do u belive that true love and purpose to get green card can exist at the same time . nowadays, lots people looking for Oz as husband /wife to get the green card,but maybe some of them not only for card but also want a serious love. if u r the one what do u think about this situation. belive the true love or be averse to?


i know some cases happened before when people got the green card they dump their hunsbans/wifes because they r useless now. so people geting scare. there still have such kind of person want find the true love but maybe they also need the greed card.

so how many people can accept this ?

I believe it can happen. I know several it HAS happened to.

I also know people that were fooled to believe that the other
person loved them, just to get the card.

I also know people that knew it was for the green card only and
could deal with it.

It all boils down to honesty and trust.

Ditto all depends on the situation....and the 2 involved anything is possible........

It happened to me. I was living with a peruvian room mate and he introduced me to a peruvian gal named Fatima. They wanted me to marry this gal so she can come to the US. $3,000 plus a car upfront, then after marriage and she came, another $2,000. I turned it down as enticing as it was. My question was,"Do I get to sleep with her?" LOL, I mean, come on, if she's gonna be my wife,I'm gonna want to sleep with her. =P They said no. I then made a decision to say no because if I was gonna marry, it was going to be for love. So, I ended up marrying another peruvian girl years later. She got pregnant,had my son, got her green card after 3 yrs of marriage and disappeared with my son. He's now 15yrs old somewhere in California. The only remembrance I have of him is a small photo of him 5 yrs old wearing a maroon and white tuxedo. His memory forever lives on in my heart and in the only photo I still have of him.

-Ruben

I've had experience with this :) For us, it wasn't about the green card,
although we knew that would be a side-effect of the relationship. And
actually, in the beginning, she had no intent on staying in the US, but
as the relationship progressed, it became apparent that staying in the
US would be the thing to do.

So, yes, it can go both ways ... some will get into a relationship with
the ONLY intent of getting a green card, and then there are those
relationships which grow, and where the green card becomes a,
for a lack of a better word, necessity.

I would have nothing to do with it!

See OP, it works out fabulous. I love a happy ending.