Just a little warning to you ladies...If you live in a very small town like I do, be cautious about what sites you join, and what pics you put up. On one of the banner ads on the rt side of the mingle page, just saw a lady from here. I recognized her so I clicked on it She had a rather, or should I say quite, explicit pic on there. She is married and I know both her and her hubby quite well. I wonder if I am going to look at her whenever we meet, in town, at church, etc without visualizing the pic or busting out laughing. Do y'all think I should bring it up in conversation with her or just silently LMAO? What would you ppl do? open to suggestions.

Oh I would definitely call her out. She's the one taking the chance by putting it up there so she'd better be strong enough to take the heat.

Unless her husband knows and doesn't care, I feel for him. Poor guy.

"BUSTED"

Take the high road and leave it alone... let somebody with less tact bring it up. You know, this wouldn't only apply to ladies...

bad thing is, how many ppl just rt click, save pic as....That stuff is out there forever, and you cannot get rid of it. could be embarrassing when your kids/gkids say"Is this you gma?"

Oh I definitely agree,men too. Just happened to be a lady 'cause they don't show us guys pics of dudes.

hey willy,you can get into enough trouble on your own,no need to borrow others
MYOB and leave it alone

Why are you just warning ladies? I'm willing to bet men do the same thing as well.

If i knew them i would tell them but if i don't then i'm not too sure.. I usually mind my business..

eh, I'd just mind my own business..it's her life, not mine.

Live and let live...

Take the high road and mind your own business.

It would be disrespectful, childish and drama-like to "out" someone. A lot of people have secrets but it's not the business of a stranger or friend to open that wound.

Small towns are notorious for gossip activity; don't be a statistic.

I would leave it alone especially if I lived in a small town. To each their own.

I would have to f!ck with her a little bit........

hey this is america. she has a burning desire to let it all hang out.
in each person, there is some hidden desire to prove or disprove the fact we/they are beautiful/handsome/alluring.

cyberspace can do all that....until some snitch finds out and catches up with the fantasy.

shutup and when u c her smile. for you know her secret.
my advice for an old lady for what it is worth.

I agree

Discretion is the better part of valor but people will be people. It's not 1955.

Live and let live and don't judge. Who cares what other people do anyway? Some people act so pious and goodie it makes me ill. I don’t agree with a married person posting on a dating site – and as far as the picture – for a single person that’s no big deal.

This type of situation is much ado about nothing. (not to the OP necessarily but "get a life" comes to mind).

I wouldn't say anything to them. Good to know what there up to though. People never stop surprising us huh ? Ya just never know...

Ya'll are no fun.............

that person made their bed...let 'em lay in it.

tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own

hey now .. I AM

I think he should NAIL HER AZZ to the wall

Actually it's exactly the opposite. It's why people die in the streets in NYC or CT, because people DO JUST mind their own business.

Walk the other way when someone is in danger or threatened.

Puhleeze .. people have become focused on ONE thing .. staying out of anyone else's demise.