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Ya'll are no fun............. 
 hey now .. I AM
I think he should NAIL HER AZZ to the wall 
 I'm with you. Think I really just gonna laugh and wink at her...make her wonder what I am up to.
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own Actually it's exactly the opposite. It's why people die in the streets in NYC or CT, because people DO JUST mind their own business. Walk the other way when someone is in danger or threatened. Puhleeze .. people have become focused on ONE thing .. staying out of anyone else's demise. 
... but this isn't a life or death situation. I agree with you in a situation of violence but this is only a situation of a private life exposed. |
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own I have to disagree. A big problem today is nobody gives a chit about anybody but themselves. I know I would want to know if my wife was running around like that. I would enjoy making her sweat but I am a little bitter......
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Edited by
msmyka
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If you know her well enough to tell her with out exposing her to her husband I would let her know. There's a chance it could be someone else who high jacked her pictures and she doesn't even know about it. If you approach it that way she can save face.
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I live in a very small town too, and have seen people in the community that I have recognized from online dating sites. Never say a word about it. I've seen the trouble it has caused when a co-worker (female) found some pics of another co-worker (female) on a dating site. She was showing them to others a work and talking about what a slut the other gal was. And these were not nude photos, racy yes. Halter top, thong, leather chaps................
This kind of stuff is small potatoes, I'd keep my mouth closed about it. |
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If you know her well enough to tell her with out exposing her to her husband I would let her know. There's a chance it could be someone else who high jacked her pictures and she doesn't even know about it. If you approach it that way she can save face. Excellent point m'dear 
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I live in a very small town too, and have seen people in the community that I have recognized from online dating sites. Never say a word about it. I've seen the trouble it has caused when a co-worker (female) found some pics of another co-worker (female) on a dating site. She was showing them to others a work and talking about what a slut the other gal was. And these were not nude photos, racy yes. Halter top, thong, leather chaps................ This kind of stuff is small potatoes, I'd keep my mouth closed about it. Well I don't condone GOSSIP of any kind. I'm a straight up kinda person, no behind the back crap .. I'm sayin he should let her know he saw her. That's all. It's a sh*tty thing to do to her husband for God's sake. |
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own I have to disagree. A big problem today is nobody gives a chit about anybody but themselves. I know I would want to know if my wife was running around like that. I would enjoy making her sweat but I am a little bitter......
I'm with you. Not the bitter part, but really .. how embarrassing for her husband. She doesn't deserve to be treated with kid gloves. She's humiliating him. HUGE BAD IMHO.  
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own Actually it's exactly the opposite. It's why people die in the streets in NYC or CT, because people DO JUST mind their own business. Walk the other way when someone is in danger or threatened. Puhleeze .. people have become focused on ONE thing .. staying out of anyone else's demise.
Someone dying and someone cheating are much different situations. You can't compare the two. |
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own I have to disagree. A big problem today is nobody gives a chit about anybody but themselves. I know I would want to know if my wife was running around like that. I would enjoy making her sweat but I am a little bitter......
I'm with you. Not the bitter part, but really .. how embarrassing for her husband. She doesn't deserve to be treated with kid gloves. She's humiliating him. HUGE BAD IMHO.
For all we know he knows and condones it.........I would not be a busy body in this situations. Flirt with her all you want....but he can see where she has visited on the pc....not hard to do....especially if you know the correct ms-dos commands. |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Mon 06/14/10 12:38 PM
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If you know her well enough to tell her with out exposing her to her husband I would let her know. There's a chance it could be someone else who high jacked her pictures and she doesn't even know about it. If you approach it that way she can save face. This is the best reason to leave it alone because - no one - and I mean not one person knows the entire story. If she is innocent then a nosy person might ruin her life with gossip and conclusions! It's not the business on anyone to judge or butt-in when it doesn't involve them. If she is doing everything bad - let her deal with her own consequences. |
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own Actually it's exactly the opposite. It's why people die in the streets in NYC or CT, because people DO JUST mind their own business. Walk the other way when someone is in danger or threatened. Puhleeze .. people have become focused on ONE thing .. staying out of anyone else's demise.
