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Hey at least you are getting some local chat. The only local guys who contact me are 19 years old.
All the guys I would be interested in are at least one state away. Of course my profile isn't exactly welcoming. 
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Hummmm well if they are local then I agree with ya a hundred percent. I'm all for if it is local lets meet up and see if we might want to make a official date or not. Not into all the emails when they live within driving distance... 
Now if they are in a different state then no I don't agree. To many not being truthful out there. And it takes me a while before I will call them seems the ones I have they have no idea what they want...
Yes mine are local, they tell me they are interested, want to get to know me more & yet in their messages there's nothing to keep the conversation going, even after I suggest swapping phone #'s or meeting up, it's like yes or no because I can't waste time. Mmm, well you know, sometimes it is all about them. Don't have time for that either
What do you have time for? Many things Thing is, I can't think of any reason this has happened to you except for..the speed with which you move toward it. |
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Hey at least you are getting some local chat. The only local guys who contact me are 19 years old.
All the guys I would be interested in are at least one state away. Of course my profile isn't exactly welcoming.
Pfffft. You have that hawt picture now.. And remember, the locals are the potential stalkers :-) |
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its the same thing i have been talking about! for quite some time... i get to the phone sometimes.. but a lot seem to just want to have some online affair lol...
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Thing is, I can't think of any reason this has happened to you except for..the speed with which you move toward it. Well I'm looking to date not chat for ever, there comes a point where you have to stop needless ongoing messages where your not gaining any ground, these women I'm talking with are local. |
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Hmmmmmmm.
Well, I have to say, the locals around me are just like you..."Here I am, let's do this thing.." I avoid them like the plague. I do not know them, save for a couple emails. So, when you meet, you have no "feelings" for them and that is that. Then they, for the most part, are "in love" at first meet...these two things do not mesh. And I find it painful. Maybe you are getting the jaded ones. Maybe they need a little more..reason to go to the ball. I think, for a guy, he wants to look you over, that being the deciding factor. Just to be able to move forward. A girl wants to know you, she has already passed judgement on the looks...you will do or you won't. But she wants to know more about who you are. Before moving toward anything else. Women simply have to be more careful. |
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its the same thing i have been talking about! for quite some time... i get to the phone sometimes.. but a lot seem to just want to have some online affair lol... Hell I had one that wanted to chat on yahoo figured that would be cool since he seemed nice and was close... Shhees he wanted to send me nude pics of him self instead come on give me a break if it is worth it and I want to see ya neked then hell it will happen but at least let me see ya with clothes on first..... 
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I've never had this problem before, it's dating, meet for a drink, coffee etc. see if we want to pursue it further, not looking for romance off the bat. It's no different when I'm at a party or a friend says to me you should meet this girl, great talk on the phone & see you on the day of the date.
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its the same thing i have been talking about! for quite some time... i get to the phone sometimes.. but a lot seem to just want to have some online affair lol... Right, so you see what I mean. |
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its the same thing i have been talking about! for quite some time... i get to the phone sometimes.. but a lot seem to just want to have some online affair lol... Right, so you see what I mean. Good thing i never tried to send you an email!! 
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I've never had this problem before, it's dating, meet for a drink, coffee etc. see if we want to pursue it further, not looking for romance off the bat. It's no different when I'm at a party or a friend says to me you should meet this girl, great talk on the phone & see you on the day of the date. Ditto, why do they want to make it seem like it's pulling teeth shshsh make it simple and move on if the chemistry is not there. |
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I honestly think some people keep themselves out of the dating scene by doing this, it's going out on dates not war strategy
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I honestly think some people keep themselves out of the dating scene by doing this, it's going out on dates not war strategy
amen brother ..or see who can play the better mind game |
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Thing is, I can't think of any reason this has happened to you except for..the speed with which you move toward it. Well I'm looking to date not chat for ever, there comes a point where you have to stop needless ongoing messages where your not gaining any ground, these women I'm talking with are local. well pat ive let it go on too long a few times like 2 months or more... even for a couple of yrs once ive chatted with someone.. for hours and hours..i hear you ,when it came to hey lets meet and all this talking... it comes to an end... lol! those were ld... now for nearby if you talk for a few weeks there should be no problem in meeting in person.. if you talked that much there has got to be common interests... even if only endsup for friends lol..
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I should mention it's not happening here ( there's nothing happening here)
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Hey at least you are getting some local chat. The only local guys who contact me are 19 years old.
All the guys I would be interested in are at least one state away. Of course my profile isn't exactly welcoming.
Well you all know I date younger, but I hear ya. I've been getting boatloads of mail from right around 20. Ridiculous. LOL |
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I honestly think some people keep themselves out of the dating scene by doing this, it's going out on dates not war strategy
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What I have been running into lately is endless messaging back & forth, I'm the type that wants to move on to talking on the phone & date or after a few messages meet up. Now after a few messages I tell them that I sense this going no where & don't want to waste any more time. I don't mean to sound rude, I just like to stop bs before it drags on. Does anyone else run into this? I experience this also, and I am of the same mindset as you too. Let's get the show on the road! I want to either put a guy in the "keeper" column or scratch him off the list!
Real-life dating is what is needs to be – and sooner than later.
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I learned the hard way about endless emails with a person....... I thought it was real and got all tied up into the game and found this person was a player from hell.......I do not do the email on and on and on game.....A few, then lets talk, and then lets meet....It is nice to email and talk on the phone, but it is not real till you meet....
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I totally agree, I am one that will want to go to phone pretty quick. IF that is going well, time to set up travel plans and do the meet and greet. Before I do a meet and greet anymore I do ask for a brief webcam session. I then print out a still shot if that person doesnt' show up for the meet and greet then I am leaving.
Been fooled a few times. |
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