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Topic: honesty
magz_forever Joined Sun 04/04/10 Posts: 5	Sun 04/04/10 09:51 AM
you just ignore me i want a honest guy

magz_forever Joined Sun 04/04/10 Posts: 5	Sun 04/04/10 09:52 AM
Hi my name is chris and im from houston texas how you doin? hey your so cute

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sun 04/04/10 10:41 AM
people want honesty but not meanness

spooky1 Joined Mon 12/08/08 Posts: 941	Mon 04/05/10 05:34 PM
honestly: nobody is perfect .

DKD1 Joined Tue 04/06/10 Posts: 13	Sat 04/10/10 01:31 PM
I have been known for my honesty lol, I was told by my supervisor one time, "that sometimes truth is better left unsaid". lol I guess I shouldn't have brought up the fact we did not get our raises they had promised us in a staff meeting.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 04/10/10 01:54 PM
people want honesty but not meanness honestly?

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 01:59 PM
why is people ask for honesty and then get all ticked off when i give it to them...and really I am not mean about it just blatently honest! because they are just giving lip service..i give them honesty whether they want it or not...but if they ask me for it then get all mad about it then i just write them off....i dont want insincere people in my life .....its a way of weeding out the BS

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 04/10/10 02:00 PM
We all know our honesty and we keep it in difference places within us. Some who use it daily and never lie,,have no problems confronting theirs or anothers easily. Some who lie a tad bit,,find it out-going to use. Some who use it rarely,,will not touch their's..as to bolt out a quick false-hood to them,,or to an answer.. As to your question as most don't want to HEAR anothers truth to them,,,,simply,,THEY shouldn't of ASKED FOR IT!!,,wink If they can't take the truth,,,then they need to change what theirs is..

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 02:03 PM
people want honesty but not meanness honestly? ok....not cynicism........jaded.....

Duffy Joined Sat 10/07/06 Posts: 3775	Sat 04/10/10 02:04 PM
well ms. indiana...i would say people really don't want to hear the truth. is that an Easter Island statute u have in front of u? i know where wabash, IN is...close 2 u?

spooky1 Joined Mon 12/08/08 Posts: 941	Sat 04/10/10 06:38 PM
honestly : their are lots of awesome people on mingle.

denajo95 Joined Sat 04/10/10 Posts: 38	Sat 04/10/10 07:08 PM
Sometimes it isn't the honest OPINION that offends, it's the DELIVERY of that opinion. You have to be careful of your tone of voice and your facial expression when you give an honest opinion - sometimes that is what people get upset about. Also, choose your words carefully. Personally, I don't ask for honest opinions because I have learned over my life experience that everyone is so into himself/herself that their opinion of you is going to be waaaaaay off.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sat 04/10/10 08:04 PM
why is people ask for honesty and then get all ticked off when i give it to them...and really I am not mean about it just blatently honest! and the truth shall set you free

lovet0havefun Joined Tue 08/11/09 Posts: 468	Sat 04/10/10 08:06 PM
Truth hurts, but maybe don't be so "blatant"

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sun 04/11/10 12:49 PM
people want honesty but not meanness honestly? ok....not cynicism........jaded..... ....hahahaha!!!...nup. Realistic truths!

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sun 04/11/10 12:55 PM
people want honesty but not meanness honestly? ok....not cynicism........jaded..... ....hahahaha!!!...nup. Realistic truths! where have yoy been all my life..

Duffy Joined Sat 10/07/06 Posts: 3775	Sun 04/11/10 02:42 PM
from my life experience, u ain't gonna get honesty so furget it.

Stephen101 Joined Thu 04/02/09 Posts: 3243	Sun 04/18/10 07:49 AM
honestly : their are lots of awesome people on mingle. hear hear!! This is the best social networking site ever!! on most sites there are 99% rude people, 1% nice, on this sight it's 99.99% friendly, and the one odd rude freak that shows up every 12 months. That's at least been my experience.

Kings_Knight Joined Sat 01/31/09 Posts: 3718	Sun 04/18/10 08:10 AM Edited by Kings_Knight on Sun 04/18/10 08:11 AM
why is people ask for honesty and then get all ticked off when i give it to them...and really I am not mean about it just blatently honest! Over the years, I've learned that, unless the person asking is someone I've known for years, the best response is to NOT tell them the truth. They're usually not looking for 'honesty' or 'truth' - they're looking for 'confirmation' or 'validation' - entirely different response set needed there ...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 04/18/10 08:25 AM
why is people ask for honesty and then get all ticked off when i give it to them...and really I am not mean about it just blatently honest! Well, some people don't really want to hear the truth. BUT, it is very important in how you present the truth. It's all in the words you use or don't use.