Topic: are men like women?
Wulfenstraat's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:47 PM

Men and women are sooooooo different

we are wired as humans and preconditioned since birth to be different

ya know

sugar and spice
etc

if a man shows signs of feminitity he is considered "wimpy" "nice" etc

if a woman shows she's strong she is considered "a dyke""naggy" etc

and we take it with us through adult hood

where we end up on Internet social sites

looking for the "right one". Lol. :heart:


Wonderful

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:48 PM
I can't wait to get my nails done, then shoe shoppingshocked

Mayhem_J's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:49 PM

I can't wait to get my nails done, then shoe shoppingshocked


Ohhh ohhh mani/pedi date!!

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:49 PM
I can't wait to plop down with a beer and the remote and put my hand in my pants..

Mayhem_J's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:50 PM

I can't wait to plop down with a beer and the remote and put my hand in my pants..


drool

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:52 PM


I can't wait to get my nails done, then shoe shoppingshocked


Ohhh ohhh mani/pedi date!!




Yes & now that the charge card is almost paid time to max that toolaugh

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:52 PM
It's a chick thing, you wouldn't understand...smokin

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:53 PM

I can't wait to plop down with a beer and the remote and put my hand in my pants..




Al Bundy is that you?:laughing:

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Sun 07/11/10 03:55 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 07/11/10 04:09 PM

I'm not sure I exactly understand your question.

I think you mean in terms of the roles that men and women play in society and culture.

Generally, men are conditioned to believe that it's a terrible idea to display weakness. If you look at psychological studies that's one of the most common fears that men have - being viewed as weak.

I think of it more as unskillful and skillful action. Sometimes you have to act a certain way regardless of how you feel at that moment. This is true for men and women.

In general, I do think that women tend to be more emotional and empathic (that's not a bad thing). That's the biggest difference to me.


emotional? have u seen a room full of Dallas Cowboys fans after a loss to the Giants? U don't wanna go there

but ya, women cry more easily. Is it genetics or programming of a social nature

empathetic? toss up. I think it depends on the individual. Men may demonstrate their empathy differently

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:55 PM


I can't wait to plop down with a beer and the remote and put my hand in my pants..




Al Bundy is that you?:laughing:


You can call me Al

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Sun 07/11/10 03:55 PM

I can't wait to get my nails done, then shoe shoppingshocked
can I go?

no photo
Sun 07/11/10 03:56 PM
Men and women are both bipedal. The End.


ValentinaSS's photo
Sun 07/11/10 06:39 PM


more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?

I find this question impossible to answer, as people`s personalities vary so widely. Blanket statements just don`t apply.
LOL, a male co-worker of mine calls me 'Dudelike' - Whaaat???
laugh

Or,,,,,am I missing something????

heavenlyboy34's photo
Sun 07/11/10 06:46 PM
I'm right, women are wrong. When they see the light, they will adore me. :wink: love :laughing:

Wulfenstraat's photo
Thu 07/15/10 07:54 AM



more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?

I find this question impossible to answer, as people`s personalities vary so widely. Blanket statements just don`t apply.
LOL, a male co-worker of mine calls me 'Dudelike' - Whaaat???
laugh

Or,,,,,am I missing something????


You're missing something. And it's obvious.

Jhavez's photo
Thu 07/15/10 12:33 PM

more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


You must be talking about male pride. More on this at:

www.malepride.com

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Thu 07/15/10 12:39 PM
My guy friends and I are going to spend the day watching the Twilight movies as we do each others back hairs.

OKCUTIE67's photo
Thu 07/15/10 12:53 PM
Lord I hope men aren't like women! What fun would there be in that?? yawn

sherry4382's photo
Thu 07/15/10 01:04 PM

Lord I hope men aren't like women! What fun would there be in that?? yawn


Amen to that sista!!drinker

I like mine rough, dirty, and ready for action!!bigsmile devil

msmyka's photo
Thu 07/15/10 01:07 PM
Edited by msmyka on Thu 07/15/10 01:07 PM

more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


The way I see it Men and Women are on 2 completely different spectra.

WOMEN:

Feminine ___________________________________ Masculine


MEN:

Masculine ___________________________________ Feminine



We each fall somewhere in between on our respective spectrum but the lines do NOT intersect.

Ok class, that's all for today tongue2