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| Topic: Whats the Biggest Lesson You Have Learned from this Web Site | |
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I have been on the internet, for what seems like forever. I have posted on forum boards, moderated forums, and participated in thousands of discussions. I like people, plain and simple. I adopted this philosophy, a long time ago.. and it does work. Especially, in the realm of gaining respect from fellow posters. 1) always try and be positive. "negativity breeds negativity" 2) Try and be open to others ideas. Although you may disagree with an idea/concept, there are a few things that can happen here.. The persons idea may give you food for thought, or may solidify your stance, or perhaps change your mind. It can be a learning experience, or it can be a slug fest. If you want to build character, avoiding confrontation is key. Wallowing in something, self pity, carrying on arguments, will do nothing for character building. 3) This really goes back to the "golden rule" treat others, as you would want them to treat you. I have never been a fan of the Jerry Springer show, and if that's your thing, cool, but keep it off the forums. This will quickly turn people off. 4) Try and use proper grammar. Not everyone can do that, i even make mistakes, but it is never appropriate to bash someone for improper language/spelling. 5) "dispel the myth" Have at least one true picture of you, on your profile. 6) Do not send sexual emails. This may be fine, once you have established some rapport with someone, but first contact emails should always be respectful. These are suggestions, from someone who has watched boards for years, and if you follow the above, your standing in the community, should be easily attained.  
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I can take one look at a guy and/or his profile and tell if I need to block him or not. And I'm always right. 
No offense taken.............
 You keep makin' me belly laugh on a full stomach..
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I have been on the internet, for what seems like forever. I have posted on forum boards, moderated forums, and participated in thousands of discussions. I like people, plain and simple. I adopted this philosophy, a long time ago.. and it does work. Especially, in the realm of gaining respect from fellow posters. 1) always try and be positive. "negativity breeds negativity" 2) Try and be open to others ideas. Although you may disagree with an idea/concept, there are a few things that can happen here.. The persons idea may give you food for thought, or may solidify your stance, or perhaps change your mind. It can be a learning experience, or it can be a slug fest. If you want to build character, avoiding confrontation is key. Wallowing in something, self pity, carrying on arguments, will do nothing for character building. 3) This really goes back to the "golden rule" treat others, as you would want them to treat you. I have never been a fan of the Jerry Springer show, and if that's your thing, cool, but keep it off the forums. This will quickly turn people off. 4) Try and use proper grammar. Not everyone can do that, i even make mistakes, but it is never appropriate to bash someone for improper language/spelling. 5) "dispel the myth" Have at least one true picture of you, on your profile. 6) Do not send sexual emails. This may be fine, once you have established some rapport with someone, but first contact emails should always be respectful. These are suggestions, from someone who has watched boards for years, and if you follow the above, your standing in the community, should be easily attained.
yeah, i concur! |
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I have learned nothing
I am not teachable 
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Watch out for the mall cops................
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Watch out for the mall cops................
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
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Watch out for the mall cops................
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Edited by
Mayhem_J
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Sun 04/04/10 04:46 PM
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
Ummm correction...a nice arse will get you just as far with me. |
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
its not only about the boobies...the first thing i see when i spot a girl that i like is there eyes...if they have nice eyes and a nice smile, then i work my way down and see how nice there boobies are...or there butt...gotta have one of the two 
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1. The Fork and Dork Forums skeeeeer me ... They are like the Mingle Catacombs
2. Alotta Smoke and Mirrors ... Thing/Folks are often NOT what they seem! 3. We like to play Spin the Bottle w/ Frequency ... And Change Partners ala Square Dancin' ... 
4. Do not buy any Snake Oil 5. Don't take the Brown Acid ...
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
its not only about the boobies...the first thing i see when i spot a girl that i like is there eyes...if they have nice eyes and a nice smile, then i work my way down and see how nice there boobies are...or there butt...gotta have one of the two
Good point, gstaats. I like nice eyes myself, and a nice smile is great. A nice azz, a bonus.
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
Ummm correction...a nice arse will get you just as far with me. Sorry, I seem to have forgotten the azz. I stand corrected.
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
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No pic! NO REPLY! Also NEVER EVER IGNORE MY GUT HUNCHES DAMN IT ANDY!
I'm not giving up. No one likes quitters!
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
its not only about the boobies...the first thing i see when i spot a girl that i like is there eyes...if they have nice eyes and a nice smile, then i work my way down and see how nice there boobies are...or there butt...gotta have one of the two
Good point, gstaats. I like nice eyes myself, and a nice smile is great. A nice azz, a bonus.
i always like bonuses
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just wondering what lessons or mistakes you've learned from using this web site? I've learned that the type of person I'm looking for doesn't use dating sites.... |
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I have learned to never be closed off to possibilities.Sometimes u can b pleasantly surprised.
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I've learned that it IS all about the boobies for men.
Not this man.... |
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