Topic: Problem With Mutual Match
LongManeDude's photo
Tue 02/23/10 04:41 PM
I used to be able to select "Your Mutual Matches" below "Account Home", then select "Who Selected Me" (or something similar) on the new screen that came up. Now the new screen looks totally different, and the "Who Selected Me" link is gone. There were six mutual matches there, but they've all disappeared. How will I know if anyone has selected me as a mutual match?

Thanks for the assistance.

buttons's photo
Tue 02/23/10 05:38 PM
you dont have to click on my matches they should of showed up unless you had a slew of them... if so you just press view my matches then all would show up..

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 02/23/10 05:40 PM
Hi LongManeDude,

I'm not a Mutual Match expert, but this might help explain Mutual Match

http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/faq

If this doesn't help, then please let us know and an administrator might be able to assist you better.

best of luck,

Kim

LongManeDude's photo
Tue 02/23/10 08:13 PM
Even after reading the faq, I'm still confused. The faq seems to indicate that mutual matches won't know you selected them unless they also select you. But elsewhere it says to select mutual match to "let her know you're interested." This means that they will know that you selected them, regardless of whether they are interested.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 02/23/10 08:20 PM

Even after reading the faq, I'm still confused. The faq seems to indicate that mutual matches won't know you selected them unless they also select you. But elsewhere it says to select mutual match to "let her know you're interested." This means that they will know that you selected them, regardless of whether they are interested.


this part should explain that:


If you say "Yes" or "Maybe" to a profile, we'll secretly show them your profile the next time they sign in. They won't know you're interested in them - your profile will be blended in with other random profiles that match their search criteria, and no indication will be given as to which is which.


MM is just a fun way of connecting with new people. It's like a fun game, so to speak.

charles's photo
Wed 02/24/10 03:21 PM
To add to yellowrose10's response, I want to point out that a MinglePlus user can tell who expressed interest in him/her via Mutual Match:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/who_is_interested_in_me