I'm a guy of 21 going 22 by 23rd of this month.All my life,i've been looking for the right answer 2 the question,but answers seems not 2 be coming.i'd luv 2 hear your views about the question "is it right 2 remain a virgin til marriage".IF THERE VIRGINS IN D HOUSE,i'd luv 2 meet with you.

All that matters is if it's right for you.

I duuno.
I heard that yer balls could explode if you accumulate too much gism.

Welcome, Dude. Enjoy the site!

nothing is wrong staying a virgin untill your married
i met several guys in the past that were. and im petty sure they still are
that your choice on wanting to wait.. and sometimes i think back i should had to.......but then in reality i wouldnt have 2 great kids and 3 awsome grandkids

There's nothing wrong with waiting till you're married to have sex.




...I can't help but laugh at that...sorry

Staying a virgin until marriage is a supreme show of devotion from a guy.

It's going to be a hard road for you because:

1. It is a great accomplishment in this day and age, but don't wear it as a badge of honor. Don't advertise it when meeting women, it will skew their perception of you.

2. It is hard to physically prove that you are a virgin. Most women won't believe you. They are used to men being sexually active and are more likely to think you are lying.

3. Choosing your mate based on their own sexual past (a virgin also?) does'nt automatically make them the right person for you. People make mistakes, you just want to avoid the women who have made mistakes on purpose.

4. If you truly believe in this, DONT GIVE IN, no matter the feelings you may have in the future while dating. If she knows how you feel but then you eventually have sex with her, she's likely to lose respect for you or even worse, you could have been a conquest but you did'nt realize it in time.


I would wish you luck but you don't need it. You need skill. Skill at staying a virgin. It is more of a mental virginity for men. We come crashing down when our strong beliefs are broken. If we don't live what we believe in, our lives have no more meaning than animals.

Seriously hannah just made me laugh .... are you willing to go back to god a virgin ?Don't say no cause you know not might happen today or tomorrow but seriously i don't believe in marriage before sex . what if the guy got a little you know what .

If you spank da' monkey, will you still be a virgin?

Whatever floats your boat, but don't be surprised if you find some women with experience want nothing to do with someone proclaiming to be a virgin.

Monier stated it well, and there's also the fact that not all women feel like "training" a guy that way.

mutters and cusses at the computer...

i love to find a guy who will marry me even if he's a virgin or not
i mean love isn't about having sex or conquering bodies right?

I was a virgin when I met my first husband, we were together for 16 years, but did not wait for marriage vows for a sexual experience. It is all about what you believe and feel in your heart.

Yep.

I think you are awesome. I cant think of ONE reason it would not be allright to remain a virgin, morally or biologically speaking.

Of course. You're ready when YOU'RE ready.

I'm so confused.

Maybe you're only supposed to marry guys with a big you know what. lol

I know what you mean!!!

























































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That's a rule?