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Topic: Yes or No
Wheelzup's photo
Tue 07/13/10 01:52 PM
Here's a simple question for both men and women. Would you go on a date with a guy or gal who is wheelchair bound due to some sort of disability?

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 07/13/10 01:56 PM
Yes and I have:heart:

eileena9's photo
Tue 07/13/10 02:18 PM
Are they still human????

Then the answer would be: yes.

One of the first guys I had a crush on was a paraplegic but I just saw a really nice guy who was interesting and could make me laugh.

dianadidit's photo
Tue 07/13/10 02:19 PM
Sure

JustaSimpleMan56's photo
Wed 07/14/10 12:50 AM
Yepper. I don't look at outside. Or handicaps. I look, and go for whats inside them.

Suzanne20's photo
Wed 07/14/10 01:49 AM
Considering I am "disabled" myself, yes. I actually just ended a relationship with a guy because he was unable to deal with what he perceived as my problems. We are all people looking for companionship.

tessa68's photo
Wed 07/14/10 02:48 AM
"yes and why not?flowerforyou

JustaSimpleMan56's photo
Wed 07/14/10 02:53 AM

Considering I am "disabled" myself, yes. I actually just ended a relationship with a guy because he was unable to deal with what he perceived as my problems. We are all people looking for companionship.
So very true.No matter what disability the person has. They are still human. And can give love, as much as needing to be loved.

crossroad123's photo
Wed 07/14/10 06:39 AM
yes

STARTRAVELER's photo
Wed 07/14/10 06:54 AM
Absolutely why not ?

lahirra's photo
Wed 07/14/10 07:46 AM
Whether or not I would date someone who is in a wheelchair depends on the person and not the wheelchair :wink:

Jtevans's photo
Wed 07/14/10 07:57 AM
i tried to once but she wasn't allowed to leave the nursing home indifferent

no photo
Wed 07/14/10 08:03 AM


...does she have a sidecar?...smokin

ron62449's photo
Wed 07/14/10 08:49 AM


Considering I am "disabled" myself, yes. I actually just ended a relationship with a guy because he was unable to deal with what he perceived as my problems. We are all people looking for companionship.
So very true.No matter what disability the person has. They are still human. And can give love, as much as needing to be loved.


These answers are interesting as I'm disabled, but not in a wheelchair. It's not visable, but when I disclose
this to women on the internet they seem to disappear.
My disability - my heart, A-Fib. Last Fri I went into the E/R as my pulse was continually high, 160 at rest. Took 7 hours to get my heart beat in rythum.

Is a disability that is visable more acceptable than one that's not?

Ron

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/14/10 08:59 AM
A disability is a disability

some worse than others

some people would consider what I have a disability

yep

there is somthing wrong with me. Haha

do I consider it a disability?


No friggin way in the world

I'm diabetic- insulin dependent. Yep. Cats outta the bag. Haha

so I gotta stab my stomach 4x a day

ya don't like it-- don't ****in look !!

Never stopped me from nothing!!!!

(please give to the Ntnl Diabetes Assn. ):heart:

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 07/14/10 09:00 AM
It depends on how much care is needed....the extend of the injury or disability. I have spent the last 27 years raising my boys alone, I have done it all and now they are grown up and I want some time for me.
Maybe that comes off selfish, I have earned it....

mbcasey's photo
Wed 07/14/10 10:03 AM
My best friend is paraplegic. He is on another dating site and women won't give him the time of day when they find out he is wheelchair bound. He is very good looking, has a good job, owns his own home and is very self-sufficient.

I am disabled myself with bipolar disorder and I have the same problem that my friend has.

We both are very nice caring decent people but in reality women we have encountered only see the disability and not us. But that's ok...we both keep going and try to find a woman who is right for us.

Anyone else whpo is disabled, please don't give up...we all want to have love in our lives and someday the right person will come along and see you for who you are. Just keep looking until you find them.

mbcasey's photo
Wed 07/14/10 10:05 AM

A disability is a disability

some worse than others

some people would consider what I have a disability

yep

there is somthing wrong with me. Haha

do I consider it a disability?


No friggin way in the world

I'm diabetic- insulin dependent. Yep. Cats outta the bag. Haha

so I gotta stab my stomach 4x a day

ya don't like it-- don't ****in look !!

Never stopped me from nothing!!!!

(please give to the Ntnl Diabetes Assn. ):heart:



You have a nice attitude...I am type II diabetic and it doesn't hold me back either. Best of luck to you...flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 07/14/10 10:50 AM
To you to my fellow sugar baby!!!


Tammy:heart:

OKCUTIE67's photo
Wed 07/14/10 10:56 AM

Whether or not I would date someone who is in a wheelchair depends on the person and not the wheelchair :wink:


I totally agree!!! When I was in high school, one of my best guy friends was in a wheelchair (swimming accident). He got more girls than any of the football jocks...simply because of his attitude and his spirit! There was hardly ever a time you didn't see him wheeling down the hallway without at least one hot lookin cheerleader on his lap grinning from ear to ear!!! It has nothing to do with the physical disability...but more whether or not they have an "attitude disability" also! drinker

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