friend.. she knows im a joking her.. she has been good for me though!! thinking about it i think in the last 2 weeks maybe 3 weeks about 80% of my emails are from her!laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink:


You're not suppose to tell on me!!laugh laugh :tongue: flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Sat 07/17/10 02:53 PM
dont be telling him about my waterproof web cam!laugh laugh thought that was our secretsad sad

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Sat 07/17/10 03:00 PM

dont be telling him about my waterproof web cam!laugh laugh thought that was our secretsad sad


I didn't..but you just did!!rofl rofl rofl oops