Topic: What'll ya have? Hottie or COOL .........
Fade2Black's photo
Sun 06/06/10 08:32 PM

Can't we have both? I know, it's asking quite a lot, but as long as I'm dreaming...whoa



Sure. In a perfect world. :laughing:


Actually a person who is "hot" and doesn't know it IS cool =)

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 06/06/10 08:33 PM

I want a trophy wife. I'm so vain!:thumbsup: tongue2



Yes dear, I believe you are. I bet you think this song .. ooops I mean thread is about you too rofl rofl rofl rofl

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 06/06/10 08:34 PM
Actually when I say "cool" I mean like chill. ie .. they gel with everyone and are just awesome to be with.

I don't mean arrogant or full of themselves, cause that isn't 'cool' to begin with. pitchfork Just always on the 'down low' with what's going on around them.

If that makes sense. :tongue:

Goofball73's photo
Sun 06/06/10 08:55 PM


I want a trophy wife. I'm so vain!:thumbsup: tongue2



Yes dear, I believe you are. I bet you think this song .. ooops I mean thread is about you too rofl rofl rofl rofl



And never forget it!!:angry: laugh laugh

imsingle951's photo
Mon 06/07/10 12:17 AM
I alwats just look at whats inside them, and thier heart. As for hot. Dont give a dang about that. I ahve noticed that majority of people go for hot looking. And to me thats wrong. Most people cant help the way they look. Thier looks come from God. So why judge them on what God gave them?

Totage's photo
Mon 06/07/10 12:27 AM

Actually when I say "cool" I mean like chill. ie .. they gel with everyone and are just awesome to be with.

I don't mean arrogant or full of themselves, cause that isn't 'cool' to begin with. pitchfork Just always on the 'down low' with what's going on around them.

If that makes sense. :tongue:


I know what you mean. Someone can be goregous on the outside, but hideous on the inside.

I think it makes a women even more attractive when she knows she's attracive, but she doesn't let it get to her head. Like she has the looks and knows how to handle it.

AmbiantNight's photo
Mon 06/07/10 12:30 AM
I still say give me the geek. Don't care if he is cute or cool. I'm more stimulated by someone who can keep up with me mentally then a pretty face or some slick moves.

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 06:43 AM


Actually when I say "cool" I mean like chill. ie .. they gel with everyone and are just awesome to be with.

I don't mean arrogant or full of themselves, cause that isn't 'cool' to begin with. pitchfork Just always on the 'down low' with what's going on around them.

If that makes sense. :tongue:


I know what you mean. Someone can be goregous on the outside, but hideous on the inside.

I think it makes a women even more attractive when she knows she's attracive, but she doesn't let it get to her head. Like she has the looks and knows how to handle it.



Well put! You are wise beyond your years babe drinker

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 06:45 AM

I still say give me the geek. Don't care if he is cute or cool. I'm more stimulated by someone who can keep up with me mentally then a pretty face or some slick moves.



Oh I DO have to agree there. I always say I don't want someone who can just 'stir' my body, but more importantly 'stir' my mind. For me the two are inseparable. :wink:

no photo
Mon 06/07/10 07:04 AM
Edited by Kings_Knight on Mon 06/07/10 07:04 AM
Cool and a bit on the 'nerdy' / 'geeky' / 'humorous' side ... esp. if she doesn't laff at my 'mighty sword' ...

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 08:25 AM

Cool and a bit on the 'nerdy' / 'geeky' / 'humorous' side ... esp. if she doesn't laff at my 'mighty sword' ...



Ha. Nice. :thumbsup:

no photo
Mon 06/07/10 08:34 AM
Well I am loved by how I am NOT who I am and I think I like that alot better than being a cutie!!! My personality and care for folks (especially all U gorgeous ladies) makes me who I am!!flowerforyou

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/07/10 08:56 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 06/07/10 09:18 AM

I realized today when a guy asked me 3 things I like in a guy that being COOOOOOOOOOOOL was one of them.

I like cool. smokin smokin smokin

Confident, easy going, fun, and all around cool man, real cool .. is just my type of guy.

But some people like 'hot' .. You know like
"Oh she/he's sooo HOT. love love love

Like heartthrob type .. make your skin melt :banana:



To me cooooool IS hot. smokin love

What's your pleasure?


I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veteran’s assoc. Oh, and no kids (not mine and not theirs).

I seem to find guys that are only about 60% of what I am looking for - and I can't be happy with any of the missing elements.

Cool and hot work for me!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:00 AM


I realized today when a guy asked me 3 things I like in a guy that being COOOOOOOOOOOOL was one of them.

I like cool. smokin smokin smokin

Confident, easy going, fun, and all around cool man, real cool .. is just my type of guy.

But some people like 'hot' .. You know like
"Oh she/he's sooo HOT. love love love

Like heartthrob type .. make your skin melt :banana:



To me cooooool IS hot. smokin love

What's your pleasure?


