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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Wed 06/23/10 12:34 PM
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Ever noticed such a thing that some people think too deep into just having one date with someone?
I noticed (not here on mingle, since everyone is at least 3000 miles away from me), that the reason some women won't go out on a date with me because of afraid of attachments. They are thinking too far too deep into the whole thing. I wouldn't even be surprised, if I (and others) won't get contacted, because some women think, that sending an email is like a confirmation to say "yes" to marry. 
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will you marry me?
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Who are these women? I mean its Just a date. If nothing sparks between the two daters, at least a person got out of the house and meet another person to converse with. I have no expectations on a date other than will he show up.
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Ever noticed such a thing that some people think too deep into just having one date with someone? I noticed (not here on mingle, since everyone is at least 3000 miles away from me), that the reason some women won't go out on a date with me because of afraid of attachments. They are thinking too far too deep into the whole thing. I wouldn't even be surprised, if I (and others) won't get contacted, because some women think, that sending an email is like a confirmation to say "yes" to marry.
 and men do that as well...
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 Intimate Encounter is the way to go
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Wed 06/23/10 12:42 PM
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Who are these women? I mean its Just a date. If nothing sparks between the two daters, at least a person got out of the house and meet another person to converse with. I have no expectations on a date other than will he show up. They are out there.., too much analyzing, too much calculating, too much buildings of fantasy scenarios..and all that because she is trying to decide if she should go out to see a movie with a guy she has never met in person. 
and men do that as well...
no doubt..but thank God I'm not a woman otherwise I would be bit-ching about them. |
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I guess that's a 'no'
next |
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Edited by
buttons
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Wed 06/23/10 12:45 PM
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Who are these women? I mean its Just a date. If nothing sparks between the two daters, at least a person got out of the house and meet another person to converse with. I have no expectations on a date other than will he show up. They are out there.., too much analyzing, too much calculating, too much buildings of fantasy scenarios..and all that because she is trying to decide if she should go out to see a movie with a guy she has never met in person.
and men do that as well...
no doubt..but thank God I'm not a woman otherwise I would be bit-ching about them. well really a first date should be to get to know someone.. its a little hard to have conversation in the movie theater weird your quote went into mine! lol looks like i said no doubt...
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Ever noticed such a thing that some people think too deep into just having one date with someone? I noticed (not here on mingle, since everyone is at least 3000 miles away from me), that the reason some women won't go out on a date with me because of afraid of attachments. They are thinking too far too deep into the whole thing. I wouldn't even be surprised, if I (and others) won't get contacted, because some women think, that sending an email is like a confirmation to say "yes" to marry.
 I thought our phone conversation was our engagement!
I've already booked the band and picked out the rings. You have expensive taste, BTW! 
*serious face* I think there is a "creep" element with online dating and people put up walls - "don't get too close" or "I'm not THAT interested" until they get to know you are not looking for a mail-order spouse. *back to silly face* So, I thought when we go to Hungry that will be our honeymoon? 
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someone.. its a little hard to have conversation in the movie theater I agree. I favor a restaurant for first date, but I have been on a date (feels like in the last century), where we gone to a restaurant for 2 hours and later went to see a movie for the night. |
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i have not been on a date yet from ming, but i do understand were your coming from. i think the two people should go on a date and keep it short (not an all day event) if things go well than go on a second date and spend as much time as yous like together.
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someone.. its a little hard to have conversation in the movie theater I agree. I favor a restaurant for first date, but I have been on a date (feels like in the last century), where we gone to a restaurant for 2 hours and later went to see a movie for the night. to where it was just dinner or coffee then whilst doing that decide to make it a longer date and do something else as well after...
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The only meet I had from mingle was a friendly one. I have yet to have a date meet yet.
But with me it was the opposite. The fellows, not all, but most, take it too far just from conversation. The few I have met have been from another site and we had nice meets but there wasn't a connection for me so I let it go so they could move on. I have got to where I just don't bother to even say hi because I feel really bad when I have "lead someone on" by having conversation with them. 
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I think there is a "creep" element with online dating and people put up walls - "don't get too close" or "I'm not THAT interested" until they get to know you are not looking for a mail-order spouse. The best way to figure out what he is all about is to meet him in person. A "date" is not a class or mandatory appointment. You can "walk out of it" any time, any moment. Right?
*back to silly face* So, I thought when we go to Hungry that will be our honeymoon?
You missed the "a", Honeymoon is canceled. 
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Ever noticed such a thing that some people think too deep into just having one date with someone? I noticed (not here on mingle, since everyone is at least 3000 miles away from me), that the reason some women won't go out on a date with me because of afraid of attachments. They are thinking too far too deep into the whole thing. I wouldn't even be surprised, if I (and others) won't get contacted, because some women think, that sending an email is like a confirmation to say "yes" to marry.
Sorry, I cannot marry you......you haven't even kissed me yet, LOL |
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I think there is a "creep" element with online dating and people put up walls - "don't get too close" or "I'm not THAT interested" until they get to know you are not looking for a mail-order spouse. The best way to figure out what he is all about is to meet him in person. A "date" is not a class or mandatory appointment. You can "walk out of it" any time, any moment. Right?
*back to silly face* So, I thought when we go to Hungary that will be our honeymoon?
You missed the "a", Honeymoon is canceled.
 It was just a typo! Do Overs!!! Hungary!!! 
Yes, you are right. Anyone can walk out at anytime during or after a date without commitment. Unfortunately this is too mature or confrontational for some people. Some people cannot handle social situations - even the good ones - well. 
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I personally don't see the point in going on a "date" with someone I am not compatible with. That's how you end up with horror stories about people doing/saying awful things on dates. I prefer to invest a little time in getting to know a bit about the person first. Yeah, it's just a date but I'd rather not if I sense things about the person that wouldn't jive in the future.
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Edited by
buttons
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Wed 06/23/10 12:55 PM
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i say if at dinner they burp and say" theres a kiss for you" id not want to be stuck going to the movies with them
for if i did make the date and took them out.. and it was for dinner and a movie.. would that not give them the impression i was ok with them treating me like that? when in fact if i had just made the dinner plans, i could say "well it was interesting meeting you" and go home? 
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I personally don't see the point in going on a "date" with someone I am not compatible with. That's how you end up with horror stories about people doing/saying awful things on dates. I prefer to invest a little time in getting to know a bit about the person first. Yeah, it's just a date but I'd rather not if I sense things about the person that wouldn't jive in the future. Alright, understandable, but what if you have exchanged not only mails and texts but you had hours of conversations with the person previously and he was nothing like a freak? |
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if at dinner they burp and say" theres a kiss for you" This is one of my stepdads famous lines! Along with "pull my finger" and "help, I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body" My mom is such a lucky lady
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