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Topic: Older men are better because......
navygirl's photo
Sun 12/19/10 08:25 PM
Edited by navygirl on Sun 12/19/10 08:26 PM
Most older men have gone through a divorce and are gun shy about getting into a relationship.

mightymoe's photo
Sun 12/19/10 08:26 PM


I saw this online today. It says it perfectly.....

1. You Get Off: He's confident in bed. He knows what he's doing ... and if he doesn't by then, well, then he's hopeless and you don't have to waste your time trying to teach him.

2. He Knows Cool Stuff You Never Heard Of: Generation gaps can be a good thing culture-wise. He can introduce you to music and movies that are totally awesome classics.

3. He's Super Supportive: He's got a career and is secure in his work life, so he’s totally supportive of your ambitions. And probs full of good advice! Not to mention the quarter-life crisis is kinda like the mid-life one.

4. Someone Has Already "Fixed Him Up": That relationship didn’t work out. And now you can reap the benefits of nice shoes and hand towels in the bathroom.

5. He Doesn't Stay Out Late: He might be a ladies' man, but after a certain age, he's not out on the prowl every night in da club lookin' for a fresh piece. He just wants to hang with you.

6. He Knows Himself: Nobody's perfect, and by now, he understands his main foibles. So, he can even communicate them to you to prevent friction.

7. You're The Pretty One: It's shallow, but it's always nice to feel extra sexy.
8. He Doesn't Want To Be Alone: He's already hit that point when men realize they don't want to be all by themselves. Even if they intend to stay confirmed bachelors, they still want company.

9. Salt N' Pepper Hair: So hot. Sure, not every middle-aged guy has got it, but it certainly ups your chances.

10. No More Going Dutch: There won’t be that awkward pause when the check comes; he'll always take it because a man of his years makes more money. You won't even feel the slightest bit guilty.

11. He Is Going To Be This Rad Forever: Some peeps just lose their lust for life at a certain age, but your dude has still got it! He can not only keep up with your young butt, but he piques your interest. You know for sure that time doesn't slow him down. He's always willing to try new things. He's not going to turn into some couch potato all of a sudden. In another 20 years, he’ll still be l-i-v-i-n'.



Wow, please send one my way as that certainly doesn't describe the older men in my area.


maybe you should move to Houston...just saying, u know...

mightymoe's photo
Sun 12/19/10 08:28 PM

Only drawback with older men is they don't want a relationship.


we do, but just don't all the stuff involved in getting to that point... i hate dating, but i like to be comfortable with a woman... kind of a catch 22

no photo
Sat 02/12/11 10:38 PM
wow...
thank you, that is just on target...i prefer them mature...

Ash36's photo
Sat 02/12/11 11:36 PM

I love men my age and a few years older..their incredible. The young studs have nothing over them..



You might be right., there are hot older guyz., but we all hate to be old., i appreciate hot old guys who are still in shape...

Hey., but we young studs still rocks

msharmony's photo
Sun 02/13/11 05:55 AM
I would think an older man would have old fashioned values, be more chivalrous/masculine

but nowadays, so many people are trying to NOT BE their age and maintain 'youthful/childlike' qualities that its a real toss up what you might get from an older man

KAY KAY 's photo
Sun 02/13/11 07:10 AM

I would think an older man would have old fashioned values, be more chivalrous/masculine

but nowadays, so many people are trying to NOT BE their age and maintain 'youthful/childlike' qualities that its a real toss up what you might get from an older man


I completely agree!!!!

GodsLight's photo
Sun 02/13/11 02:19 PM
Talk about making a guy feel good......
blushing

mylifetoday's photo
Fri 02/18/11 01:04 AM
I think part of it is older men have already dealt with their faults and realize what is important to them. They play to their strengths and know their weaknesses.

As for me, I know what I want. I know I will be married again someday. But, being older, I don't want to waste my time dating someone that won't go anywhere. Still need to date a few times before you know one way or another. But I have no interest in either stringing a woman along or being strung along on a relationship that won't go anywhere. Friendship on the other hand is a different matter all together.

On the flip side. The same types of things apply to older women. They really know what they want and aren't shy about going for it if they like you. :smile:

I don't like the word older. How about mature? :smile:

kissablekiss's photo
Fri 02/18/11 12:11 PM
yep i like older folks[no sexual pun intended] ....easier to communicate with ....not into childish games ....but seriously some older folks are immature ...
but we all gotta live until we go 6ft below right ,so lets make the most of life while we can ....

keithmolle's photo
Fri 02/18/11 12:17 PM
im on here

keithmolle's photo
Fri 02/18/11 12:18 PM
not all of us

kissablekiss's photo
Fri 02/18/11 12:29 PM
go back to ma previous post ...keyword some ...

mylifetoday's photo
Fri 02/18/11 04:16 PM

yep i like older folks[no sexual pun intended] ....easier to communicate with ....not into childish games ....but seriously some older folks are immature ...
but we all gotta live until we go 6ft below right ,so lets make the most of life while we can ....


yeah, it is fun to just talk sometimes.

