Topic: I just dont get it!
beautflbutrfly09's photo
Wed 05/26/10 06:02 PM
I may not have a pic n my profile but i have all the rest and if u ask i will tell! But ppl just wanna judge a book by its cover! Makes no sense to me!

no photo
Wed 05/26/10 06:04 PM
PEOPLE DO TEND TO BE MORE INCLINED TO ANSWER IF THERE IS A PIC..GOOD LUCK

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 05/26/10 06:24 PM
Welcome waving

This is an internet dating site; you do not have the luxury of meeting someone face-to-face which may allow your personality to take center stage. A current, attractive picture is necessary to initially attract interest on a dating site.

Your profile file essay is just as important to complete the package of what you have to offer.

Consider posting a few pix or you will limit your success.

Have fun in the forums too! :banana:

Peccy's photo
Wed 05/26/10 06:41 PM
Melody is correct, this is the internet. The only things you have to go on in deciding whether or not you want to get to know a person is a picture and a profile.

Savvy users can spot a fake pic a mile away. So use a casual picture, be yourself. The same thing holds true for your profile. Don't try to portray a different person than you actually are.

Welcome and good luck!drinker

Funluvingguy's photo
Wed 05/26/10 11:38 PM
Hi,

First and foremost if you want maximum exposure to your profile then it is absolutely vital to upload a picture of yourself!You could have the greatest profile in the world but without a picture your chances of success around here will be slim at best.People want to see what others look like when messaging them.I know if I messaged somebody I would want to see a picture of them!So upload some pictures and participate with the forums and I think you will be amazed with the results.All the best to you in your search!

beautflbutrfly09's photo
Thu 05/27/10 08:54 AM
I spent the money for a memory card thinking i could then upload pics from my phone! Boy was i wrong. I give up. Nice know u guys!

ddrruu2's photo
Thu 05/27/10 04:46 PM
Don't give up, there are other ways to get your picture out there. And I think one of the reasons that people want to see a picture of you is because on the internet for all they know you could be a guy. Don't get discouraged. Does your phone send emails? try to attach it to an email and send it to yourself. Or You could send the pic to a friend who can email from their phone. Thats what I had to do cus my phone is a piece of crap.. have a super day!

buttons's photo
Thu 05/27/10 05:28 PM
Edited by buttons on Thu 05/27/10 05:29 PM
people also judge when you do have a pic.. and run.. so i dont know if there is a correct way... rather attracted to you or not. for me i do like people to have a pic... not that has worked out for me.. perhaps try finding someone else on here that does not have a pic up as well?

willing2's photo
Thu 05/27/10 08:17 PM

I may not have a pic n my profile but i have all the rest and if u ask i will tell! But ppl just wanna judge a book by its cover! Makes no sense to me!

I had to take this pic of me down.
Got so many invites from th' gals, danged near wore me to a frazzle.:wink:

beautflbutrfly09's photo
Thu 05/27/10 09:26 PM
Well look at that theres a pic to go with my profile! Now lets test the waters and see what happens! Later guys. Talk to u when im on next time.

Aries151's photo
Sat 05/29/10 03:52 PM
Deactivated.