I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veterna's assoc.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:



Hmmmmmmm. Well, I am knocked out because I lack common sense, hate culture, and volunteer? You mean like helping people for free? Hell no. I gets paid. :tongue: laugh laugh

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:01 AM



I realized today when a guy asked me 3 things I like in a guy that being COOOOOOOOOOOOL was one of them.

I like cool. smokin smokin smokin

Confident, easy going, fun, and all around cool man, real cool .. is just my type of guy.

But some people like 'hot' .. You know like
"Oh she/he's sooo HOT. love love love

Like heartthrob type .. make your skin melt :banana:



To me cooooool IS hot. smokin love

What's your pleasure?


I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veterna's assoc.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:



Hmmmmmmm. Well, I am knocked out because I lack common sense, hate culture, and volunteer? You mean like helping people for free? Hell no. I gets paid. :tongue: laugh laugh


Are you still riding that frosting high from your birthday cake? laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:14 AM


I realized today when a guy asked me 3 things I like in a guy that being COOOOOOOOOOOOL was one of them.

I like cool. smokin smokin smokin

Confident, easy going, fun, and all around cool man, real cool .. is just my type of guy.

But some people like 'hot' .. You know like
"Oh she/he's sooo HOT. love love love

Like heartthrob type .. make your skin melt :banana:



To me cooooool IS hot. smokin love

What's your pleasure?


I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veteran’s assoc.

I seem to find guys that are only about 60% of what I am looking for - and I can't be happy with any of the missing elements.

Cool and hot work for me!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


Oh definitely me with the arts .. I love art, theatre, music .. yada yada

& for me they have to love and interact well with children .. since I have 5 =)

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:17 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 06/07/10 09:20 AM



I realized today when a guy asked me 3 things I like in a guy that being COOOOOOOOOOOOL was one of them.

I like cool. smokin smokin smokin

Confident, easy going, fun, and all around cool man, real cool .. is just my type of guy.

But some people like 'hot' .. You know like
"Oh she/he's sooo HOT. love love love

Like heartthrob type .. make your skin melt :banana:



To me cooooool IS hot. smokin love

What's your pleasure?


I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veteran’s assoc.

I seem to find guys that are only about 60% of what I am looking for - and I can't be happy with any of the missing elements.

Cool and hot work for me!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


Oh definitely me with the arts .. I love art, theatre, music .. yada yada

& for me they have to love and interact well with children .. since I have 5 =)


Awesome Judy! flowerforyou

... and I forgot that fact in my thoughts - no kids for me. slaphead

Unfortunately for me, too many guys have kids or they want kids. It a rare gem to find the guy who is OK with not breeding. tongue2

(I love the edit feature). I remembered to add that after all laugh

no photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:20 AM




I realized today when a guy asked me 3 things I like in a guy that being COOOOOOOOOOOOL was one of them.

I like cool. smokin smokin smokin

Confident, easy going, fun, and all around cool man, real cool .. is just my type of guy.

But some people like 'hot' .. You know like
"Oh she/he's sooo HOT. love love love

Like heartthrob type .. make your skin melt :banana:



To me cooooool IS hot. smokin love

What's your pleasure?


I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veteran’s assoc.

I seem to find guys that are only about 60% of what I am looking for - and I can't be happy with any of the missing elements.

Cool and hot work for me!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


Oh definitely me with the arts .. I love art, theatre, music .. yada yada

& for me they have to love and interact well with children .. since I have 5 =)


... and I forgot that fact in my thoughts - no kids for me. slaphead

Unfortunately, too many guys have kids or they want kids. It a rare gem to find the guy who is OK with not breeding. tongue2

(I love the edit feature). I rememberd to add that after all laugh
Hey I got fixed after my divorce, we could practice and no producineg!drool :banana: pitchfork

Holly4459's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:37 AM

I want a trophy wife. I'm so vain!:thumbsup: tongue2
Must she look like the KoolAid Pitcher also?happy

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/07/10 09:38 AM





I've realized I can't settle for anything less than the whole package: a hottie, cool personality, funny, BRAINY, common sense oriented, tall, lean, loves sports, loves culture and theatre, and someone who will volunteer with me with pet rescue orgs and the veteran’s assoc.

I seem to find guys that are only about 60% of what I am looking for - and I can't be happy with any of the missing elements.

Cool and hot work for me!

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


Oh definitely me with the arts .. I love art, theatre, music .. yada yada

& for me they have to love and interact well with children .. since I have 5 =)


... and I forgot that fact in my thoughts - no kids for me. slaphead

Unfortunately, too many guys have kids or they want kids. It a rare gem to find the guy who is OK with not breeding. tongue2

(I love the edit feature). I rememberd to add that after all laugh


Hey I got fixed after my divorce, we could practice and no producineg!drool :banana: pitchfork


I got fixed when I turned 21! That was my prezzie to myself! I didn't want to bar hop - I wanted to be sterilized! :thumbsup: laugh