For sure for it is very inconsiderate the way they did it there was no miss communication as far what had been discussed.

Nor was there anything else that came up that changed the plans. Well except they evidently had no intentions of following through what they had asked. They are the ones that ask me to go I even asked at one point were they sure.

I'm sure you were looking forward to going If this is the only times it has happened i guess I'd chalk it up to miscommunications

Hehehehe

This reminds me of yesterdays "revenge" thread and all the soft handed fish bellied responses.....

Here's whatcha do doll. .....

Find something that your "friend" goes nuts over. (Renaissance faire,beer gardens, some blues band that is gonna be playing) and gush about it. "You wanna go? GREAT. I'll pick you up at 7!"

Then wait for the phone to ring. Don't answer till the third call.

"Oops! I forgot all about you! My bad...gotta go...it's starting"

Give them a taste of being ditched.

Just remember.....karma does roll around and sometimes we are that karma.

Hehehehe Krupa I needed that your so right problem is they don't live here was driving through and had asked if I wanted to join them for a few days and they would drop me off on the way back.

I'm not one that gets back by revenge Karma has always prevailed.....

Guess ya win some ya loose some........

Why bring it up..... It is good to call people on their rude behavior.

its mind over matter....if you dont mind, it dont matter

Hummm guess it does matter for I do mind when others say one thing then does something else and it involves me...

That is how I feel I did not bring it up they did more then once and I even asked if they were sure just yesterday.

I agree with Carol on this one.

i have a friend.. a married woman.. friend for 17 yrs.. till last year was one of my best friends her hubby to well.. my ex started hanging out with them when we broke up... and for some reason did not call me as much.... she has called me 2 times from last may -sept.. i called her 3 weeks before christmas to see if she wanted to shop with me.. well i never got to asking she got interupted by daughter and told me she would call me back later that day.. guess what? im still waiting! some friend huh? anyway id be angry... but dont think id call that person back.... a real friend does not do these sort of things... hugs

I'd let them know it was not cool at all.

Hummmm well they could be getting the hint they called me this morning after I tried to call them. I asked them where they were when they replied I said hummmmmmmmm did you forget someone they were 3 hours east of me they were coming from the west.....Their answer was well I did not think you would want me to wake you between 3-4am to go with me.

They have called twice since then did I answer let them think about it for a while I will call them later if they don't call back again......

Yeap, let them stew on it.