Someone dying and someone cheating are much different situations. You can't compare the two. I believe it was just an example of people not giving a chit about one another. I don't think it was intended as a comparison.....
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own Actually it's exactly the opposite. It's why people die in the streets in NYC or CT, because people DO JUST mind their own business. Walk the other way when someone is in danger or threatened. Puhleeze .. people have become focused on ONE thing .. staying out of anyone else's demise.
Someone dying and someone cheating are much different situations. You can't compare the two. Oh I'm not really. I was just responding to the comment that people always mind everyone else's business .. and they don't. It was actually a separate issue for me. Shoulda said that. 
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If you know her well enough to tell her with out exposing her to her husband I would let her know. There's a chance it could be someone else who high jacked her pictures and she doesn't even know about it. If you approach it that way she can save face. This is the best reason to leave it alone because - no one - and I mean not one person knows the entire story. If she is innocent then a nosy person might ruin her life with gossip and conclusions! It's not the business on anyone to judge or butt-in when it doesn't involve them. If she is doing everything bad - let her deal with her own consequences. Like I said I think if he approaches it this way to her, discretely she can rectify the situation if there is in fact a situation to rectify. |
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It's not the business on anyone to judge or butt-in when it doesn't involve them. Ok. Say you live in an apartment and while you are work a strange man is sniffing around your apartment. Should your neighbor tell you about it? Not really her business............ |
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If you know her well enough to tell her with out exposing her to her husband I would let her know. There's a chance it could be someone else who high jacked her pictures and she doesn't even know about it. If you approach it that way she can save face. This is the best reason to leave it alone because - no one - and I mean not one person knows the entire story. If she is innocent then a nosy person might ruin her life with gossip and conclusions! It's not the business on anyone to judge or butt-in when it doesn't involve them. If she is doing everything bad - let her deal with her own consequences. Like I said I think if he approaches it this way to her, discretely she can rectify the situation if there is in fact a situation to rectify. Oh I agree with you 100% |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Mon 06/14/10 01:10 PM
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It's not the business on anyone to judge or butt-in when it doesn't involve them. Ok. Say you live in an apartment and while you are work a strange man is sniffing around your apartment. Should your neighbor tell you about it? Not really her business............
That is totally different! Of course if someone is in danger of burglary or a break-in - a neighbor should be vigilant. The same goes for someone witnessing an act of violence on the street. This situation is entirely different. I agree with Myka that IF the guy knows the lady well enough to approach her privately and demurely – and on the assumption that she may not even know herself – that it could be OK. I still believe this is a situation of “zip it” but there are always exceptions. I just hope the OP is joking when he says he would *wink/nudge* to her about it; that is immature and might possibly inspire gossip. |
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It's not the business on anyone to judge or butt-in when it doesn't involve them. Ok. Say you live in an apartment and while you are work a strange man is sniffing around your apartment. Should your neighbor tell you about it? Not really her business............
That is totally different! Of course if someone is in danger of burglary or a break-in - a neighbor should be vigilant. The same goes for someone witnessing an act of violence on the street. This situation is entirely different. I agree with Myka that IF the guy knows the lady well enough to approach her privately and demurely – and on the assumption that she may not even know herself – that it could be OK. I still believe this is a situation of “zip it” but there are always exceptions. I just hope the OP is joking when he says he would *wink/nudge* to her about it; that is immature and might possibly inspire gossip. Just curious where the line was drawn. I don't know the situation. All I know is if it were my wife I would hope someone would smack me upside the head..............
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Ohhh hell I would have to join the site first to see what her profile said. They might be doing this as a couple thing who knows what the issue is. It is not good to meddle in someone else business. But then she did put it out there for the world to see. Sorry if it was me and it was my partner damn right I would want to know what is going on.......
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tend your own back yard...big problem with people today is they mind everyones business but their own Actually it's exactly the opposite. It's why people die in the streets in NYC or CT, because people DO JUST mind their own business. Walk the other way when someone is in danger or threatened. Puhleeze .. people have become focused on ONE thing .. staying out of anyone else's demise.
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