This is a counter thread to the "why are you here"?

Here is the real reason:

You have made a mistake either

-before
-during
-after

your last relationship. The theory of "not my fault" doesn't work. It takes 2 to fail a relationship. Once you admit to yourself that you aren't a sweet angel who never makes a mistake and forgive yourself (we are all humans), then you are on the right track.

And if you had more failed ones, than that reapplies, that you ran in the mouse wheel more times, only to fall out of it and then realized (after a while) that you weren't getting anywhere, no matter how fast or hard you were running.


One thing is sure, you cannot fail if you never try and failing is not a bad thing when it comes to relationships, but take it as a challenge you have gone through.

Anyone who says that they have never had a failed relationship, they are either lying, never had a relationship, or living in a fake shallow world, and most likely less experienced than you or me (supposedly anyone reading this is a single who had failed relationship(s) on this dating site.

I am single because I have no job, and i don't get out much, and i have mental issues, and i often get drunk and act like a retard, and im pretty selfish to be honest. Oh and i lack confidence, and im attracted to women who say im too young for them...

Hmmm.. Why i'm single.. Because my girl bought me a sandwich while i was sick.. I didn't eat it so all she wanted to do was argue about why i didn't eat the sandwich.. So i stayed away from her for a whole month.. This is actually a true story..

I'm single because I'm not _______________ enough.

Different men use varying adjectives but the answer's always the same.

Because I'm broken.