Am I the only one who finds it hard to meet people in this day and age? I do understand that people have their clicks and are tight with what they have, but doesn't anyone like to meet new people and sort of expand on their franchise?? I find it so hard to meet people any more. Please if anyone has anything to say or friendly and/or unfriendly advice let's get the real talk flowing. Thank you

Tempae

just because I'm lazy and don't want to type it all out again I would refer you to here


http://mingle2.com/topic/show/263564

On here? Post more in the forums and you'll start getting to know people.

In real life? Find some groups to join that will have people who have the same interests as you do.

Hi and welcome. You have come to a great site! The best way to get to know people here and get yourself known and have fun at the same time is to post OFTEN in the forums. Jump right in, look around at all the many different categories of chats and add to the ones that interest you.

Thank you Miss Singmesweet. Your comment is much appreciated.

Thank you to Mrs. Seamac, your comment and welcome is much appreciated as well.

you've already taken a big step

99% of the new people make one post on one thread and never ever come back

if you make one more post you'll be hooked like the rest of us

and you'll have to go to mingle rehab

Life is fun and if you have other interests, confidence, and a grasp of world affairs in which to have conversations -- that do not include "like OMG" or "Hey bro" or "LOL" -- then meeting people shouldn't be a problem.

If a person schleps around and languishes … well, we know the answer to that outcome.

Oh and smile!!! A smile will attract positivity!

I've never found it hard to get to know anyone. The hard part is finding someone worth the effort.

and someone to trust.

That too, Melody.

welcome to the family and join in the and the and have a

Maybe if we hold their cat or dog for ransome, they might be inspired to post more often.

listen to quiet, he knows what he's talking about. My rehab sessions are 2 hours a week, and I'm still here!

Looks like ya' scared him off, Quiet.
He almost made it to three posts.

do what you do, I play pool and drink beer. When I'm looking, if I see a girl I'm interested in, say shes hangin out with her girlfriends, I would walk up and say hello, introduce myself to all of them but focus on the one girl. Invite her to play a game with me.

Do what you do, dont be shy. say hello, introduce yourself. If theyre interested, they will respond. Leave it in the air

When I see a man I am interested in I rush over to him, knocking down every woman in my path

Then I rip open my shirt and say "Look at these babies!"

Then i lay across his lap, making sure my back is arched-I make it look like the wind is in my hair-I pout

JUST KIDDING!!!!!!!!!

Hop into the forums for a swim


Welcome


Tammy

i wonder how many guys are gonna read that and email you now??
LOL

i get a bus daily. i had this same thought

so i griped my balls and sparked up a convosation with a girl. she seemed happy to talk

i did it again

now ive overcome my own shyness and fear of uncomfortable..umm... rejection? its easy, but you need to be the one to change the world. just fukin speak to people. everyone is scared of first time confrontations. people 30 years ago werent scared. lets change things to improve everyones lifes. grip your balls and do it

well, dont ACTUALLY grip your nuts, it provokes an awkward reception

It's a bit old-fashioned but this always works for me...

Just say hi

and take it from there....