No, sorry about that. When we're responding, your picture and name are not visible. I just remembered how it soundede from your profile. Sorry again.

So, Msmyka, now that you know why the rest of us are here, care to tell us why you are here?

I am certainly not here to complain about how much I hate men LOL.... I men

I have been on other sites and I love the freedom you get with Mingle2 to post on any topic (related to dating or not). The fact that we can interact with anyone and everyone is great, I do not need to be told by computer software who I am compatible with.

I would still post here even if I never got a single date from this site.

I love women, generally speaking; I have loved women, in particular; and I have been loved by women, a whole lot I women

The fantasy flared up that I might find someone. The reality came back quickly with no one but some wonderful friends.

I enjoy the forum, and get interesting insights on men and women.

Gender has nothing to do with it, the power of persuasion is everything.

My girlfriend and I still come here. It's much more than a dating site (even though we met on here long ago)!

I am on another dating site, which of course won't allow posting topics , only making my profile and wait.

Sort of like fishing. Put a bait on the hook and wait for the fish to bite.

Interestingly, I had about 35-40 women who checked out my profile but only 2 responded. I sent out about 20 mails within one week. So women are certainly looking, I'm just not as "popular" with the majority of the women, I accepted that. Or basically not as popular on the internet dating sites . All my exes were not from any dating sites, but just meeting them at parties or just meeting them by chance.

The first time I ever had a profile up on a dating site must had been at least 10 years go on yahoo or AOL or something like that, and I had as much luck as I'm having here, so it's not like a surprising thing for me. I just recently had a good conversation with a lady at Walmart, both of us buying insect killer for the grass trying to decide which one is worth it, just to prove that real-life face to face - first meeting is still heads and shoulders above internet dating.

Maybe thats because in real life conversation you don't go on and on complaining about the opposite sex?

Be that person here.

Or maybe because they are local and I see them as a more realistic opportunity then what is available here. And you might get the impression, that "all I do is complain" but I'm sure other members can attest that's not true. I talk about anything.


Although this week I did create plenty of topics here in the relationships sections and it seems like I'm nothing but complaints, others only see it as a topic of conversation that draws a lot of attention, others might see them as complaints. So why I'm here? I don't know. I think I'm just searching to see how people think. It's a good way to have an idea about what interests the most and what they think or what kind of an opinion they have they might not say face to face.

I quit this place for a few months ago, since seemed to be very slow and - from my point of view - a waste of time for me to be using it as a source of a potential date or a relationship. So I'm pretty much just doing what others do who aren't looking for dates here, couples and just friends talking and having conversations etc.

I have also figured, if my topics weren't interesting , they would sink away anyway by more interesting topics and people wouldn't reply, and if they would deem to be offensive, I'm sure a moderator would delete them or remove them and maybe I would get suspended.

At the meantime, I still don't find it interesting enough to talk about insect killers here on the dating site, neither think it would improve my chances anyhow.


edit: I fixed some of my grammar mistakes.

I never once said all you do is complain and I do know there is another side to you. I'm trying to tell you to show that side here more.

So which is more outrageous? The topics I'm creating or the fact that I only show a one side of myself?

The latter

Actually if you take life to seriously you'll never make it out alive.

I'm here to see something nekkid!

So why would someone do that in your opinion?

Hmm?

Oh golly I don't know maybe so they can meet someone who is compatible with them

Would you have a look at my post "Women are Whack" for your opinion. I do value your opinion, otherwise I wouldn't ask.