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it's not just dogs if I had a date who said "I don't like your couch" or if she says "I don't like your car" or if she says "I don't like your curtains" she's outta there |
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then again it's not just dogs if I had a date who said "I don't like your couch" or if she says "I don't like your car" or if she says "I don't like your curtains" she's outta there lol,,sensitive about your couch and your curtains? I would have never guessed that about you now, the car,, what guy isnt sensitive about their car,?,,,understandable |
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As long as they take care of their pets well, I don't see an issue. I'd date someone who has pets over someone who didn't like animals any day. yeah, I like pets too, had dogs my whole life. As a mother who has carried two children however, I have a hard time seeing the similarity or comparing the two types of 'children'. My ex used to always go there with 'would you do this to your child or do that with your child' in reference to our dog. I didnt appreciate it much. A baby child is MUCH more defenseless and dependent than any dog,,pack animal or not. |
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As long as they take care of their pets well, I don't see an issue. I'd date someone who has pets over someone who didn't like animals any day. yeah, I like pets too, had dogs my whole life. As a mother who has carried two children however, I have a hard time seeing the similarity or comparing the two types of 'children'. My ex used to always go there with 'would you do this to your child or do that with your child' in reference to our dog. I didnt appreciate it much. A baby child is MUCH more defenseless and dependent than any dog,,pack animal or not. I don't remember comparing a dog to a child. |
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As long as they take care of their pets well, I don't see an issue. I'd date someone who has pets over someone who didn't like animals any day. yeah, I like pets too, had dogs my whole life. As a mother who has carried two children however, I have a hard time seeing the similarity or comparing the two types of 'children'. My ex used to always go there with 'would you do this to your child or do that with your child' in reference to our dog. I didnt appreciate it much. A baby child is MUCH more defenseless and dependent than any dog,,pack animal or not. I don't remember comparing a dog to a child. you didnt, I was referring to my ex |
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No... because I've had such a large variety of pets, it really doesn't shake me.
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I had a boyfriend who had a female cat that would go into heat and attack me to the point of my legs bleeding. He refused to spend the money to get her fixed at the vet.
We are no longer together...not only for this reason though. |
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I'm good with a person with animals. Don't see the point in roaches, however. Love snakes, but not willing to feed them. Love rats and mice more.
However, I get tired of those with "convienent" animals, especially dogs. It's convienent to have them around, but okay to board them all of the time if vacationing. My dogs have always vacationed with me. I also get tired of those who don't take care of their animals, like Cutie mentioned, not spay/neutering them. An intact any animal is a waste. Especially with the amount of work I do with rescue. |
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dogs are pack animals. they are traumatized when seperated from their pack and people are their packs people who have dogs (ususally) bond with them. and it is as hard to be away from them as it is a family member new people and dates and such have to be aware of that. they are not enetering a relationship with just one person but a bonded pair. and some people can't take that and its just too bad for them I have to totally agree, my dog and I are so bonded and well I am a package deal. Not something I will even entertain the thought of changing. We are constant companions, she goes to work with me etc. I was thinking of going to visit a friend in Aussie land.. Hand to change plans I was trying to get my dog to stay with my friend a bit like over night. She loves this person til I got out of her sight then not so happening. She went through horrible seperation anxiety.Vet told me to deal with it. I did look up that Bird spider there is now way I could cope with that. I don't do spider's, snakes and a lot of other creepy crawly things. |
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Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"? Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den. |
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Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"? Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den. There's a scary thought! LOL! |
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Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"? Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den. There's a scary thought! LOL! I know! Can you imagine what a lion would do if you pooped on their rug? |
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Ya it would be totally weird 2 find out smeone has more than 2 of any animal especially if they hit double digits lol
But wat totally annoys me is if someone cares more for their pet than me or humanity in general... u know the guy who loves his dog so much tht if he had 2 choose between u or the dog it would be that's right the dog... Like seriously I know pets r gr8t companions but get ur **** 2gther lol ..just sayn' |
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Ya it would be totally weird 2 find out smeone has more than 2 of any animal especially if they hit double digits lol But wat totally annoys me is if someone cares more for their pet than me or humanity in general... u know the guy who loves his dog so much tht if he had 2 choose between u or the dog it would be that's right the dog... Like seriously I know pets r gr8t companions but get ur **** 2gther lol ..just sayn' What's the difference between saying I'd choose my animals over you, vs I'd choose so-n-so over you? The human factor? What makes any one person worth saving, especially a total stranger? Sorry, I'm taking all of my animals over people. I know very few people worth saving, and those who I do know and like acknowledge that I'd choose the animals over them. Heck, they're the type that would put their animals before me, so it works fine. |
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Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"? Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den. There's a scary thought! LOL! I know! Can you imagine what a lion would do if you pooped on their rug? Somehow I think those claws would be really bad, then! |
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Or, what if they were to spay/ neuter us?
Now I'm freaking out! |
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Or, what if they were to spay/ neuter us? Now I'm freaking out! That might be a good idea! |
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My dog used to try and hump my dates legs.
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I wouldnt go near a women that treats her cats like they are her kids. Freaky! |
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