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Topic: This may sound strange but...
Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Thu 01/14/10 08:36 AM
No problem. We all think about this stuff. Not me. I don't know how men walk around with penis' controlling them all day. I've often said how glad I was to finally get to middle age and have all those hormones finally settle down. Now I can go out to dinner or a club or play pool with my friends without that constant nagging voice in my head saying "we gotta get laid, we gotta get laid, we gotta get laid"

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 01/14/10 08:36 AM
We would like to know why Totages account has been deactived. Please provide specific and actual reasons for this. Thank you, my generation. methinks he choose to deactivate...

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Thu 01/14/10 08:46 AM
meh, he'll be back in his own time he just turned off his profile for awhile

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Thu 01/14/10 09:00 AM
Yeah he probably deactivated it himself. Doesn't mean he canceled his account. He seemed to have posted several "thought provoking" threads looking for some kind of answers. Hopefully he will be back. If you guys are friends with him off site, perhaps contact him.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/15/10 08:19 PM
you may be a wimmens trapped in a manbody!!! try dressing up as a beautiful lady. shave carefully (everywhere). put on some nice flattering base - something which compliments your natural coloration. maybe earth tones? and a nice matching blouse or dress. don't get too trashy but it is ok to show off your legs if they are really very nice. go out dancing. someplace where the light is not too harsh. and then, when the mood is right - you may find yourself in the arms of a young butch who will really appreciate you. give her and yourself a chance and once you've indulged your inner woman you may never be the same again! just kidding! That's not what I was saying, but even if I were saying that, I wouldn't be happy as a cross-dresser, or even as a trans-gender. It would be a lie, and just become a bigger problem.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Fri 01/15/10 08:20 PM
Nice to see you back,

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/15/10 08:21 PM
Thanks, I had to take a little break, but you know I can't stay away from you people for long.

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Fri 01/15/10 08:21 PM
Well, I would feel much more comfortable in a room full of woman, than I would in a room full of men. i feel better in the room full of men than women...i second what caleigh said, most women are *******

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 01/15/10 08:24 PM
sometimes I think my life would be a lot better if I was born female. I mean I would certainly be lesbian, but sometimes it seems like my mind and personality is more femminine. I'm not saying I want to be a woman, or anything like that. I'm just saying I've always felt ackward in life, especially around guys, like I'm not "one of the guys". I'm not into sports or cars or really much of anything that most guys are into. It seems that I'm more sensitive/ emotional than most men. I don't know, I just kinda wonder sometimes if I were born female, if I would be more comfortable with myself. Not sure exactly what I'm trying to say here, or if it's even coming out right, but... You're not alone. Outside of the fact that I've always played baseball and hockey, I have absolutely nothing in common with most of the guys I know. I don't drink, I don't go to bars, football bores the snot out of me, I don't like working on cars, I have no interest in hunting or fishing, I don't have any particular attraction to boobs -- I'd rather spend my time with female friends, for the most part, and I've always felt that women were smarter, more creative, more interesting, more open-minded, more versatile, better problem-solvers, and more fun to be with than most of the guys I've ever known. Maybe I've just been cursed with a bunch of one-dimensional male acquaintances, but the typical "guy stuff" just doesn't do anything for me.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/15/10 08:29 PM Edited by Totage on Fri 01/15/10 08:30 PM
Aside from baseball and hockey, that's pretty much how I am. Well, I did used to drink, but not really go to bars.

trunner69 Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 762	Fri 01/15/10 08:35 PM
I do not think that you are the only one. Everyone is differnent and expresses themself in different ways. Just because you do not like some of those macho things this does not change what you are. I can tell you that I myself am not a sports nut or a gear head. (Despite have a 2 year degree as a tech and master status) This does not make me less of a man than any other man and you should not let these feelings and thoughts lead you astray.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 01/15/10 08:38 PM
Aside from baseball and hockey, that's pretty much how I am. Well, I did used to drink, but not really go to bars. I never was much of a drinker -- never really liked it -- but I stopped altogether at 22, after having to go through several episodes of people I loved getting killed because of alcohol. There was a point when I decided I just didn't want that stuff in my life at all. I don't miss it, either. The only real problem is that it's pretty much impossible to find anyone on a dating site who doesn't drink!