him.."lets meet for coffee" .. me-"sure just let me know where and when, all next week is good for me".. 3 days later... him- "well are we going to meet for coffee or not?" ..."i said to let me know where and when".. 1 day later... him- "are you avoiding me? where and when are we meeting for coffee tomorrow is good" im thinking WTH? he had a whole week to figure out where and when... AGE43 ....GROW SOME BALLS!



many emails <one said he wanted to meet me>... me "ok well i have to get off here so i can get some stuff done... i know you wanted to chat longer so feel free to call me my number is____________. give me a call now or later or when ever if you like..... him---- "ok i'll call you now but i have 2 clients to call real quick to call first" me- ok ill talk to you then.....2 days later email.. him---"im sorry i did not call that night,my client was having issues with her tenant.. yadda yadda yadda< explanation of his clients business> my email-- thats ok i said anytime " his email- "yea i felt bad cause i told you i was going to call you right away and didnt so i was scared to call you the next day" my email- "don't worry about it i said anytime".. him email 2 or 3 days later-"i want to meet you!"< this was 2 days ago> my reply " well you have my number" 2 days later no email or call....... AGE 47...GROW SOME BALLS!

well, i wouldn't do that to ya...

Well, are we going to meet or not?

I know what happened. Well, you know where Chicken nuggets are supposed to come from? I think they ran out of roosters! Make sure those are chicken nuggets you are eating at McDonald's.

im sorry but these are the only ones in the last 2 weeks..... ive had more since last sept.... ALL near my age.. that are the same way! I'm thinking dating a immature 32 yr old is the way to go at least he has some balls...pfft so discusted!

i dont eat junk food lol

This seems to be a common theme around here lately. Some people (men) complain that women are too stuck up, yet the real issue is that they lack the proverbial testical fortitude to take it to the next step. And then come on here whining about how they cant get a date and how it sucks to be the nice guy.

hint* if you dont know of a good coffee shop.. then ask the woman that agreed to do coffee with you" well do you have a special place you like?" if not FIND ONE you asked!

WoW .... didn't sound like a scary conversation.

NoW .... they are probably checking their balls.

Committment issues even before anything begins.

well I'm far from stuck up... I dont care if when i meet them i like them for a friend or maybe more.. if i dont go how the hell will i ever know?

the one before these 2 was like " ok get ready in the morning cause i have to do a quick job in the morning.. not sure exactly how long it will take and ill call u when done" im thinking well thank gawd! so i got up at 8am got ready by 9.. expected it to not be done by at least 10 from what he told me...< he never called!> AGE:47... GROW SOME BALLS!< have a lil respect too for me who set my time aside for you!>

is meeting someone as a friend commitment? hummm I had or made no commitments..nor did i ever suggest that.. but when u make a commitment to meet a friend or bother to make plans with them should u not follow through?

Oh I dont think your stuck up. I think its great that your calling guys out like this.

Why is it that people want to meet at the coffee shop? Can we not meet at the pizza parlor? Or at Waffle House?

Anyways....I'm 37....and if I ask a woman for her number, and she says it is ok to call, then call I shall. "Looks down"....I gots balls!

how about a immature 36 year old

o your not close to me but i hope i made you

do you know some of them said that to me too!

well, they r fools... their loss, not yours...

yea well if they were nice ill never know......there were no problems in the conversations what so ever... and if there were.. never let me know

OMG, I was just talking to a friend of mine on the phone and this is exactly what we were talking about..........That men have literally lost their balls.............At my age game time is up stand up to the plate and say what you mean and do what you say.....

Some of the excuses I have heard I'm shy, I was afraid to call, ect ect.......

Actually I had told her I should make a thread asking where the hell have men put their balls lately? ...........


Thanks Deb I really needed a good laugh..........

And yes I agree that some men just amaze me even at my age......

shows a lack of character as far as I can see...

my last lady friend commented about that and guys her age [46 at the time] That was her reason for looking at older.

younger / older have other problems ...

maybe its part of mid life crisis .... I remember some of that time ... vaguely ...



or they lost thier balls in the divorce settlement

oops i forgot the one before the last two i mentioned! i give him my number.... he did call on the saturday he said < i thinkanyway> Igot 2 phone calls on that saturday as a blocked number.. bunch of static.. could barely hear him.. other than loud static.. and of course I asked who is calling?.... doesnt tell me.. the second call is some other male in the background and still static.. tell me why could i hear him better than the guy calling? i asked 3 times again " who is this" and it was a creepy voice... then i could hear the other guy loudly" just tell her who you are! and laughing real loud..well i hung up.. like a 12 yr old crank call... im thinking-<if you really want to talk then talk to me not your friend or when you arent busy, or hell have him call me, he seems to be doing a better job at communication than you are> ps he was supposed to be with his son that day...... AGE:41 .....GROW SOME BALLS!