Ok so we found the nice guys. lol we know exactly where they are.
I wanna know where are the guys that...

stand up for their woman
grab your face lightly when he kisses you
knows how to shut up and eat his dinner and says thank you baby, may I have another?
is willing to use the same towel he showered with yesterday to dry himself off today
thinks whiskey is perfectly acceptable as coffee creamer
knows how to put the seat down, and actually does it.
understands that shiney new pretty things equals more sex
sending me flowers to work equals more sex
"yes dear" is at the top of his vocabulary.
doesn't think farting in bed is sexy.
doesnt mind that I like dirty movies too
knows what soap is and uses it daily.
when I say "my car is doing that thing again" he knows exactly what I'm talking about and goes and fixes it.
knows that fixing things for me equals more sex.
carries his own balls and doesn't make his girl do it for him.
and above all else realizes that he can be nice and a good guy at the same time.

*** adds is with me cuz he wants me, not needs me ( Thanks Txgal)
If I can find all that...

Some have tried, and failed.

Some have tried and they are currently happly married.

and yet some, Like me, Tried, got married, then failed, and will soon no longer be married.

Come on ladies... add to the list. Let's see if there's any men in here that can handle it.

i can handle it

at least you tried. Some times women don't apprecitate what they've got either.

Jill...



Jill...





JILL! WAKE UP!!

no... you already let the fart outta the bag.

Stop pinching me!!! A girl can hope right??

How true. I know of 4 couples right now that have a really great guy,
and the women treat them like crap.

It's sad, but it happens none the less.

Sorry all good but these three.....

knows how to put the seat down, and actually does it.

(I could not give a chit if he does it or not)


understands that shiney new pretty things equals more sex

(if he gets more sex it is because he is good at it not what he can buy)


sending me flowers to work equals more sex

(Flowers will not matter see answer above)


"yes dear" is at the top of his vocabulary.

("yes dear" only means he is not even listening to you HATE THOSE WORDS!!!!)

Very well said.

Its not in what he does, its why he does that matters.

Very well said.

Its not in what he does, its why he does that matters.


Now if you could get my ex wife to see it that way.

Updawg your a sweetheart too bad your not 20-30 years older


Dammit just looked at your age fooled me for sure but ya still a sweetie............

agreed. It's not what he can buy, it's just pointing out that doing special things get things in return. Basically it doesn't go unappreciated.
I've seen guys bend over backward for their woman, give um everything they can possibly want and they still complain cuz they just can't get it right.
I don't care if it's my "favorite" flowers, you can drop off a carnation on my desk and I'll be the happiest woman on the planet at the moment.
And I've given into the fact that men don't listen anyway lol so I went with "yes dear"

agreed. See my other comment. This did come out wrong in my first post.
It's not about what he can buy me, its that he is willing do something to make me feel special.

You forgot belching the national athem.


*sigh* you are absolutely right we can dream

Hey don't get me wrong I'm all for doing for another but I'm a true believer in what one receives one gives. Men as well as women like little things done for them if it is a note saying your the best ect. Ya know the little things will get ya a long way.........

Now to find the man I can do those things with would be a blessing..........

Ya see I don't want someone that needs me I want a man that wants me.......

at least most of the alphabet anyway...

I couldn't have said it better. One sided NEVER works. You get, you give. You give, you get. That's the point I was trying to get across. You just worded it sooo much better then me