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heres what happened today...
i was in a very small liquor store.. while passing the front door , i notice this guy outside on his cell phone.. i dont normally even really notice stuff like that but he was talking about a trip with someone as i passed by, his back was turned to me. but i looked cause he was talking.. i go inside... a man in front of me.. then me in the line.. i saw something move behind me so i glanced.. it was the buff cell phone guy.. somehere between 35-42 not sure..when i glanced he smiled really big..with a flirt look in his eyes.. cant really tell u what was on my face at all!!i just turned back , quick glance.. then it was my turn.. i realize my debit card is the old one ex 1/10.. and forgot my new one at home..cashier says just a minute i said ok because i need to find my debit card anyway.. then thats when i realized i ask her is this card still good told ex date.. the guy behind replies it should be till the end of the month, i guess u will know when she scans it.. and i looked again that big grin... then when done it went through.. he says now that u know its good maybe u could use it on my purchase.. i know i smiled then..i still dont know but there were 2 people behind him.. and i did not know if he was flirting or what..my roommate said he was.. but what am i to do? yanno? ill never see him again lmao! |
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Go back and sit and talk on your phone until the grin shows back up.Ya cant have too many party stores
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Go back and sit and talk on your phone until the grin shows back up.Ya cant have too many party stores  not my idea of fun!! sitting outside of a liquor store they may think im gonna rob them!
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I just shake my azz in front of her. That way, shows knows I want those digits.
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Edited by
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Mon 01/11/10 07:19 PM
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i was thinking.. should i have said sure if u share it with me? omg infront of all those people? or how about your number, or here is mine let me know when u are coming back maybe next time?
honestly im so shy i think my face may have been red! not used to people talking to me that much that i dont know..
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That, or you could have gone with, "Hey big boy! Is that a bottle of crown in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?"
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when he flirts? i seriously dont really know.. i dont get flirted with much... today i thought maybe i did so i came home and told my roommate.. he said the guy was flirting with me.. so what kinds of things do u guys do < in person> when flirting? and what do you expect the gal to do back in return if she is interested? its the funniest thing.. im not shy.. but when it comes to a guy who interests me for a potential date i am the most timid person i think i know... i have come to the conclusion that dating scares the hell outta me.. though ive gone on a few dates..just something im not good at.. probabaly why im single.. I have the same problem that you do about not being shy, normally. But VERY shy if I like a man or think he may like me; stupid; but that is how it is. I think some of that is fear of rejection. My sister is a BIG Flirt with men. She laughs and touches their arm and shyly smiles or whatever; makes lusty comments too them and all of that. Guys love that (or so it appears). Good Luck......who can figure out a man! |
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That, or you could have gone with, "Hey big boy! Is that a bottle of crown in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?"
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That, or you could have gone with, "Hey big boy! Is that a bottle of crown in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?"
I know.....I got em all!
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when he flirts? i seriously dont really know.. i dont get flirted with much... today i thought maybe i did so i came home and told my roommate.. he said the guy was flirting with me.. so what kinds of things do u guys do < in person> when flirting? and what do you expect the gal to do back in return if she is interested? its the funniest thing.. im not shy.. but when it comes to a guy who interests me for a potential date i am the most timid person i think i know... i have come to the conclusion that dating scares the hell outta me.. though ive gone on a few dates..just something im not good at.. probabaly why im single.. I have the same problem that you do about not being shy, normally. But VERY shy if I like a man or think he may like me; stupid; but that is how it is. I think some of that is fear of rejection. My sister is a BIG Flirt with men. She laughs and touches their arm and shyly smiles or whatever; makes lusty comments too them and all of that. Guys love that (or so it appears). Good Luck......who can figure out a man! |
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That, or you could have gone with, "Hey big boy! Is that a bottle of crown in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?"
I know.....I got em all!
he would of run from that one!! and i would have to been driven to that liquor store for another 5th! lmao! and drank some before i went!! that is plain halarious though!! i may have said that after 3 or 4 drinks though! but i doubt it lol!! who the hell can come up with something like that anyway that fast? lol
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That, or you could have gone with, "Hey big boy! Is that a bottle of crown in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?"
I know.....I got em all!
he would of run from that one!! and i would have to been driven to that liquor store for another 5th! lmao! and drank some before i went!! that is plain halarious though!! i may have said that after 3 or 4 drinks though! but i doubt it lol!! who the hell can come up with something like that anyway that fast? lol
Oh...I have come up with some doozies real fast
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Edited by
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Mon 01/11/10 07:35 PM
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im still laughing! i bet everyone at the liquor store would of looked at him<on is pocket area!!!!!!! omg lmao!! maybe something to say to somone that wasnt a good looking man lol! too funny!
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lmao!! im gonna remember that one!! and say it too if he is really really not attractive lol!
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lmao!! im gonna remember that one!! and say it too if he is really really not attractive lol!
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lmao!! im gonna remember that one!! and say it too if he is really really not attractive lol!
Oh come on....the dude has to be worth it to use a line like that. |
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Edited by
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Mon 01/11/10 07:46 PM
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what kind of guy wants his "pocket area" be pointed out when only the cashier was female? the other 2 behind him were men lol!! come on!! im not gay.. but if a guy said that to a gal about a bottle being in her shirt id look lol!
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besides.. i have never been one to look at the so called "package" omg lol!! face first then shoulders and arms.. yea then a butt depending if passed on all the rest.. and what situation im in myself.. only face if im not single and rarely even then!
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heres what happened today... i was in a very small liquor store.. while passing the front door , i notice this guy outside on his cell phone.. i dont normally even really notice stuff like that but he was talking about a trip with someone as i passed by, his back was turned to me. but i looked cause he was talking.. i go inside... a man in front of me.. then me in the line.. i saw something move behind me so i glanced.. it was the buff cell phone guy.. somehere between 35-42 not sure..when i glanced he smiled really big..with a flirt look in his eyes.. cant really tell u what was on my face at all!!i just turned back , quick glance.. then it was my turn.. i realize my debit card is the old one ex 1/10.. and forgot my new one at home..cashier says just a minute i said ok because i need to find my debit card anyway.. then thats when i realized i ask her is this card still good told ex date.. the guy behind replies it should be till the end of the month, i guess u will know when she scans it.. and i looked again that big grin... then when done it went through.. he says now that u know its good maybe u could use it on my purchase.. i know i smiled then..i still dont know but there were 2 people behind him.. and i did not know if he was flirting or what..my roommate said he was.. but what am i to do? yanno? ill never see him again lmao! I think you are reading into this too much.... yea, he was flirting, but not because he was interested in dating you or anything..he was just making flirtatious small talk. Sadly, you will prolly never see this guy again. It's too late now.. Next time don't be so shy, and say something clever back, and see what happens. 
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yea mine isnt a fear of rejection... that doesnt bother me.. but i just get nervous when they are a stranger.. that is why i usually date someone i already know.. or have talked to them for a while even online first even then.. i get nervous sometimes if i really thought i liked them!
stranger or not, its still fear of rejection. 
You date ppl that you already know, cuz you feel that you know in advance, if they kinda like you or not. (Through friends..etc) Casual flirting is not a commitment, just kinda a subtle way to find out if the other person is interested in you a bit or not. No one turns down a casual flirt, they may just not return it...and then you know that they are not interested..Pretty easy isn't it? If anything, its good practice to flirt with EVERYONE! It makes it soo much easier then when a guy that you are really interested in, comes along cuz you're on a roll! |
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