I know for me, I try to make sure I understand what is being said as well as making sure I am being understood. Communication only works if both people understand the same thing. :smile:

When you are twenty something most are still wondering what life is about. When you are older, you have a fairly good idea what is important. At least what is important in your own life. :smile:

kissablekiss's photo
Fri 02/18/11 04:50 PM


yep i like older folks[no sexual pun intended] ....easier to communicate with ....not into childish games ....but seriously some older folks are immature ...
but we all gotta live until we go 6ft below right ,so lets make the most of life while we can ....


yeah, it is fun to just talk sometimes.

I know for me, I try to make sure I understand what is being said as well as making sure I am being understood. Communication only works if both people understand the same thing. :smile:

When you are twenty something most are still wondering what life is about. When you are older, you have a fairly good idea what is important. At least what is important in your own life. :smile:
Got my head on my shoulder ... i know what i want , sadly i can't say the same about others ....yeah i really enjoy talking to older folks -well the mature ones...
think i already know whats important ...from what not !!

navygirl's photo
Fri 02/18/11 05:06 PM



I saw this online today. It says it perfectly.....

1. You Get Off: He's confident in bed. He knows what he's doing ... and if he doesn't by then, well, then he's hopeless and you don't have to waste your time trying to teach him.

2. He Knows Cool Stuff You Never Heard Of: Generation gaps can be a good thing culture-wise. He can introduce you to music and movies that are totally awesome classics.

3. He's Super Supportive: He's got a career and is secure in his work life, so he’s totally supportive of your ambitions. And probs full of good advice! Not to mention the quarter-life crisis is kinda like the mid-life one.

4. Someone Has Already "Fixed Him Up": That relationship didn’t work out. And now you can reap the benefits of nice shoes and hand towels in the bathroom.

5. He Doesn't Stay Out Late: He might be a ladies' man, but after a certain age, he's not out on the prowl every night in da club lookin' for a fresh piece. He just wants to hang with you.

6. He Knows Himself: Nobody's perfect, and by now, he understands his main foibles. So, he can even communicate them to you to prevent friction.

7. You're The Pretty One: It's shallow, but it's always nice to feel extra sexy.
8. He Doesn't Want To Be Alone: He's already hit that point when men realize they don't want to be all by themselves. Even if they intend to stay confirmed bachelors, they still want company.

9. Salt N' Pepper Hair: So hot. Sure, not every middle-aged guy has got it, but it certainly ups your chances.

10. No More Going Dutch: There won’t be that awkward pause when the check comes; he'll always take it because a man of his years makes more money. You won't even feel the slightest bit guilty.

11. He Is Going To Be This Rad Forever: Some peeps just lose their lust for life at a certain age, but your dude has still got it! He can not only keep up with your young butt, but he piques your interest. You know for sure that time doesn't slow him down. He's always willing to try new things. He's not going to turn into some couch potato all of a sudden. In another 20 years, he’ll still be l-i-v-i-n'.



Wow, please send one my way as that certainly doesn't describe the older men in my area.


maybe you should move to Houston...just saying, u know...


I keep hearing about how great the guys are in Texas; maybe I should check this out myself.

KAY KAY 's photo
Fri 02/18/11 05:17 PM
HMMM, I love southern men!! :wink:

no photo
Fri 02/18/11 06:22 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Fri 02/18/11 06:26 PM

just because there is snow on the roof...
doesnt mean there is no fire below ! drinks :banana: pitchfork


most likely to be a fire down below - an appreciative one as ur done with "the prowl" and sex isn;t " all about me (him)" with guys who are a little more mature

just like we older girls are valued because we're past the games and whiny pouts

no photo
Fri 02/18/11 06:23 PM


I love men my age and a few years older..their incredible. The young studs have nothing over them..



You might be right., there are hot older guyz., but we all hate to be old., i appreciate hot old guys who are still in shape...

Hey., but we young studs still rocks


especially when they turn their homework in on time (j/k)laugh :wink: waving

Tessa02's photo
Fri 02/18/11 09:29 PM
My ex was 11 years older & the only way to get turned on was to pretend I was the remote!! My BF is 4 years younger than I am & we get along great & have more in common. JMHO

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