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Topic: What do you think...
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Fri 01/15/10 01:21 PM
Edited by Calleigh12 on Fri 01/15/10 01:21 PM
Thanks for attempting to clarify that for me, however, it's also a friendship site. There's an option of being here for friends on each profile, remember? tongue2

Also, even if I was here for dating, which I am not I'd never date any of the men who had the nerve to contact me. ill

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Fri 01/15/10 01:22 PM
If you are expecting to meet someone to date (and not everyone here is) you should be willing to exchange a current photo. No one like their pictures, but they're never as bad as we think they are.

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Fri 01/15/10 01:23 PM



I wonder about anybody on here that doesn't have a photo of themselves posted. People always say how much they value honesty and how they hate liars. One picture is worth a thousand words. You can usually spot a fake or a liar by their photo...especially if it doesn't match what they say about themselves.


I don't post my pics on here because I don't want men contacting me. The people I want to talk to already know what I look like.

Yeah but it's not like you never posted a pic of yourself. There are pics of me in my profile, just not my avatar. It's cut down on the creep factor.


Exactly. That's why I took them down, I got sick of the nudges and emails and repeated views and being added to favorites lists. I wish I could remove myself from their lists, but I can't, but at least this way they can't stare at me anymore....

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Fri 01/15/10 02:46 PM




I wonder about anybody on here that doesn't have a photo of themselves posted. People always say how much they value honesty and how they hate liars. One picture is worth a thousand words. You can usually spot a fake or a liar by their photo...especially if it doesn't match what they say about themselves.


I don't post my pics on here because I don't want men contacting me. The people I want to talk to already know what I look like.

Yeah but it's not like you never posted a pic of yourself. There are pics of me in my profile, just not my avatar. It's cut down on the creep factor.


Exactly. That's why I took them down, I got sick of the nudges and emails and repeated views and being added to favorites lists. I wish I could remove myself from their lists, but I can't, but at least this way they can't stare at me anymore....


So what your saying is that I can't use your pic as my screensaver no more?:cry: j/k

When I first joined I posted my pic... no contacts
Now I removed my pic and and.......... no contacts

I'm NOT here to date anyways so I figure even if someone posted a pic of their bare arse....It wouldn't make a difference to me as long as what they write made sense.... I'm good with that.

I might be the only guy around that will NOT ask for a pic.
and I'm friggin beautiful!laugh lmao

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Fri 01/15/10 02:48 PM

... when you've made friends with someone online, and you've sent them your pic, but they refuse to send you one of themselves?


It's probably my ex-wife and she's afraid I'll recognize her.


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