Just a brief little introduction to say hello. I'm new to the dating site thing, so bear with me. I just got out of a long term relationship and don't even know if I am ready to date. What i do know is that i would love to get to know some genuine women in my area and share some conversations with them.

Starting all over is hard, I'm not doing the bar scene, the rebound thing, the quick patch fix for loneliness thing. Being single has left a void, and I am hoping that talking to like minded people will help me get back on the saddle again.

I'm the type of person who would really like to take the time to know you before meeting, and am not the guy looking for a quick lay. That kind of stuff was better left for the younger days (although at 31 i guess i am not old.).

Whewwwwww....long winded?

Any advice for a newbie like me? Are there genuine people on the internet or am I in the wrong place.

Cheers Folks.

My suggestion, stick to the forums... it's where most of the active members are. There are tons of profiles on this site that haven't been active in a long time. Other than that, this is a great place to meet people even if you aren't ready for dating yet.

welcome to the site and hope you like asylums

Join in the forums and MINGLE

Thanks for the welcome. :)

I hope newbies can post a lot, because I think I am going to spend this lonely friday getting to know this site a bit better. I have a friend pestering me to play wingman...but I think he will fly solo.

Am I the only one that still thinks that the best way to get over someone is to get on top of someone else is not really a great plan?

I mean I am a pig when i want to be and all...but am i crazy?

LMAO, I use to feel that way but as I get older I find my feelings aren't so easy to get over (or under)

love is like alcoholism...when it is in full swing you have no problems in the world and forget everything around you, when it is gone, you still crave it everyday. Eventually you either move on or be consumed.

I'm talking like I know it all, but i would be a liar if i said getting over real love is easy and that i am out of the woods. Gotta keep pressing on though.

your friend,
the cliche machine.

OMG Love it...

Welcome to Mingle!

thank you melody.:)

@ msmyka it really is, complete with irritability and splitting headaches:p

Unfortunately so